May 9, 2009: Introducing Dr. Tocco

Never trust the anecdotal evidence of stability from a system administrator who’s company has not existed as long as you have maintained uptime.

I got up around seven thirty this morning and got right to work to get as much done as possible before we needed to leave to get out to Albany.  I worked for several hours until about eleven when I quickly got ready so that we could get on to the road.  It is roughly an hour drive from Frankfort to Albany.

Oreo stayed at the house with his Uncle Dexter.  The two Bostons will hopefully keep each other under control while we are gone.  This is going to be a very long day for Oreo.  He has been really nervous about being alone since losing most of his eyesight.  He has been walking into things in broad daylight now and he is visibly beginning to act differently – more nervous and hesitant – all of the time.

The weather was good for the drive out to Albany.  We were running forty-five minutes early as we approached downtown so we decided to stop in at the very final rest stop on I90 eastbound going into Albany to grab some quick McDonald’s so that we would not be starving through the ceremony.  Dominica and Liesl stayed in the car while I dashed in and out with our food.  That was a really good idea because it was a bit less than ten minutes total lost on the entire venture.  If we take Liesl in even the quickest trip has timed around forty minutes.

The Albany College of Pharmacy ceremony is at The Egg in the Empire Plaza in Albany.  I have been to The Egg as a child with my parents on a trip to Albany long ago but have not been, I do not believe, inside of it previously.  I vividly remember dad and I walked around The Egg on the top of the plaza and wondering what it was as it looks like a giant sculpture and not a convention center.

Parking at the Empire Plaza was a bit of a disaster.  The first underground lot was full and the second was closed.  We were in a panic and decided to go into the East Lot which states that it is permit parking only but appears to be open, free parking on the weekends.  No information posted anywhere so we were really just taking our chances.  The parking garage was almost completely deserted which was really confusing as the other parking areas downtown were completely full.

The downside to parking in the East Garage was that we were physically far below the Empire Plaza and with Liesl in her stroller we had to somehow get up to the plaza’s level.  The East Garage is not, at all, handicap accessible, and we had many flights of outdoor stairs that had to climbed with baby and stroller and paraphernalia to get to The Egg.  We tried several options before deciding that the best thing was for me to carry the stroller in front of me with Liesl intact and sprint up the long flights of stairs while Dominica carried the diaper bag and anything else that we thought might fall from the stroller as I ran.  It didn’t work as badly as it sounds and the parking garage turned out to be pretty close to where we wanted to go other than for all of the stairs.  At least the trip back will be easy.

We arrived at the perfect time.  It was easy to get to our seats and to get situated but we had to wait almost no time at all of the graduation ceremony to begin.

The graduation ceremony took about two hours.  Liesl did very well.  She was very sociable with everyone that she met.  She did get sleepy about an hour in so I took her out into the lobby area and danced around with her until she fell asleep.

After Joe and Brittany officially became Doctors of Pharmacy (PharmD) we did some quick pictures in the lobby of The Egg and then headed out for dinner.  Dominica and I had much better parking than everyone else and were out of there in minutes which was amazing.  The walk back to the parking garage was all downhill so this was much easier than it seemed.

For dinner the entire graduation group, fifteen of us, went to Buca di Beppo.  Dominica, Liesl and I arrived about an hour ahead of everyone else as they ran and got some quick pictures taken before heading to the restaurant.

While we were waiting at the restaurant a massive rain storm arrived and we had torrential downpour.  It was really something.  The heaviest rain that I have seen in years.  I took Liesl and we stood under the awning enjoying the rain.  It was so much rain that the parking lot filled up with water six to eight inches deep and a giant fifteen food wide whirlpool formed around the storm drain and was still going twenty minutes after the rain had subsided.  Quite an impressive rain.  Liesl and I really enjoyed it.  Dominica stayed in the waiting area.  She is not into rain like Liesl and I are.

Dinner ended up being awesome.  No wonder this is Joe’s favourite restaurant.  The place was loud and the eating is family style which I do not necessarily like but the food itself was truly amazing.  We definitely had the best fried calamari that I have ever had and the apple walnut gorganzola salad was really something too.  Because there were so many of us we were able to get many different items and got to sample a large amount of the menu.  The pesto cream salmon was quite excellent and reminiscent of many salmon dishes that we experience in Walt Disney World on a regular basis.  Dinner was also surprisingly affordable considering how many people were there.  The per person price was excellent.

After dinner Dominica and I headed back to Frankfort as quickly as possible so that Oreo would not be stuck alone.  Joe rode back with us so that he could check out the new X3.  This was his first time riding in it.

Oreo did really well for being home “alone” with Dexter all day.  We thought that he would have been in a panic and would have had an accident but he did not.  At least not as far as we know.

I went back to work and worked for several hours before going to bed.

May 8, 2009: Liesl’s First Thunderstorm

Is it telling that it is good when a doctor is accountable but bad when an accountant is doctoring?

The alarm went off super early this morning which did not make me happy.  I am on the early shift this morning after having worked until after one last night.  Hardly any sleep at all and today is a long day too.

I worked from six thirty until a little after nine.  Not too bad of a morning.  I love this shirt because it is slow and relaxing and that is exactly what I needed this morning.  It gave me a chance to catch up on a few things before we had to hit the road.  Like packing up all of the converted CDs and DVDs to take back to dad’s for storage so that we can take back another giant load with us.

We spent another hour, from nine till ten, packing the X3 as quickly as we could.  There was a lot to squeeze in there.  An HP DL380 G2 server, an HP dx5150 desktop, a bin of media, two suitcases, tons of baby and doggy supplies, a bit stroller and more.  We actually barely fit everything into the X3.  Good thing that we didn’t go for something smaller.  What would we do?

On the drive Dominica and I started listening to Garrison Keillor’s new book “Liberty” which is due out in paperback next month.

The weather was good for a long morning driving.  We were on the road around a quarter after ten or so.  We drove up to the traffic circle on the north side of Peekskill and swung into the Dunkin Donuts there to pick up coffee and breakfast and fuel up the SUV.  Then it was back onto the road.

Liesl was fussy so we stopped into a rest stop on I87 north on the south side of Albany.  I grabbed a small bite at the McDonald’s there.  Dominica was not hungry so she skipped eating to save room for dinner.  Liesl ate and was slightly happier when we left.  We lost forty minutes at the rest stop.

It was about a quarter after two when we rolled in to Frankfort.  I hopped right online and got back to work.  There is a ton to be done today and I am way behind from having been offline for so much of the day.  People were covering me but just catching up on email can be quite the challenge.

A big thunderstorm moved in this afternoon.  Liesl has never really been out in the rain so I took her out and held her standing on the porch so that she could watch the storm with me.  She seemed to enjoy it.  Every so often she would shake when some mist would blow in on her face.  She was not afraid of the thunder or lightning at all.

It was a very busy day for me.  I worked like crazy all afternoon and into the evening.  Because we are going to be gone tomorrow I have to do a lot of tomorrow’s work today which is tough.  So I worked until a quarter till ten this evening.  Then Dominica and I took a quick trip out to New Hartford to go to Barnes & Noble’s because I had forgotten to bring a book with me on the trip – along with other important things that I forgot.  So we picked up the “VMWare Certified Professional Exam Cram” and “History’s Worst Decisions – And the People Who Made Them”.  That way I will have something to read for the next several days while we are out of town.

Then we went to Walmart in the same parking lot to get baby formula and prune juice.  Nothing exciting.

We got back to the Dominica’s parents’ house and I got right back to work.  There was so much to do that I ended up working until around three in the morning.  How awful.  This is really exhausting.  At least I was able to get a lot of work accomplished today.  I will be mostly off tomorrow.  I still have to work all day on Sunday, however.  Then drive to dad’s house after work is done.

May 7, 2009: Liesl Sleeps in the Nursery

I got paged out at five thirty this morning which is not what I was looking for on three hours of sleep.  I worked for an hour and then went back to bed.  I ended up “sleeping in late” a bit this morning but it worked out fine.  I was really exhausted after getting to bed so late and then getting called out in the middle of the night.

Tomorrow I am covering the early morning shift at work so I am starting at six thirty.  I will work until nine and then Dominica, Liesl, Oreo and I are jumping into the SUV and hitting the road for Frankfort.  Our goal is to get up there around lunchtime and then I will get back to work once we arrive.  It is going to be a really exhausting day.

I did some shopping on Audible and picked out several books to have ready for the trip.  Dominica and I are going to be doing a lot of driving this week and it will be nice to have some books to listen to on the road.  These days I have not been getting that much of a chance to listen to any good books so I am looking forward to it immensely.

I got some important bill paying done today.  Our “six month deferred” bills come due this month for the furniture that we bought for Liesl and for the basement so that is hitting us rather significantly.  Luckily we had planned for it so it is okay but ouch.

It was another long day of work.  But productivity continues and I cannot complain.  Getting things done is such a change from the way that things have been for the last few weeks that no amount of work is a problem as long as the workload is decreasing and things are being accomplished.

After work was over I came upstairs and we spent a bit of the evening watching back episodes of Joss Whedon’s Dollhouse via Hulu.  We had to watch a few episodes tonight because if we fall behind the episodes drop off of Hulu and if that happens we will be stuck not being able to watch any until the BluRay of the series releases and who knows when that will be.  So even though we have tons to do tonight we decided to take some time and watch a few episodes to make sure that we are safe.

Tonight Liesl was very fussy and Dominica decided that it was time to let her try sleeping in her crib in the nursery.  She has never spent any amount of time in her own room before.  We have kept her stuff in there for a long time but she has always slept with us between our pillows on the bed with Oreo at her feet.  She is just going to sleep there for half of the night until we go to bed which will happen sometime in the wee hours of the morning, but it is still a momentous occasion for our little girl to be sleeping in her own room.

After we were done watching Dollhouse I headed down to the basement to wrap up another hour or two or work that I needed to complete before going to bed and Dominica went upstairs to work on packing for the trip tomorrow.  We are going to be out of town for a week so we have a lot of packing to do.  We drive to Frankfort tomorrow and are there for two nights.  Then we drive to dad’s house on Sunday and are there for two nights.  Then we drive back to Frankfort for one night.  Then on Wednesday night I have the professional advisory board meeting at Onondaga Community College which is in the late afternoon.  Once that meeting is over in Syracuse I will drive back to Frankfort, pick up the family and drive on down to Peekskill.  So we won’t be back home and back to normal until a week from today and at that point we will be really, really exhausted.  Then, if the calendar is correct, we will be in Philadelphia for the weekend after that.

We are thinking that on either Sunday or Monday nights we might make our annual trip to the Silver Lake Drive In in Perry, New York to go see Star Trek. The timing is perfect.  School is not out yet.  The drive in is open and the weather is fairly good, and it is the only movie of which I know that is coming out this year that I care about seeing at all.  So that will be really nice if it works out.  Going to the drive in in the X3 wil probably work well.  The crappy thing is that the Ralstons won’t be able to make it.  That has always been our thing – going to the Silver Lake Drive In.  We’ve met them there for years.  This would have been our last chance to do that.

Katie (@kweenkmatt) went and saw Star Trek tonight and said that it was awesome and that everyone should go see it.

Francesca (@francescagrice) has made the leap into the world of microblogging and is now on Twitter.

Dominica (@dominicamiller) has been doing a lot of work this week to start keeping up her own Twitter feed as well as Liesl’s (@liesllee) and to write in Liesl’s blog.

I finally got a chance to start heading for bed at ten till two in the morning.  Ouch.  This is going to be a very short night.  I am going to be very unhappy in the morning.  I am going to be desperate for coffee, that is for sure.

May 6, 2009: SpiceCorp NY Begins Today

I got up early this morning and got to work a bit before I usually do.  Today is going to be a very busy day.

I worked all morning trying hard to get ahead so that I would have some flexibility this afternoon.  It was a hectic morning.  Not bad, just busy.

We did a quick lunch at the house while I kept working.  Then Dominica and Liesl ran to OfficeMax to pick up name tags and Sharpies for the SpiceCorp meeting tonight.

Once they got back from OfficeMax we ran out to take Liesl to her doctor’s appointment.  We ended up with a late 1:00pm appointment today which was far later than I had planned.  I hadn’t realized how late we were going to be today.

The doctor’s appointment went really well.  Her height and weight are right on target.  Her doctor says that she is doing well in the “baby Olympics.”  She was months ahead when she started turning over both directions before two months old.  Then when he learned that she also was sitting up on her own around four months he was extremely impressed and said that she is way ahead on her development track.  Dominica had told him that Liesl was sitting up for one minute at a time but later today she was sitting up for more than five minutes at a time.  So Liesl is even farther ahead than her doctor had thought.

After the appointment we ran home, dropped everyone off and then I headed straight out to get to Warren as quickly as possible.  I had been scheduled to be out at Warren for most of the day but nothing went as planned.  The traffic on the way out to Warren was really bad and it took forever to get there.  It was almost four when I arrived at the office.  Kind of a pointless exercise really.  A lot of people that I had gone to see were already gone for the day.

I worked at the office until six thirty and then drove up to Morristown to make the SpiceCorp meeting.  The drive went fine but upon arriving in Morristown I discovered that there was an ambulance convention or a parade or something and there was no way to get anywhere in town.  It took as long to get around Morristown as it took to get from Warren to Morristown.  What a pain.  I hate doing things in Morristown.  That is the worst planned town ever.

Spiceworks

I got to Grasshopper off the Green at seven.  Got in and got set up.  We ended up having thirteen people show up for the very first New York regional SpiceCorp meet up.  It was a really good group.  We had been hoping to have had more people but it was still a very good number and a great group of people.

The venue was not exactly ideal.  It was loud and the staff apparently didn’t understand why we were there because they set us up for dinner rather than a meeting at the bar and gave us a bit of a hard time about not having enough people show up.  The waiter, at the end of the night, tried really hard to scam us into a 36% tip.  He used the automatic tip of 18% and then tried to secretly apply it to the bill twice.  Then he argued with three of us about how by using a credit card there was this “magic” additional 18% that showed up on the card that didn’t show up on our bill.  What a joke.  I can’t believe that he thought that he would get away with that.

The meeting went until around midnight then the last of us headed for home. I am very pleased with how the meeting went and am really looking forward to the group getting together again.  We all seemed to have a good time and it seemed to be productive.

The drive home was really crappy.  Heavy rain and sporatic fog on the drive home.  Took almost two hours.  Not a happy drive.

Dominica was still up when I got home a little before two.  We went straight to bed.

May 5, 2009: Spending the Day with Liesl

After getting the ball rolling on getting real work done again yesterday I was able to continue today.  It feels really good to be able to get stuff done.  I have been really stressing out recently just running around in circles without being able to get any work done which, obviously, causes me to just fall farther and farther behind even though I am working constantly.  Very frustrating.

Tomorrow I have the inaguaral meeting of SpiceCorp NY out in Morristown, New Jersey.  That will be a nice break being at the grind around the clock.

Today I was finally able to take a bit of time to spend with Liesl.  We have been getting limited time together for the past week and it was awesome to really get to hang out a lot today.  She is really growing up.  She is sitting up on her own all of the time now.  She has been doing this for a while, but now she is doing for longer and longer periods of time and is very visibly getting stronger and stronger.

Liesl and I were both very happy today because we got a chance to play and visit so much.  I see her every day, but today we got a great deal of quality time together and a bit of it during the day rather than in the late evening which is much better.

Lots of daddy / Liesl bonding today and a good deal of work was completed as well.  I am definitely starting to feel better.