Sheep Guarding Llama

Today I started reading “The Lady in the Palazzo: At Home in Umbria” by Marlena Blasi.

Very cold day today. Good day for reading about a sunny day in central Italy.

Got home and spent the evening with the girls again while Dominica went out to go shopping. She had to return some stuff from yesterday and do some more shopping. She is getting us ready for the holiday party tomorrow evening in Connecticut.

The girls just wanted to hang out in the living room tonight. I made us a fire in the fireplace and we gathered around the hearth to stay warm. It is only about fifteen degrees outside so quite cold. It is days like this that we are so happy that we live in a middle unit and have warm neighboring walls on either side helping to keep our house warm. We use so little energy to keep the place warm in the winter.

I was really tired this evening. I actually fell asleep laying on the floor in from of the fireplace. Dominica was gone shopping for a long time, nearly three hours. As soon as she was home we got the girls off to bed and we went to bed ourselves.

Dominica booked a hotel room for us tomorrow in Connecticut so that we have a place to put the cars, change and sleep after the holiday party tomorrow night. It is a long way (over an hour) from there to the house and if we had to come home we would both have to drive which would leave us both unable to drink or anything for the entire evening and still have us both driving home while very tired, in the middle of the night. This way we can take a shuttle to the party and not have to worry about it, get a good night’s sleep and drive home in the morning, in daylight. Dominica does not know the way that I drive to and from so we would need to take a longer route anyway.

Dominica’s parents are coming down tomorrow after work to babysit for the night. They should arrive probably around five. Dominica will drive down to the hotel in Connecticut as soon as they get to the house so that she can get us checked in and start getting ready. Party starts in the early evening and goes all night. I am not even sure where it is, thankfully the hotel will just shuttle us there.

Quite cold today but no snow on the roads. No issues driving. Everything in Texas is still frozen. The reports from there are that they are still under some serious ice. We are quite glad that we got out before this all happened. Hard to believe that Texas is getting a much worse winter than we are up here in New York. But so far, we are coming up on Christmas and our winter has been incredibly mild and theirs has been horrific comparatively. We have light snow sticking to the ground, mostly in the woods. They have ice covering their buildings.

On my drive home in the dark this evening (the one thing that really drives me crazy about winters up north, even an early day has you going home in the pitch dark) I finished reading “A Year in the World” by Francis Mayes.

I got home and the family was camped out down in the basement. This is the first time that I have come home to them not being in the living room. Dominica must be getting used to having her computer now.

Liesl, Luciana and I set put the couch and spent the evening watching Doctor Who together. Dominica immediately headed out to go shopping for clothes and food and stuff. So she was gone for over three hours while the girls and I hung out. I had them off to bed before Dominica even got home.

When I was cleaning up the basement as I was taking the girls to bed I noticed that the storage arm of the couch, which both of the girls love to play with and know that they are not supposed to, was up and when I went to close it it did not close correctly. As we knew was going to happen (but not this early) they messed around with it and with it open had enough leverage to rip the top of the arm off. So it is broken. Argh. I can’t tell how bad it is, as long as it is closed it is fine for now. Going to look into seeing if we can fix it. We are not happy though. Less than three days with the couch and already they couldn’t resist messing around with it like this.

We ordered dad’s Christmas present from the girls today. Liesl decided what it would have engraved on it. Hopefully it will arrive at his house in time for Christmas.

I woke up around two after a bizarre dream about moving from California to, somewhere, and having forgotten to move my books and needing to hire a taxi to drive me there to get them and driving back with them in a taxi.  But once home falling asleep and forgetting to unload the taxi and so it left.  Weird.  I guess subconsciously I’m worried about all of our stuff waiting back in Texas needing to be moved up here.

I woke up again around three and realized that Dominica had never come to bed.  I had not noticed because Luciana was snuggled up with me so I didn’t notice that Dominica was not on the other side of her.  If Dominica does not come to bed at the same time that I do then I know that she is going to stay up late watching her shows so I don’t expect her to be there for several hours.  But I was awake enough that I checked my phone and got up to go look for her.  I found her on the chez lounge watching the “Vampire Diaries” as I had expected.  So I made her go to bed.

I tried falling back asleep but couldn’t so get up at three thirty and went down to the basement to get to work.  Might as well catch up on things rather than lying in bed thinking about being unproductive and not sleeping anyway.

Finally this morning, the Top Contributors page on Spiceworks has been fixed which is exciting because on Friday afternoon I finally passed Andy Phelps as the top “Best Answers” contributor to the site.  That only took about six years of hard work to do.  I needed 2,904 BAs to pass him.  I did that on Friday afternoon, around one, but the official list doesn’t get updated until around three in the morning.  So to see if officially I had to wait until Saturday.  But, of course, after all of those years, that page fails, for the first time, on that particular day.  The Top Contributors pages was down on Saturday, Sunday and even yesterday.  It was not until they reran the numbers this morning that it came back up and now, finally, it shows me on top for posts, answers and reviews.  The first time that one person has ever held all of them!  That was a lot of work.

When I went outside to check on the car at seven it was neither frozen, the outside temperature being thirty four degrees Fahrenheit, nor was there any snow. It was clear and damp with standing water in puddles in the parking lot. So I went back inside and did some work down in the basement until seven thirty.

I came back upstairs to go to the car and discovered that in the half hour that I was down in the basement that snow had been falling quite hard and that the world was mostly white and big fluffy flakes were coming down pretty hard. Now for the first time of really driving the Spark in the snow.

Before leaving the house I went upstairs and tried to wake up Liesl because she asked that I wake her up and give her a hug before I leave yesterday. So I tried today but even with her going to bed at nine thirty last night, she was still fast asleep. So I gave her a sleepy kiss and left. Dominica and Luciana were still fast asleep where I had left them.

The drive took quite a long time but because of traffic in Yorktown and not because the roads were bad. The roads being bad might actually have improved the drive because there was, quite literally, no one on the roads once I got to Katonah. I turned onto NY22 and was pretty much all alone for nearly the entire drive in. I saw cars but never had to wait for anyone and never had anyone behind me. I actually make decent time driving in. I was surprised.

The furniture from Bob’s arrived early afternoon.  Now the basement will be a little more functional.

Got out of work at a reasonable time. Wanted to get home to test out the furniture!

The family spent most of the evening watching the third season of Doctor Who together on the new couch.  The middle seat is perfect for Liesl, so short that she can’t use the reclining function, and then Dominica and I can have the recliners on the end with the lighted drink holders.  It is going to be a huge challenge for us to keep the girls from treating the really cool and interesting couch as a toy. It has so many lights, buttons and motorized parts that they just can’t help but climb all over it, press all of the buttons and don’t even get us started about the cubby holes that they can use to hide things.

It was a nice evening with all of us just hanging out.  So glad that I am able to use the desk a little bit and Dominica and the girls don’t have to stay upstairs but can actually join me.  I feel less isolated and lonely already.

Was doing okay this morning when I got up and got ready for work.  But the car was covered in ice and it took forever to warm up.  I turned it on before getting fully ready to go but it was not even remotely thawed out by the time that I was ready to go to work.  I even made myself breakfast and ate it in the car whilst awaiting its warming.  So I came back in the house for a while.  I even took out a coffee pot full of hot water to speed things along. Pouring the hot water on the windscreen helped a lot.  But overall it set me back a bit getting out of the door.  The Spark has such a tiny, super efficient engine that when you are not driving, it doesn’t idle hot enough to warm up the car.  That is a problem up north.

The drive to work was rough too.  Terrible traffic.  Took, overall, over two hours to get to the office.  Not a fun start to the day.

Dominica was not feeling very well today.  Not horrible, but a little under the weather.  She thinks maybe light food “poisoning” from something that we ate.

Work was slower today.  I thought that I was going to leave the office on the early side, as I was feeling tired and a little under the weather today, but ended up staying until after six thirty anyway getting things done.

Got home just before eight and spent a little time hanging out upstairs but the girls wanted to go downstairs and watch Doctor Who with me, so just before nine we tried that.  For some reason the girls were really restless, though, and Liesl was having a rough night and kept getting into trouble.  I think that she was over tired.  By nine thirty she had gotten in enough trouble that she got put to bed.  I was tired too so Luciana slept with us tonight and came to bed with me.  Dominica stayed up to watch the “Vampire Diaries” for a while.

Last day without furniture in the basement.  Thank goodness for Bob’s Discount Furniture!

As usual, I was awake before everyone else this morning. I got up and made myself a bagel (I am so thankful that we opted for the toaster oven instead of a toaster) and went down to the basement to get some work done. Did all of the bill paying this morning. So nice to have regular paychecks again rather than having to cross every digit every two weeks hoping that we had been paid like it was for the last four years.

Dominica was not feeling well today. She has a migraine and felt awful all morning.

I did not have to leave the house all weekend, except for yesterday morning’s bagel run. This is often how I like my weekends to be. I am away from the house so much during the week that getting home and getting to enjoy the house that we have is a big deal.

The house, these days, is quite a mess. We had an Acadia load of the girls’ stuff come down and those boxes and their contents are all over the house. All we have are cardboard boxes from the move so the toys and books that the girls want, if they want to be able to see them, are strewn all over the living room. They cannot see what is in the boxes, so they empty them out which makes a mess. And they only want to play where we are, which normally means the living room where Dominica has set up camp with the laptop. During the week the upstairs is empty and I only use the basement “office” space a little at night and on the weekends. So even the office remains effectively empty. Our plan is to reverse that, make the basement their play area but until we have a couch down there, it just doesn’t work.

Early today, Liesl wanted to watch Doctor Who since we were left in the middle of a two parter yesterday. So the girls and I huddled on the bean bags in the basement and watched some Doctor Who. Throughout the day the three of us ended up watching three episodes. They just love that show. They get so excited when we are going to watch it. They were even playing Doctor Who games at one point, running away from imagined Daleks. Liesl likes to sit on the pink bean bag next to me sitting on the orange one and Luciana sits on my lap. The girls are really good about following the story and about not getting scared. I found Doctor Who quite scary when I was little and that was the old one that was not nearly as realistic as this and on a much smaller screen.

Dominica got a lot of alone time today, being able to hang out upstairs with the fire in the fireplace and the laptop on the couch while the girls hung out with me in the basement.

Only two days to go until we have a couch in the basement! We can’t wait for that. This will mean that Dominica can move from the living room to the basement and we can all be in one place.