July 3, 2008: Camping Gear is Fun

Oreo and I have the day to ourselves at home today. The markets in the US are closed tomorrow and today is a short trading day so work was pretty slow, overall. It was a nice, relaxing day leading into a long weekend. I do have work scheduled for Saturday morning so I will be working some over the weekend but not very much. I will be doing that work from dad’s house.

Amazon reports that our huge collection of new camping equipment has arrived at Dominica’s parents’ house already and is waiting for us to pick up tonight and to take to dad’s house tomorrow to test out before doing some “real”camping next weekend in Watkins Glen, New York with our nieces. We are camping at the Watkins Glen KOA and not at the state park as we need electric and wireless Internet access. I have to have my CPAP so there is nothing to be done about the power requirement.

Today’s shipment includes a queen size sleeping bag for Dominica and I, two pink and faux-fur sleeping bags for our nieces, a really nice Coleman LED lantern, LED and Xenon wide beam flashlight, an enamel-ware settings set, air compressor for tires and air mattresses, two wall mount Coleman fans and our screened Weathermaster Elite tent with built in, remote-controlled lighting system. This is seriously luxurious camping. We also have one “regular height” queen size air mattress as well as our ceiling mount chandelier/ceiling fan combination unit already in the car, ready to go, as well as our tarpoline. The only thing that we have to get yet is our second queen sized air mattress. This new one will be a double height unit to make getting in and out much easier.

Everyone that we know (and that Dominica’s mother knows at work) are trying to get on the waiting list to buy our camping gear once we discover that we don’t like camping 🙂  This will be Dominica’s first ever time camping in a tent so we will see how this goes.  I still see all of this as a cost savings over anything else that we would have done so it isn’t as bad as it sounds.

I wasn’t really busy all day but the day was long because so many people were out today. I ended up working a twelve hour day and we weren’t able to leave Newark to head to Frankfort until about eight in the evening.

Traffic on the New York State Thruway was pretty heavy and it took us much longer than usual to get from Newark to Frankfort with the worst bits obviously being nearer to the city.  We stopped at a Thruway rest stop McDonalds to get dinner and save time but, of course, everyone else had the same idea and it took over forty minutes to get our food.  The poor McDonald’s crew looked like they were about to break down and cry from there being so many people in line.

What makes no sense to me is with McDonald’s having an almost hour long waiting line for food why all the other restaurants in the rest stop decided that closing up at regular time was financially advantageous to them.  I would have stayed open and taken the constant McD’s overflow if it was my money.  People often talk about “greedy corporations” but, in reality, corporations are normally a bit more lazy than greedy.  Had a restaurant owner been present rather than a corporate manager those restaurants would have been open for sure.

For the last half of the drive I listened to Joel Spolsky and Jeff Atwood in their “new” poscast Stack Overflow (episode twelve.)  Dominica secretly listened pretending to sleep and near the end surprised me with the declaration that she enjoyed listening to Stack Overflow because it was two really intelligent people.  Apparently she missed who it was doing the show.  She was shocked to learn that she knew Joel (not in person) and had read some of his articles.  One of the few IT personalities that she knows by name and reputation.  So this is a good sign that we might have found a subversive way to sneak IT learning in without overt objection.

It was almost one in the morning when we finally arrived in Frankfort.

July 2, 2008: Linquistics, Warren, Camping, etc.

Another one of my photographs, from Flickr, is being used in a news article.  You can see a picture that I took of Dominica and my “His and Hers BlackBerries” recently used in an article about “Teen Insomnia Linked to Cellphone Use” on NowPublic.com.

I needed a book that could be carried easily on the train for reading (maybe I need to get an Amazon Kindle device?) so I started reading “What Video Games Have to Teach Us About Learning and Literacy“.  Unfortunately I bought the book late last year and now the second edition has been published and I am stuck with my first edition, out-of-date, version.  Oh well.  The book primarily deals with the knowledge domain of linguistics, not with video games as you might suppose.  This is a serious book.

Today is my day out in Warren so Dominica dropped me at the train station on her way to the office.  It was a busy day at work today.  Being a holiday week lots of people are out so there is always something to do.  I was so busy, in fact, that I never was able to get lunch and had to wait until I got home.

I got to skip my usual hour to hour and a half long train ride home this evening because one of my team members who lives in Kearny, New Jersey – a main suburb of Newark – had driven in today and was nice enough to give me a ride home.  That saved me half an hour or more.

We spent the evening relaxing and watching Third Rock from the Sun.  Tomorrow I am working from home with Oreo.  Friday is a holiday for both Dominica and I so we are traveling up to her parents’ house after work tomorrow where are new stock of camping supplies will be waiting for us.  We got free, two-day shipping, because we are trying out a membership with Amazon Prime.  We will let you know what we think once we try it out for a while.  Then on Friday mid-day we will drive from Frankfort to Pavilion, NY to spend the weekend camping in my dad’s yard to test out our new camping equipment.

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July 1, 2008: Train Coincidences

Today is the last chance to vote for Andy’s OrbTrak in the latest Dice Tech Challenge.  Don’t procrastinate – get out there and vote right now!

I got to sleep in just a tiny bit this morning.  Last night, after Dominica went to bed, I talked to Andy for about an hour and then took the Brainbench Software Business Analyst exam.  I took the BSA certification in 2004 and did fine on it but my certification was out of date and I needed to renew it for some work that I was interested in.

The test is quite a hard one and took me well into the night.  It was long after midnight when I completed the test.  I am very glad that I decided to take the time to do it, though, as I managed to rank number six in the world on the exam by score!  Yay!

I worked from home for just a little bit this morning and then headed on in to Wall Street.  It was warm and humid today.  Pretty uncomfortable for my walk to the office.

On the train this morning I helped a family who were a bit unsure of how to use the PATH train to get to midtown.  I saw them looking confused and offered to help.  It turns out that they are from the Akron, Ohio area near where my family is from around Canton, Ohio, and the one “child” was a college student at Malone in Canton where my grandmother and my aunt both went to college.

While we were talking and I told them that my family was from Ohio they said that the other family in that half of the train car were not only from the same area in Ohio but from Louisville, Ohio, originally, which is the exact village that much of my family, including my father, is from.  So we all got to talking and I gave lots of Manhattan travel directions.  The second family was originally from Louisville but had then moved to Jamestown, New York not that far from where I grew up.  Weird.

For lunch Katie and I met at the Financier Pattiserie at 62 Stone Road.  We got sandwiches and ate out in the street cafe that they have set up there.  It was quite good.  It was not nearly so warm out by the time that we went out for lunch.

Again we spent the evening relaxing.  It is so nice now that we have announced that we are pregnant so that I don’t have to try to hide the fact that Dominica has been going to bed very, very early every day and not doing very much in the evenings because she is exhausted as she is pregnant.  Now, I suppose, the SGL updates make quite a bit more sense.

I did not stay up late tonight as I have to be up early tomorrow to catch the train to Summit.  I will be working in Warren tomorrow.

June 30, 2008: Having a Baby!

Dominica and I have been holding out for the last several months from publicly announcing on SGL that we are pregnant but have decided that, since today is our major halfway ultrasound appointment, to go ahead and to let everyone know!  The quick version is that we are due on November 21st and no, we do not know if the baby is going to be a girl or a boy and we are trying not to find out.

We found out that we were pregnant in April on the weekend when we went to Dominica’s parents’ house and my father drove out to visit with us.  We found out the in the morning before driving up there so it was rather an excitable weekend although we hadn’t seen a doctor yet so we did not announce it to our families just yet – although Francesca knew right away.

Today is our third ultrasound appointment although the two previous were just early screenings.  Today is the “big” ultrasound where they do all of the careful measurements and everything and when the doctor knows what the sex is of the baby.  We were, of course, rather nervous about the appointment today even though the previous screenings went well.

Everything went really well today and all indicators point to the baby being completely healthy.  We were successful at not finding out what the sex of the baby is as well.  So we are probably going to be able to be surprised in late November.

We had a bit of a scare about two months ago when an early blood test informed us that Dominica is a carrier of cystic fibrosis.  CF is a common disease among people of European decent and extremely common among those with Celtic backgrounds.  As Dominica is part Irish and I am part Scottish this caused some concern.  CF cannot manifest itself unless both parents are carriers but when they are the chance of it manifesting is 25% which is extremely high.  That is why I had to have blood work done recently.  Fortunately, I am not a carrier of CF so there is only a 25% chance that the baby will be a carrier and an immeasurably nominal chance of CF manifesting – requiring a failure of the known laws of genetics.

For those who follow SGL regularly you may have already realized that we are house hunting with the intent of moving somewhere by November 1st when our current least at Eleven80 in Newark is up.  Our decision to move back to New York State and to move up the Hudson Valley towards better schools, more open space and lower travel time to our parents’ homes are mostly based on the fact that the baby is coming at that same time.  It is causing a bit of a panic, however, that we will need to move “somewhere” just twenty days before the due date!

Our emergency backup plan, should we not manage to buy a house before our time runs out, is to leave Newark and to move in with my dad near Rochester so that we will have a stable home right when the baby comes.  We will stop house hunting for a month or two and then start looking again as soon as we feel that we can handle moving if we were to find something.  My job is alread prepped for the possibility of my needing so physical location flexibility and everyone is on board.  We are hoping that we can find a house before them, though, and be moved in in late October, but buying a house is a long and complicated process so we are trying to be realistic.

Yes, we do have names picked out for the baby whether it is a boy or a girl but no, we are not announcing them.  We do have ultrasound pictures to show but no scanner in New Jersey so we will post them to the Flickr feed as soon as we are able to get them scanned – most likely this weekend if we go to my dad’s house for the weekend.

I got up early, around seven, and started working from home right away so that I would have some time in and all of my work “caught up” before needing to leave for a while to go with Dominica to the doctor’s appointment that she had this morning.  I worked for a little over two hours before we left just after nine thirty.  The doctor is right next door to an IHOP and her office – literally all on the same block – which makes going there extremely simple.

After the appointment we ate a late breakfast at IHOP and then I dropped her off at work.  We are very thankful that my job gives us the flexibility for me to deliver her to and from the office when we need to do so rather than making her run me back to Newark and then to drive herself back to Totowa.  She would never have been able to get to work or else I could not have gone to the doctor’s with her.

I worked the rest of the afternoon and then had to run back to Totowa to pick Dominica up from work as I had the car for the day.  Oreo appreciated getting to spend the day with us either in the car or at home with me in the afternoon.  He had a nice long weekend.  He is only going to be at daycare for two days this week, Tuesday and Wednesday, as Dominica and I both have Friday off from work as it is the Fourth of July.

Dominica and I got back to Eleven80 and I worked for another couple hours since I had had so many long interruptions today.  We got dinner from Blimpie down the street and relaxed most of the evening.

And, of course, please remember to vote for Andy’s OrbTrak contest entry in the Dice Tech Challenge.