December 18, 2009: Three Days and Closing

Today is supposed to be our crazy packing day.  We don’t have unlimited flexibility to pack today, though, as the BMW is not ready today so we have no way to get anything moved from our house out to storage.  Dominica had not realized that I had left the storage key behind so she and Katie did not take any loads out to storage for the three days while I was away so the house is pretty much in the same state than it was when I left on Tuesday evening to head up to dad’s.  The big load that I took to dad’s did help quite a bit in getting things cleared out but it was nothing more than a single storage load equivalent which only does so much.

We heard from the dealer that the BMW is not going to be ready today and they are only hopeful that it will be available come Monday!!  This is really bad.  We desperately needed that vehicle today and all weekend to even have the slightest hope of being ready.  Now that we have delivered the Mazda PR5 up to dad’s house to get it ready to sell we have no vehicle whatsoever.  Argh.  This is the worst possible time for this.

So the only thing that we could come up with to do was to call Enterprise and rent a minivan, a Kia Sedona which we will pick up tomorrow morning.  We are desperate and even though renting a car for the weekend is incredibly expensive we really do not have a choice.  At this point we just have to do what we have to do.  We are really backed into a corner if we are going to get out of the house and get to Texas before Christmas.  Our options are pretty much gone at this point.

We worked and packed all day.  Without being able to take loads away it is really hard to tell if there is any progress being made or not.  Things just pile up and get in our way so we slow down the more work that we do and end up spinning our wheels a bit.

Katie came by after work to pick up Dudley and his containment system.  They hung around for a while before heading home for the night.  We are hoping that Enterprise can pick me up in the morning so that Katie does not have to run back from Nyack just to get me down so that we can pick up the rental vehicle.  What a pain that would be.  Tomorrow is our “empty house” party as well which we are not looking to be too well prepared for at this point.  The house was supposed to be much more empty than this.

December 17, 2009: Amtraking It and Four Days Left

Four days left until we move to Texas!  This move is closing in on us rapidly.  We are so thankful that Katie and Dudley (her dog) have been at the house helping Dominica while Brian and I have been in Canada.

I was not up early today.  I just could not do it.  I managed to get about five hours of sleep which was enough to let me get through the day today but just barely.  Boy am I tired.

We had been hopeful to have been able to have gotten breakfast with dad today but our snow storm ruined any chance of that.  I got up and worked this morning as much as I could.  Due to the inclement weather not only did we get in super late last night but we also need to leave early for the train station to be sure that we will be able to make it in time.

There is no question that these last several days of horrible driving in New York snow have made me very glad to be moving to Texas in half a week.  I am sick of this.  I’ve put up with snow my entire life and I am really ready for a change of scenery.

We didn’t have time for breakfast so we ordered Davis’ pizza for lunch instead.  My last chance to get Davis’ for a very long time, most likely.  It was burnt, though, so Brian did not get a good sampling of how good Western NY pizza can be.

We were off to the Amtrak station in Rochester just after noon.  We were scrambling to get the car packed and everything ready for the trip.  Too much to do in way too little time.

We ended up making it to the Amtrak station in plenty of time for the train.  We are taking the Maple Leaf from Rochester to Croton.  Not a fast trip but traveling by train is relaxing and we are both looking for the chance to zone out for a while.

The train ride was great.  I love traveling via Amtrak.  Trains are so much more comfortable than anything else and so little stress.  We made out really well on the tickets too, just $51 for each of us.  That is cheaper than the price of gas and far less than any flight would have been.

Brian and I got dinner on the train as well.  No dining car but there was a cafe car and they served beer which we really needed.  We did nearly nothing while on the trip.  I was on email constantly but almost nothing was happening so I stuck to just email and reading magazines that I had brought along for the trip.  Very relaxing.  I am always looking for ways to utilize the train rather than driving.

I was happy to find that they have a selection of vegetarian-friendly items on Amtrak these days.  They have a very tasty vegan burger as well as a humus and pita item that I noticed.

The trip was long but we didn’t care as it was our chance to just zone out and do nothing.  Brian managed to nap quite a bit on the train as well.  I can’t sleep in situations like that because I need my CPAP which is unfortunate or else I might have slept most of the way.  I am so worn out from all of the driving.  I am not looking forward to needing to drive all of the way to Texas in a few days!

It was pretty late, around eight thirty, when Brian and I pulled into Croton Harmon station in the lower Hudson Valley.  Brian got picked up and they headed right off back down to Philadelphia.  Katie picked me up and took me back up to Peekskill.  Katie is spending the night tonight and heading back home to Nyack tomorrow after work.

It was Katie’s homemade stuffed poblano peppers tonight which was spicy and delicious.  Dominica couldn’t eat too much of it, though, as it was too spicy for her being spiced with chipotle peppers which are much hotter than poblanos.

I went to bed pretty soon after getting back tonight.  I need sleep badly.  We have way too much work to do this weekend.  I am not looking forward to all of this packing.  Dominica thinks that we are in pretty decent shape but I don’t see how we are going to get all of this packing done before it is time to leave.

Our BMW X3 is still in the shop.  It went in on Tuesday.  We had been hoping that we would have gotten it back on Tuesday night or Wednesday at the latest but they still have it and haven’t given us a definite answer as to when it might be ready for us.  We are beginning to worry as it is already impacting our ability to get our stuff moved into storage so that we can get moved out of the house in Peekskill.  We have no spare time built into our schedule so this is very bad.

December 16, 2009: SpiceCorps Golden Horseshoe Kicks Off

When the alarm went off at six thirty this morning I totally felt like crap.  Two hours of sleep is not enough at all.  Not even a full sleep cycle, really.  Considering all of the driving that I did yesterday I am just completely wiped.  This is going to be a long and painful day for sure.

Brian and I were pretty much all set to be on the road at seven thirty when I got an email from RIT telling me that I had to deal with some immunization stuff immediately or risk being automatically withdrawn from my classes.  This is a pretty big problem as I have no means of getting this information.  So I lost an hour this morning just trying to get a hold of RIT to find out what the deal was and why they waited so long (three years after my first enrollment) to even inform me that there was any requirement at all let alone that they didn’t feel that my records were up to date.  Springing this on me on the day that I am leaving for work in Canada is pretty crappy and considering that we are moving to Texas on Monday this is near impossible for me to deal with at all.  Dealing with taking my one class is more than I can handle and this is going to be more work than that, I fear.

So it was just after eight when we finally got onto the road heading to Canada.  This trip is just one unexpected delay after another.  Brian and I are seriously exhausted today.  Seriously exhausted.  This is not going to be easy.

The drive from Peoria to Niagara Falls was not bad at all.  It was a nice morning for driving.  Normally we would cross the border at Buffalo which is slightly easier but Brian has not seen Niagara Falls since he was a little kid, like around three years old when he used to live in Buffalo, and wanted to see the falls as he did not remember it so we went up there to take the Rainbow Bridge which provides a view of the falls as you cross the border.

Brian has only been to Canada once, long ago when he was a kid, and just got a passport last week allowing him to go on this trip.  So this is a bit of a treat for him – going into a foreign country.  We drove right from Niagara Falls up to Mississauga where I was stopping by the office to see everyone there before I left the area for good.  The Mississauga office is being “phased out” in the next few weeks so most of these people will not be around for me to see in some alternate location in the future.

Just before crossing the bridge into Canada we stopped at Tim Horton’s and got some coffee to kick start the day.  We had skipped getting coffee earlier due to a lack of time.

We made it just in time to partake of the free pizza that was available to the team for Christmas.  Everyone was attempting to go into one office or another today for the free food.  Canada was a bit of an unexpected location for me but it worked out well.  I got a chance to get coffee and pizza and visit with the Canadians for a while.  It worked out pretty well.

From Mississauga we went into Toronto proper and met someone at Tim Horton’s.  We’ve been to Tim Horton’s a few times today already.  It is definitely a Timmy Ho’s day.

After our coffee meeting we went to a meeting just up the street.  We had thought originally that this meeting would only take about thirty to forty-five minutes but it ended up running to three and a half hours.  Way longer than we had accounted for but the meeting went well and was really valuable so we are glad that we took the time to have it.

We had meant to be out of the meeting and out of Toronto long before rush hour started but because the meeting ran over we were stuck trying to get out of Toronto during the height of rush hour.  Not good.  We had very limited time as it was.  Our goal was to be out to Cayugo, Ontario at six thirty for the very first meeting of SpiceCorps Golden Horseshoe but there was no way at all that we were going to manage to do that.  The travel time out to Cayuga from Toronto is roughly two hours and it was about six when we got into the car in Toronto!  Oh boy.  What a day.

We drove like crazy trying to get out to Cayuga.  What a drive.  You drive out to Hamilton and then you head south into the wilderness and go all the way down to the shores of Lake Erie.  We definitely gave Brian a wild tour of this portion of Canada.  He is not going to be looking to return to this part of the world again for a long time after this.

Luckily we were able to reach someone in Houston who was able to post to the SpiceCorps group on SpiceWorks to let them know that we were on the way but running insanely late.  They then emailed us from the meeting with contact information so that we could call them and coordinate.

We raced as quickly as we could although we were stuck in completely stopped traffic much of the time.  Toronto is notorious for its rush hour gridlock along the lake front area, especially heading out west where the bulk of its suburban population lies.

It was just after eight thirty when Brian and I arrived in Cayuga for the SpiceCorps meeting.  Luckily everyone was able to wait for us.  It was a small group, just five people in addition to us.  The meeting ran for another hour, till nine thirty, and then almost all of us went out to a bar called “The Back Forty” and hung out for about another hour or two before everyone started to head for home.

The group was small but we felt that it was a really good group and that the meeting was pretty valuable.  Getting IT professionals together, especially in the SMB space, is really important.  We are hopeful that this is going to grow and be a vibrant group.

Brian and I were definitely not looking forward to the long drive back to Peoria from Cayuga, Ontario.  In theory the drive is only supposed to be another two hours but that has not been working out too well for us thus far.  We’ve already done six or seven hours of driving so far today after doing nine or so yesterday so we are quite sick of being in the car.

Our first stop was the Tim Horton’s on Route 3 in Cayuga – more coffee!  This was our fourth stop at a Timmy Ho’s just today.  That is a lot of Tim Horton’s coffee.

The drive from Cayuga to Buffalo went fine and crossing the border back into the States was easy.  But once we were to Buffalo we ran into some horrendous snow and the relatively short drive from Buffalo to Batavia was horrible.  We were so fatigued from crawling down the Thruway that we stopped at a rest stop which, of course, had nothing open except for a Tim Horton’s where we got some really late dinner and coffee making it our fifth TH stop of the day.

From Batavia to Peoria was the worst driving at all.  We were struggling to hit thirty miles per hour and had no visibility of the road whatsoever.  The whole drive from Cayuga to Peoria was supposed to be just over two hours but ended up being well over four hours.  It was about three thirty in the morning when we arrived.  Talk about being exhausted.  All of that driving on just two hours of sleep was brutal.  We are so thankful that we had decided that tomorrow we were going to take the train from Rochester to Croton on Hudson – we need the chance to just sit and do nothing.

December 15, 2009: Driving to Pavilion, 6 Days to Go

Six days until we move to Texas.  This is craziness in the extreme.  To prepare for the trip, the BMW was taken into the shop today to get the oil changed, a general health check (it just hit 50,000 miles) and to get some simple electrical work done as there is a short, or something, in the driver’s side door.  Dominica dealt with that driving it over to Monroe, NY and having the shop drop her back at the house this afternoon.

I had to work today, obviously, and in between things we did what packing we could.  There is so much to do but Katie is coming over later today and staying for the week while I am out of town so that she can watch Liesl while Dominica works on packing.

While I was working, Dominica got me all packed up so that I could leave as soon as I was done for the day.  I had been hoping to manage to get out early today but that didn’t work out.  So it was around six thirty when I was finally able to start driving out to the Poconos to pick up Brian out at Jack Frost.

The drive out should have taken just over two hours from Peekskill to Jack Frost but a lack of normal address and poor GPS decision making took me dramatically out of the way and made the trip to pick up Brian take a bit over three hours which was a horrible way to kick off the long trip that we are taking.    This is going to be one exhausting trip at this rate!  The weather was starting to get a little bad too so instead of beating the bad weather we are going to end up being in it all night.  🙁

It was around ten when Brian and I pulled out of the Poconos house to head to Clark Summit to get dinner at the Waffle House.  There was some rough weather on the way so we were looking for a break from the snow by the time that we got to the end of the Turnpike Extension at the summit.

It was nice to get dinner at Waffle House.  I needed the time out of the car after driving through the snow.  I have been driving about five hours already by this point.  The car is completely packed too.  I am driving four large plastic bins of stuff up to dad’s to put into long term storage plus Brian and I both have a lot of luggage as well which barely fit in the little car in addition to the two of us.

After we turned north out of the Scranton metro we got about one hour of clearish driving before hitting big time snow just west of Binghamton which caused the drive up to dad’s place to take forever.  Instead of it being a five hour total trip it turned into an almost ten hour trip that was not just long but very stressful and exhausting as well.

It was roughly four thirty in the morning when Brian and I pulled into dad’s house where we are spending the night before heading on to Mississauga and Toronto in the morning.  We are many hours later than we had originally intended.  We had been hoping to have been here around midnight!  Tomorrow is going to be really long day.

To get to Mississauga on time we need to leave dad’s house by about seven thirty.  That means at best just two hours of sleep.  That is going to be really rough.  Hopefully tomorrow is not another day of insane snow too.

December 14, 2009: One Week and Closing

One week until we move to Texas.  How can that be?  There is so much that we have to do this week I cannot believe that we will possibly be ready.  Today is just packing and last minute prep kind of stuff.  Today begins the home stretch with a lot of “last” things to do.

Today at noon we took Liesl to the doctor’s office for her “last” checkup before we go.  Just a “well baby” visit.  While we were there she got her one year blood draw to just check things out plus she got two shots to get her as up to date as possible.  We might have done more shots today because of the move but she now has had all of the shots for which the office has the shots to give so even if we weren’t attempting to space out the shots she wouldn’t not have gotten any more at this point anyway.  So things are fine there.  Overall the visit went fine, although it took more than an hour as always as they just are not ready for us at all when we get there.

The doctor’s appointment was the only point of interest today.  Just packing and prep work.  Tomorrow, after work, Brian and I are heading for Rochester by car.  This is one busy week.

At seven this evening Katie came over and we all did dinner at the Westchester Diner.  It was a short visit but she is coming back tomorrow and spending the week helping Dominica while I am out of town.  Without her Dominica would be unable to do anything all week.