August 25, 2009: Up Late

Another really busy day today.  My day started on the phone first thing this morning and continued for the entire day.  Barely enough time to eat and every meal is interrupted.  I am falling behind on SGL as well.  Just no extra time for myself.

Very little to report today.  Lots of work.

I did get a chance to order my new camera, a Nikon D90.  We decided, Dominica and I, that we really needed to have a good camera with a higher resolution than my older D50.  Having the additional resolution, not to mention additional pro features, is necessary so that we will be able to make large prints of the pictures that we take of Liesl.  We have been getting lots of great shots of her but are sad to discover that we are far below the resolution necessary to print them at any real size.  We figured that with my upcoming trip to Germany in two weeks and our big trip to Disney World in November and likely a trip to Texas in between that this was the last moment in which to buy one without missing tons of stuff that we will really regret.  We couldn’t afford to upgrade when Liesl was younger and really didn’t grasp how much the resolution would impact the printing of the images but now that we are printing them regularly to use on the walls we are seeing it as a real problem.

I got the camera from Amazon and had it overnighted.  It was out of stock when I placed the order and is supposed to come in to Amazon’s warehouse on August 30th so I should, in theory, have the camera the last day in August.  Just enough time to test it out to make sure that it is going to work for me on the first trip.  I am going to be taking tons and tons of pictures while in Europe mostly because I will be there alone with little else to do.  I plan to see Germany on foot, mainly, and to be carrying the camera the entire time.

I planned to go to bed on the early side tonight.  I went down to the basement at eleven to set up the transfer processes to make sure that the computers were busy through the night and ended up getting asked to cover for a little bit of the overnight shift.  I ended up covering for over two hours going late into the night.  Then, when the regular guy got back to take back over from me, I asked him what he was thinking about doing with the pending relocation to Texas for our team.  Luckily for him I did that as it turns out that because he was overnight support it never occurred to anyone to mention the news to him and he was asleep during the conference calls disclosing the information!  So he has gone an entire week not knowing all of the stuff that has been completely occupying everyone’s thoughts at the office.  So we talked for about an hour as I filled him in on what I knew.  What a shock it was for him.  I bet he ended up having a very long night.

Made amazing progress on CD transfers today.  Those will be done in no time.

August 24, 2009: The Family Returns Home

I got up and got to work thinking that I would be able to get some free time this morning so that I could go out to breakfast with dad, Liesl and Dominica.  That did not managed to happen.  We ended up being able to go to lunch about fifteen minutes early.  That was as close to breakfast as we managed to get.  For lunch we went to Pastel’s which is right around the corner and just did a quick lunch.

Dad unpacked his car this morning.  This load included tons of DVDs and CDs to be converted.  Now I really have my work cut out for me.  I am trying to work out how I can step up the rate of conversion to keep up with all of this stuff.  I really need more computers.  Dad also brought our teak bookshelf that used to be in the living room area of our house in Geneseo that we got with some of the money from our wedding presents.  Originally this bookshelf was going to go into the dining room area here in Peekskill and new Billy bookshelf units from Ikea were going to be purchased on which to place books in the area behind Dominica’s desk in the basement here, but now we are avoiding all new purchases so the bookshelf, which is rather small, is going behind Dominica’s desk instead.

While dad was here he helped me move the television stand from the basement up to the living room.  We have to abandon our plan of wall mounting all of our home theatre equipment and will instead use the television stand that we had used in Newark for that purpose.  The television stand was going to be used for our theatre in the basement but we are completely giving up on being able to have that.  Not even considering doing anything down there now.  We really are completely regearing everything to make way for the upcoming move to Texas, that we expect will happen.  Still not official, of course, but we have to be planning already.

Dad hit the road after we had lunch at Pastel’s.  The rest of the family left earlier this morning from the hotel so we did not see them today before they left.

The rest of the day was all work for me.  Lots to be done and very little spare time.  This evening, after work, Dominica and I watched The Love Guru with Mike Meyers.  It was cute.  Nothing special.  Just as the Austin Powers movies went down hill as they progressed this movie was probably between Austin Powers 2 and Austin Powers 3 in quality.  They at least figured out that being all gross wasn’t funny and did not make people want to watch the movies again so they left that stuff out of this film but mostly it follows a very AP formula.  Entertaining but bland.  I am glad that we did not purchase it.  It is amazing how often the movies that we rent from Netflix we are relieved to not have purchased.

I have been exceptionally busy with work and have been putting in an incredible amount of time on the phone.  Saturday and Sunday were not all that bad but today was really something.  I am barely able to do a thing with all of the time being spent talking on the phone.  It is really draining me.

August 23, 2009: Hanging with the Ohioans

Liesl was up during the night so Dominica did not even get a solid four hours of sleep before she had to get up before six this morning to work on our Disney reservations.  I think that she was up until around two last night just preparing for them.  She moved the laptop up to our bedroom and had everything set up so that she could just wake up and work on them.  Today is the ninety day mark before our vacation in Florida begins in November and the food is a major component of that trip so both Dominica and Francesca and simultaneously working on the reservations this morning right at the moment that Disney opens its reservation lines.  You really have to be dedicated to this process if you want to get the right meals at the right time and especially when we have a party of ten and want to do all of the really exclusive things like all three princess meals including one at Cinderella’s castle.

Dominica and Francesca did a great job getting reservations and we have quite the impressive lineup of food at Walt Disney World this Thanksgiving week coming up in late November.  We will be eating at one exciting restaurant after another.  Many that Dominica and I have eat at before and many that are new to everyone.  The restaurant to which I am most looking forwarding to trying is the new Tusker House in the Animal Kingdom.

Today was our day to really visit with the family from Ohio. They have a continental breakfast over at the Peekskill Inn so they ate over there.  We got some sleep and hung out, just dad, Dominica, Liesl and I at the house until everyone over at the Peekskill Inn was ready to come over and visit.

Mostly we all just visited at the house today.  I did have to work so we were unable to actually go anywhere during the day.  That was probably best.  We were able to just relax for much of the day and everyone got a chance to really spend some time with Liesl.

For the most part I was able to actually relax and visit with everyone today.  I had to work solidly in the basement for a few hours in the middle of the afternoon but it was not too bad at all.

After my work was over (or overish, at least) we all drove out to Grandma’s in Yorktown Heights for the early bird special on dinner.  It is a major cost saver to get the early bird at Grandma’s as Dominica discovered recently.

Everyone really enjoyed dinner.  Liesl was in rare form managing to get everyone in the restaurant to pay attention to her.  She really knows how to work a crowd.  She was very happy all through dinner.

After dinner we came back and just relaxed at the house until late.  We just took it easy which was a nice change of pace.  I managed to take some pictures while everyone was there that I hope to be able to get posted in the next few days.

We said our goodbyes tonight.  Liesl is now able to say goodbye as well!  She only gets it out once in a while but it is her first real word that she uses in conjunction with a specific event (people leaving) other than her first word (more) used when she wanted more ice cream and that she has not been using since that first day or two.  She still mumbles out mama or dada from time to time but is not speaking very much.  Just having her say “bye” from time to time is pretty exciting.

We will not see the Ohioans tomorrow.  Grandma, grandpa and aunt Gayle are going to leave directly from the motel and head straight back to Canton, Ohio in the morning.  Dad is staying with us and will likely stay through lunch and then head back home himself.  We still need to unload his car before he goes too.

August 22, 2009: The Ohioans Come to Visit

This morning was a crazy cleaning morning.  Tons to be done.  My dad is coming to visit early this afternoon and then later on today my grandparents and my aunt Gayle are coming in from Ohio to stay for the weekend.  This will be their only chance to ever seen where we live before we move to Texas so we want to get the house in order as much as possible before they arrive.  So stuff was going up to the attic, new wall decorations were being put up, lots of general cleaning, etc.

It is Saturday so I had office work to do as usual.  I helped Dominica clean when I could but was stuck in the basement for much of the day.  That did give us a chance to do some serious basement cleaning, though, and the basement is looking so much better than it ever has.

I also kept up, as much as possible, with DVD conversions.  I am trying as hard as possible to get a complete bin of DVDs prepared for dad to take back with him for storage.  I only have a small number ready at this point.  It is probably going to be a small load this time.

Dad left from Pavilion at eight thirty this morning and arrived in Peekskill at around a quarter until three.  His drive went pretty well.  His car is really, really loaded.  He has discovered how to remove his rear seat so he is able to really pack the stuff in now.

The Ohioans arrived in Peekskill around six.  They had some problems finding their hotel and called to say that they were lost and it turned out that there were in Buchanan – right at the exit where we were intended to get dinner with them at the Westchester Diner!  How perfect.  They could see the Westchester Diner when they called.  So we had them just pull over and wait for us there.  Then we drove down and met them for dinner.  That really worked out well.  It was actually easier than having them go to the hotel first.Liesl and Great Grandma

I got a great picture of grandma Myers holding Liesl in the parking lot of the Westchester Diner in Buchanan. This was taken with my BlackBerry right as we all got out of the cars.

Almost everyone got the beer battered fish for dinner.  Grandma and grandpa thought that the fish looked like too much food and decided that they would just get “small” fried fish sandwiches, ha.  Those sandwiches ended up being two enormous slabs of fish each making the sandwiches actually larger than the fish dinner.  Everyone had a great time hanging out with Liesl who was in a really good mood today.

We had a chance to break our big news at dinner that we are moving to Texas (we think… not official yet.)  My grandparents and my aunt had not heard yet since they had been traveling since we found out ourselves.  So they were pretty surprised to learn that we would be leaving Westchester possibly very soon.  This also made them very, very glad that they had decided to come visit us now and to see Liesl while they had the chance since once we move to Texas it will be nearly impossible for them to come visit us and our schedule will make it difficult to get out to Ohio although we will have an opportunity to stop there anytime that we are driving back and forth between dad’s place and Texas or between our “summer home” and Texas wherever our summer home ends up being.

Speaking of being thankful – today while cleaning we decided to throw out the little railroad vignette “layout” that we did to learn some new modeling techniques.  It is not a working railroad and we are never likely to put it on to any sort of display and there is no way for us to use it as a part of some other layout.  It was a chance to learn some modeling and it was perfect for that.  It was many hours of work and rather expensive and turned out pretty well so it has been really tempting to keep it and for the last several months we have.  It would also have been nice to have kept it just because it was a memento of some of the time that we spent during Liesl’s early months.  But it is incredibly impractical so I just marched it out to the dumpster this morning and said goodbye.  It seemed pretty strange to be throwing out the best model train layout that I had ever actually seen in person, but it had to be done.  When we thew it out, though, it occurred to us how blessed we were that one thing after another had kept us from getting to work on the real train layout that we had already invested a lot of money, hundreds of dollars, into parts for.  This one that we threw out was far less than one hundred dollars of investment and was not a running railroad.  But what we have purchased so far is three or four hundred dollars of parts that, when assembled, should be a full working railroad layout of decent size (for a starter railroad) with more than a dozen buildings and lots of details.  Had we started even the most minute portion of that project – from base work to building assembly – we would pretty much be unable to ship any of it to Texas.  As it is everything is still in boxes, bags and bottles and can be shipped easily on the truck when it goes.  So all model railroading is now on indefinite hold until we get to Texas and not just to Texas but to our “final” house there.

After dinner I drove the Ohioans up to the Peekskill Inn and got them situated there.  While they were settling into their room Dominica, dad, Liesl and I drove out to Cold Stone Creamery to pick up the ice cream cupcakes for everyone that Dominica had wanted for her birthday.  Then back to the motel to pick everyone up so that they could come back to our place and see the house.

We hung out at our house until pretty late.  Around eleven.  Then Dominica and I drove everyone back to the motel and came home and pretty much called it a night at that point.  Dominica has a really early morning ahead of her.  Tomorrow is our ninety day mark before our Disney trip and that means that all of our food plans have to be made and booked early tomorrow morning if we want first pick of the restaurants.  So both Dominica and Francesca have to be up really early in the morning to do the food bookings as the reservations open at around six in the morning our time here on the east coast and that means that they are at five in the morning for Francesca.  They are going to be really tired tomorrow.

Tomorrow should, in theory, be a light day for me and we will get to spend the day visiting.  Everyone is heading home on Monday morning or possibly Monday early afternoon in dad’s case.  Dad is staying with us rather than at the Peekskill Inn with the Ohioans.

The Peekskill Inn is really working out well for them as it is so close to us.  Once they saw how difficult it is to get around in this area with the winding streets and heavy tree cover blocking all distance sight they were really happy to be so close that we could easily drive them to and from our house.  Without us being able to do that this would have been a much more stressful trip for them, I think.

Everyone has been having a great time hanging out with little Liesl.  And she is having a great time being the center of attention yet again.  She is still avoiding the “fear of strangers” phase and continues to just love everyone including family as well as strangers that she meets when we take her out to restaurants or shopping.

August 21, 2009: Dominica’s Birthday and Big Cleaning Day

Today is Dominica’s thirty first birthday!

Dominica and I (and our families too, I imagine) are still in a bit of shock surrounding the whole “moving to Texas” thing.  We are now desperately attempting to plan, as much as possible, for what to do next.  We are still in the process of moving to Peekskill!  There is a ton of stuff left at dad’s house that needs to come down.  He is bringing another massive load of stuff, including furniture, tomorrow.  We are thinking that we need to get stuff down to Peekskill still as we will plan to move all at once from here to Texas.  So emptying dad’s place is still the order of the day and will still take many more trips.  Perhaps I need to drive up there with the X3 and get another major load in addition to the loads that he is able to bring by car down.

We are trying to figure out what housework makes sense to do and what makes sense to skip.  We had almost begun investing in updating the kitchen.  We had been out pricing new cabinets and granite counter tops and had been planning on carpeting the basement walls and painting more rooms!  The cabling is mostly done but now the cables to the upstairs rooms will definitely be skipped.  Now our biggest job is going to be repacking everything that was just unpacked and getting it ready to go.  We won’t pack most things but anything that was about to be unpacked will definitely stay the way that it is.  It is also time to start seriously thinning out our possessions.   We want to have as little “extra” going to Texas as possible.  This is the real time to get down to the bare essentials.

In addition to the obvious things there is now an increase in the pressure to get all of the DVDs and CDs converted and onto the big NAS device.  Anything that is not converted will have to be shipped to Texas with us and then shipped back to New York for long term storage.  Not a good plan at all.  So the project to get them all converted is going to be kicked into an even higher gear, if that is even possible, so that we can wrap it up before we go.  I doubt that we can actually complete it all before we have to go but there are a lot of variables so I am going to give it my best shot at the very least.  Dad is bringing hundreds of DVDs and CDs tomorrow so I will have a lot with which to keep myself quite busy.

With everything that has been going on Dominica decided that she did not want anything big for her birthday as anything that she would have wanted would be things that we would have to ship and the last thing that we want to do is to ship anything more than is absolutely necessary down south so all of our unnecessary purchasing is on complete hold.  So instead I took her out for lunch and took her shopping this afternoon.  It is Friday so it is a really busy work day for me but with everything going on at the office this week there is a bit of consideration for everyone’s lives being thrown into upheaval and since I work so late it isn’t that big of a deal to take some time this afternoon.  Not to mention that I didn’t book an entire day’s worth of hours last week to save until this week because I did so much work.

We went to Pastel’s for lunch.  Then we drove out to Cold Stone to get Dominica some ice cream for dessert.  She really wanted ice cream cupcakes for her “birthday cake” but everyone is coming to celebrate her birthday tomorrow so we are going to do that tomorrow instead.  While we were there the sky turned quite dark.  I am guessing that this is the storm from hurricane Bill which is just beginning to hit Long Island.

We did some quick shopping at Walmart but nothing special.  Mostly just some stuff that we needed.  Not fun birthday stuff.  While we were in Walmart we could hear the pounding of the incredibly heavy rain on the roof but it stopped by the time that we went outside again.

We hit Best Buy but discovered that they don’t have anything in which we are interested.  Buying movies or music there is far too expensive thanks to Amazon’s prices and there are no electronics that we need (we would buy them from Amazon too, most likely.  So we were there for not very long.

Then we went shopping at Kohl’s.  Dominica picked out a bunch of house decoration stuff that she wanted.  Even though we are holding off on buying most stuff the house decoration stuff is important as we are preparing the house to be sold sometime within the next year and a half and having it look nice is really important.  So we are continuing with items that we are confident will look nice and will transfer to Texas well.

After Kohl’s we did get caught out in the rain but it was not too bad.  It was getting late and I had to get back to the office.  It was a nice afternoon outing though and Dominica enjoyed it.

I worked until almost eight.  Then we called Ruchi’s and ordered some Indian take away that I agreed to go pick up.  They do not deliver and Dominica did not want to go out.  So this was my dinner treat for her.

I ran to Stop and Shop and picked up a small birthday cake, yellow cake with lemon pudding, so that Dominica would have a real cake for her birthday.  I also grabbed some basic supplies like tonic water.  Then I went to Ruchi’s to pick up dinner.  I learned that the owner is a computer science professor and department chair at Mercy College in Dobbs Ferry here in Westchester County.  They have a new IT/CIS program there that is in need of professors.  This would be a most perfect opportunity for me and now, of course, we are moving away.  Horrible timing there.  I have been wanting to be involved as a part time professor or lecturer for quite some time.  That is one of my career goals.  He did advise me against obtaining my Ph.D. as he really felt, and I agree, that it will have no career benefits for me.  He has a Ph.D. but went back to school for a masters before teaching in CS.

Dominica and I had dinner and watched Princess Protection Program.  We had seen almost all of it before with Madeline and Emily over the summer but neither of us had managed to see the entire thing or to really get a hold of the plot.  It’s a cute movie but with some serious plot problems.  The movie makes no sense whatsoever, especially the ending which I think that Disney would see as cute but both Dominica and I saw as the lead character abandoning her people for whom she fought for the entire movie almost immediately after all of the work that they showed in the film so that she could become a secret agent with her friend instead of being their queen.  I guess we can assume that she sold the country to the evil general who was trying to take it over during the movie?  It made no sense at all.  I really have no idea what Disney was attempting to imply with the absurd ending that was tacked on like an afterthought.  It would be roughly the equivalent to Princess Leia fighting for the rebellion for two Star Wars movies and then, completely disconnected from the storyline, having her at the end of the final movie suddenly shown as playing beach volleyball for the evil emperor’s Olympic team.  What?