May 27, 2005

Today is Min’s last day of teaching for the year (season.) She had finals for the first half of the day and then had basically a fun day for the afternoon. I went up to Greece and spent a good part of the afternoon hanging with Craig. I went up and visited him at his new house. He has been there for a little while but I haven’t seen it yet. He lives in Greece not too far from the lake. Megan used to live very near there. Only a few blocks away from where Josh, Andy and I used to live at Greenleaf. We hung out and had coffee out on the patio. I wasn’t able to stay there long, though, because I had to get back down to pick Min up so that we could get out to Farmington for the wedding rehearsal this evening.

I got home right at 4:00. Min and I loaded up the car with whatever we needed for the evening and drove out to Farmington. The tent was already set up in the Farmbrook Park when we arrived. It really looks like there is going to be a wedding here. We got there at just the right time. We mingled with everyone getting ready to go over to the Granger Homestead for about fifteen minutes and then we all loaded into the cars and caravaned on down to the wedding locale.

The wedding (and ergo the rehearsal) is taking place at the Granger Homestead. The Granger Homestead is a historic building in Canandaigua that reminds you of being at one of the buildings at the Genesee Country Museum. Only there is only a single building plus a carriage museum. It is coincidental that both places have similar carriage museums. But that really isn’t very interesting.

After the rehearsal, everyone went back up to Josh and Jo’s for the rehearsal dinner. Phil, Bob and I had to run up to Eastview Mall to get Bob’s tux because everyone had forgotten about it and we were really down to the last minute. So we ran up there to take care of it tonight since waiting until tomorrow would really be asking for trouble. I had to take him up because Bob was without a car and everyone else was busy with the dinner.

It was decently late by the time we left Farmington to go home. Probably around 10:00. On the way home, I discovered that by taking Buffalo Street in Canandaigua, I am able to shave off a couple of minutes and a couple of miles of city driving between Josh’s house and mine. That will make the trip a little bit easier. Especially as we make this trip over and over again over the next few days.

May 26, 2005

I was very glad to not have to work last night. Only having a two day week is really nice, especially when it is Monday/Tuesday and I get a six day weekend to go with it!

I putzed around the house this morning until 10:30 when I had to go up to Rochester to meet with someone from work. We had lunch at the McGreggor’s on Jefferson Road. I have never actually been there before but it is practically identical to the one on Gregory in the South Wedge. Nothing special but the place is all right. The atmosphere is very “low end bar” but the food is okay. As long as you know about their annoying fish and chips policy.

This afternoon, Mary and Jocelyn were heading up to Rochester to go to Borders to look for A+ books. So we all decided to go. Andy, Min and I went with them and made an evening of it. We all went book shopping and spent a bit of time at Borders. Min was very happy because she managed to get a couple of knitting books and magazines.

May 25, 2005

I didn’t get out of work last night until much later than I had anticipated. I had wrapped up before midnight but we ended up having a problem as I was walking out the door and I had to stay for a few more hours. We never did get everything fixed. It was a long night. For two hours I was just sitting there waiting for things to happen at the end. That was pretty boring. I managed to plough through all of my magazines that I had brought with me and I take a lot of magazines with me every night just in case. At least I managed to get a ton of my magazine reading out of the way. I will be bringing even more with me from now on. The overnights make for a really good opportunity to get that light reading out of the way. I have so much of it.

After work I went over to the Geneseo Inn and hung out with Mary until after 5:00. I wasn’t tired at all and couldn’t convince myself to go to bed. I went home and did some work for a while. I had an update on one of our servers that needed to be taken care of sometime during the night so I took care of that. I was happy to get that out of the way.

Mary came over around 7:30 and we went out to breakfast when Min went to work. We went over to the Omega. Mmmm… potato pancakes. Yummy.

I took care of a few things around the house and then tried taking a quick nap for an hour before I had to go to my lunch meeting today. But by the time that I was supposed to leave I wasn’t feeling very well and decided that I was going to reschedule if at all possible because I was going to be completely out of it by the time I had driven to the city. I was supposed to try on my tux today but that just wasn’t going to happen so I will have to do that tomorrow. I called the guy that I was meeting for lunch and he said that tomorrow would really be better for him as well. That was a relief. So I am meeting him tomorrow at 11:30 for lunch.

Andy and I ended up doing some design work for a couple of hours this afternoon during my second wind. Around 2:30, I went to bed. Boy was I tired. Min came home from school and came to bed too.

We got up around 7:30 and went out to Wegmans to get some dinner and to do some shopping. We finally found a widescreen copy of Mira Nair’s Vanity Fair. So we picked that up. Then we went to the dollar store and to Walmart. We also picked up The Aviator which won five Academy Awards this year. It is the story of Howard Hughes, the famous billionaire.

We got home just in time for Andy to decide that he wanted to go to Wegmans so I had to turn around and go back with him. He said “Ha, ha, being a whiney bastard pays off.” He really said that. He is standing right here.

The three of us decided that we would play a game of AoE2 two on one tonight. We haven’t played in two weeks and we don’t get to play this Friday so it sounded like a good idea.

After the game, Min went to bed and I watched Matchstick Men which I have been borrowing from Eric and Amanda for over a year now. This movie really shows off Nicholas Cage’s ability to act. He really is a good actor but he so often does flat action films that it was nice to see him doing something different. It was an interesting film. Glad that I borrowed it, not something I see myself wanting to watch again but it was good to watch once. Kind of like The Sixth Sense which is great once and not very interesting to watch again.

May 24, 2005

I didn’t get to bed until around 4:30 last night so I slept in a bit today.

Working in Henrietta tonight. It is nice when I get to work very close to home.

I wrapped up early tonight, around 11:45. I was just about to walk out of the door when a bunch of stuff went wrong and I ended up not being able to leave the store until after 2:00. I ended up just sitting for a long time waiting for things. That was pretty boring.

I went down to the hotel and hung with Mary for a little while. I went home a little after 5:00.

May 23, 2005

I got up as Min was leaving for school this morning. Only four hours of sleep, which isn’t awful considering I took a nap yesterday afternoon for several hours, but it is still pretty light for a night’s sleep, even for me. I had to get up this morning because I have a meeting at Wegmans at 10:00 that I have to get to. So I got up and got moving and out the door roughly on time.

After my meeting wrapped up around 11:00, I went over to the hospital and Eric and I went to the Mt. Hope Diner for some “breakfast.” I will call it breakfast since I had eggs, toast and hashbrowns and it was my first meal of the day. We had three or four cups of coffee but didn’t stay long. I had some errands to run so Eric came along. We went to Home Depot. The idea was to pay off my credit line that I have there but for some reason I am having an issue with my debit card working there and I am not able to pay off that debt no matter what I do. So I put a big chunk down on it and gave up for the day. What a pain that credit line has turned out to be! Not worth it at all for all of the pain it has taken to make payments on it. After that we hit the bank and deposited my paychecks for the last few weeks. Then we went to Kaufmann’s and finally returned that pair of Dockers that didn’t fit that Min and I bought almost two months ago that has been sitting in the plastic Walmart bag by the front door for forever. Then we went across the street to Border’s for a minute. There was a book that I was interested in but they didn’t have it so I didn’t buy anything. Nothing. Nope. I know you can’t believe it but it is true.

I took Eric back to the hospital and headed for home myself. Min got home from work just about half an hour before I got in. It is a short evening today. I arrived home around 3:30 and have to be back on the road at 7:30 to get out to work in Geneva. I had to do some regular work at home until 6:00. I had to get a package out to an account in South Carolina. So I did that until 5:30 and then Andy and I ran out to UPS really quickly to get that sent off. Min spent most of the evening on the telephone with her sister in Houston who is looking to adopt a Boston Terrier of her own. She had had a one year old rescued puppy visit her yesterday and she was going to take that one but today she discovered a two year old Boston female that was at the county shelter that euthenizes after just three days and she thinks that she wants to possible take that one instead. So she doesn’t know what she wants to do at this point. So she and Min have been discussing it and discussing where all of the dogs will be staying this summer while Francesca is up in New York visiting.

Min made veggie hot dogs for dinner. We didn’t get much time to spend together, though. It was a busy evening. Luckily I am working only two nights this week. Tonight and tomorrow night. Tonight in Geneva and tomorrow up on East Henrietta. Then I don’t work again until Tuesday of next week. That will be my longest break for a long time.

I left for Geneva just a little after 7:40pm. It takes just about an hour to get out to Geneva going the back route through Richmond. It is not an exciting drive by any stretch but I have “Reading Lolita in Tehran” yet to listen to so I popped that in for the journey. I am about eleven CD’s into it which is almost fourteen hours or so. I think that there are four or five CD’s left to go.

As soon as I got into Wegmans I realized that I forgot something that I have to have in order to do my job. I tried calling the house and went into a panic when I realized that Min’s cell phone was off and the house phone was in use. The reason that this is so bad is because we have call waiting disabled because it doesn’t work very well so we have it set up to go directly to voice mail which generally works really well because my voice mail system immediately sends out an email alert to let me know that a message has been left and often the actual message gets delivered right behind it so that I can get to the message through my email without ever having to even check in with the voicemail service at all. Normally this is fine since the calls are usually for me. But tonight, I am here trying to contact people at the house. And those email alerts only go to me. Uh-oh. I tried a few times and had no luck getting through. So I called Eric and he said that he could run over to the house to let them know that I needed to talk to them. But he couldn’t go over for a little bit. I tried calling dad but couldn’t get through to him either. Luckily I do not have to have this cable absolutely first thing or I would already be in really bad shape. I tried dad again and managed to get through. He drove over to the house and had Min get a hold of me. Then she drove out from Geneseo to bring me the cable in Geneva. She wasn’t very happy about having to come out just to bring me a cable. But there was nothing that I could do once I was out here. I have a limited window to get everything done in and there is no place in Geneva where I would be able to buy a cable like that. I tried to call her and meet her in Canandaigua which is about two-thirds of the way between Geneseo and Geneva but her phone was still dead and on the charger back at the house so I wasn’t able to reach her once she was on the road and I wasn’t able to tell whether or not I would be able to leave until it was too late.

Min made it out to meet me just about 10:30. She was definitely not happy when she arrived. She was probably half asleep when I first called and she would almost certainly been asleep by the time she made it out here. It will be around 11:30 by the time she makes it back to Geneseo which means that not only will she be upset with me tonight but she will also be mad at me tomorrow since she won’t have gotten enough sleep. It might be a good thing that I have to work tomorrow night too.

I am writing tonight’s update, in case you couldn’t tell, from work in Geneva. I got a little time to write the update tonight because, for some reason, I actually managed to get ahead during the process tonight and I am actually stuck waiting on the computer. Normally, it has to wait on me.