April 27, 2009: A Tropical Heat Wave

Actions speak louder than words and budgets speak louder than actions.

Another warm day today.  That is three really, really hot ones in a row.

Liesl got Dominica up at five thirty this morning and would not let her go back to sleep.  At seven thirty I got up and took care of Liesl for almost two hours so that Dominica could go back to sleep.  It was a busy morning but at least Liesl and I got some time to really hang out together.

Today is definitely not as hot has yesterday although it is pretty decently warm.  Surprisingly warm for April.

Dominica and Liesl hit the road to New Jersey at eleven this morning to go to their play date with Dunia and Landen.  Dominica was supposed to leave at ten thirty but didn’t look up how long that it would take for her to drive that far until a quarter till eleven and then Liesl wanted to eat and then spit up and needed to be changed.  Ah the life with a baby.

Oreo and I had the house to ourselves all day which equates to massive productivity.  My first task was plant maintenance.  I decided that some of the plants needed to move out to the deck as the weather is so nice now.  They don’t get nearly the light that they should inside the house and our living room has absolutely zero spare space so having the plants in there is a giant pain even after the palm trees died on us.

I got tons of work done today while I had the house to myself.  Oreo was very sad all day and spent a very large portion of the day just laying on the runner in the front hallway watching out the door waiting for Dominica to return.  It was very sad.

I worked all afternoon and around six started to worry about where Dominica was.  She had had me make her an appointment at the BMW dealer for mid-afternoon so I was assuming that she was eating lunch in New Jersey and leaving between one and two to drive up to Harriman to take the car in and that she would be home probably before four and if it was any later than she would have called.

I tried calling her and didn’t get any answer.  I knew that the person that she was meeting at the dealer normally only works until five so at six thirty I decided to call the car dealer to find out what time she had left there and found out that no one there knew anything about her having come in and that they were pretty sure that she had not.  So at this point I started to panic a bit.

Not having made it to the car dealer for a 3:00pm appointment implied that she could only have been last seen around 2:00pm in New Jersey and for all I knew she might have left long before that and been missing for as much as five hours or so.  She and Liesl both caught somewhere with a new car that we have not driven very much in 90 degree plus heat was the best case scenario that I could imagine.

I finally got her to pick up her cell and learned that she had just assumed that she could leave New Jersey sometime between seven and eight (she left at seven because I called but might have been much later otherwise) and that she could take the care in to the dealer between eight and nine at night for her “mid-afternoon” appointment even though the dealership isn’t even open then.  Basically she completely lost track of time and completely forgot that I was at home waiting for her as was the dealership.  Dominica likes to say that it is me who is unable to leave when we are hanging out with people but I think that the proof is in the pudding on this one.  Hopefully sending me into a panic today will make her think about not answering her phone or emails when she is away and checking in periodically rather than just assuming that if I haven’t managed to reach her somehow that I must not be trying.

So it was quite late by the time that she and Liesl got home (poor Oreo thought that he was abandoned) so we just ordered in dinner for Forno’s.  We love the food from there.  Especially an order of the fried calamari and an eggplant parm wedge edge. Yum!

We watched some Murder She Wrote this evening which we had stopped working because the episodes were having problem playing previously.  Now they are working quite well so we made it through at least two episodes tonight.  That was a nice change.

Dominica went to bed around midnight.  I went down to the basement and did some final emails and finished the installation of the second desktop that I am preparing for dad’s house.  It is amazing how long it takes to build a Windows desktop.  It is a full day project.  And I have it down to a science with a really well laid out script, good knowledge of the hardware, install CDs layed out and ready to go, all of those “tricky” drivers all together on a USB stick and even my common programs ready on the same stick.  The whole process is incredibly simple and straightforward and yet it still takes all day long.

Tomorrow morning Dominica is getting up first thing and going straight over to Orange County BMW to drop off the title to the 330 and to pick up our car manual (which we really need as this car is very confusing) as well as our spare key.  Liesl will go for the ride with Dominica and Oreo will stay home with me.

April 26, 2009: We’re Having a Heat Wave

Today is my first day of taking the official Sunday shift (as opposed to just being paged out and getting stuck with it.)  I have been working every Sunday since mid-January so just being scheduled and knowing that I will be working on Sunday is, in a way, quite a bit nicer than being thrown into it each week at the last second when I had been planning on doing something else with that time.

I am working from my newly built Windows XP Pro workstation today and, so far, so good.  It has been pretty stable and the fresh install is most definitely a bit faster than the old one.  The newer, main hard drive may have a bit to do with the snappiness of the system although most likely it is just having the drive be mostly empty rather than mostly full and having everything be in fresh shape without a lot of kruft laying around the system.  The extra memory will help from time to time but not likely with my daily work.

I found out today that someone was shot in front of The Spot last night.  The Spot is the restaurant that opened up in downtown Newark just down the block from 1180 where Dominica and I lived for the last two years.  I used to walk Oreo by The Spot a few times per day and a few times he even got to go in there.  Apparently there was still blood on the sidewalk while people were in eating lunch today!

The sun is out in force today.  It is going to be a hot one.  While working in the basement this morning I discovered a garter snake sunning himself (or herself, I really don’t know) on the cement of our back porch which gets a fair amount of sun in the mornings.  He hung out for a good twenty minutes and I attempted to get some pictures.  We will see if they turned out or not when I finally get a chance to upload some of my pictures again.

It definitely got hot today.  Ninety degrees in the shade.  Ouch.  The house was way too warm all day.  It didn’t take too long before I was able to convince Dominica and Liesl that they should come down to the basement and hang out with me down here today.  The basement probably never climbed over eighty degrees while the rest of the house eventually got warmer than the outside.  It felt like an oven in the living room with all of its exposed windows.

Today Liesl discovered the world of evaporative cooling.  She was so warm that she was really unhappy today.  So, to cool her off, we took a wet wash cloth and moistened her skin with it.  She liked that.  I would then blow on her to make the moisture evaporate.  She would shiver and shake and laugh.  She loved it.  We did it over and over again.  Each time she would act so surprised.  She would be a perfect candidate for some commercial for minty fresh gum where she takes a bite and is surprised by the blast of cold or something like that.  It was so cute!  After a while she took the wash cloth from us and was rubbing it on herself.

I talked to Andy a little bit tonight.  Tonight is the official decommissioning of the Waste Watcher which he and I designed and developed back in March and April of 2000.  While we were talking about it I realized that he was bringing down the old application exactly nine years after we had first starting using it.  What an amazing thing that is.  We would never have guessed that that code that we were designing back then would continue to be used for an additional nine years.  We were thinking that it would have been completely replaced long before now.  There isn’t that much code in the world that actually manages to stay relevent and to be used, in production, for nine whole years and to have it keep working the whole time.  Not that there were not ever any changes but not too many that were actually significant changes but just a small amount of bug fixes and some feature additions – mostly around 2002, I believe.  There has been almost no change to the original code for the last several years.

Dominica and I watched some of the Gilmore Girls but as I had more work to do we could not watch very much.  She stayed in the basement and just watched stuff at her desk on her laptop while I worked.

Dominica ended up going to be probably around eleven or so.  I stayed up and worked until one or one thirty at the latest.  Oreo stayed down in the basement with me sleeping on the cinema seating.  It was quite cool in the basement and even in the living room but the upstairs was stifelingly warm.  It was probably still eighty degrees up there, even with every window open and the ceiling fan running.

Tomorrow Dominica and Liesl are driving down to Hasbruck, New Jersey to go on a play date with Dunia and Landen.  They are going to something like a mommy and me gym class.  I am not completely clear on the details.  They will be leaving mid-morning and will get lunch while they are out and will then go to Orange County BMW, which is pretty much on the way home, to drop off the title to the 330 while picking up our X3’s manual, spare key and getting the fog lamp replaced that Art and I noticed had burned out last week.

Oreo and I will just be staying home to get lots of work done which is good.  It has been such a crazy week that having just some simple, quiet time will be really good for me.

April 25, 2009: Long Hot Day

Today is a continuity of business test at the office which means a full day of work for me.  Not horrible, nail biting, never get a chance to take a breath, high stress work, but just sitting at the desk doing little things for different teams all day and never getting to go anywhere or do much of anything kind of work.

Originally I was going to get to sleep in a little bit this morning before the work started.  I ended up covering for someone who is out sick today and their team needed me to start work an hour earlier so I was up at eight and at my desk working first thing in the morning.  This has been an exceptionally exhausting week.

Around noonish Katie drove up to Peekskill to visit.  She and Dominica had a baking day planned for today.  I had been hoping to have been able to have hung out but, just like when Art and Danielle were here, there really was not very much spare time for me to be able to do anything.  It was very sad.

Dominica and Katie cooked up a bunch of cookies, meringues, biscotti and more – including Katie recently prize winning bread.  Katie also brought over an awesome bean salad and a surprise of veggie pate which is really delicious.  Katie was able to stay until around six or so.  Long enough to be able to have dinner and to watch a little of Coupling.

Today was an incredibly warm day.  It hit about eighty-eight degrees in the shade which is pretty warm.  We didn’t turn on the air conditioning today and the house ended up getting to around eighty-six or so.  It was a bit unbearable anywhere but the basement and even there it is in the low eighties and even there it wasn’t all that good.  This is the first really, truly hot day.  We pulled the screens out of the basement and put them in in the kitchen even though they are in bad shape because we just need the air flow.  We think that we might be able to put a screen into the front door and think that we might have found the screen that is meant for that hiding in the utility room.  Now if we can just figure out how to take the glass out.  Every bit of airflow makes a big difference around here.

I have been having some problems with my main Windows XP desktop.  I have had it for a while and it has been far too long since I have reinstalled Windows on it.  It has started to freeze on me and that just isn’t going to cut it so I decided that today had to be the rebuilding the desktop day for me.

I have been thinking about giving up my Linux desktop for a while.  Not that I don’t want a Linux desktop but my plan is to move to a Linux server that will provide awesome remote desktop experiences via the NX protocol which would eliminate the need to have a dedicated Linux desktop sitting on my desktop making noise, generating heat and using up valuable desk real estate.  Since I already have a Mac Mini G4 that I have had for years now and for which I have no possible use other than to make into a thin client I have decided to just make my Mac Mini into a thin client and make better use of the resources that I already own.  I need a desktop at dad’s house as I have a desk and monitor there but no computer so this will really work out perfectly.

The two desktops that I have currently (Linux and Windows) run on identical HP dx5150 SFF boxes which are nice, if not exactly new, 64bit single-core Athlon64 units that are rock solid and plenty fast for even pretty serious desktop users – as long as you are not trying to play modern video games.  Since they are identical chassises I cannabilized the existing Windows desktop for its gigantic (well, it used to be gigantic) 500GB second hard drive and took 1GB of its memory (two 512MB sticks – yes they really come that small.)  Then I set that machine aside as a backup in case the Windows install was to fail.

With the addition of new parts the old Linux box now has one 250GB hard drive and one 500GB hard drive, a total of 3GB of RAM, a single AMD Athlon64 3200+ processor and a Jaton Nvidia 8600 Low Profile GPU with dual DVI output via an octopus cable.  I also installed the firewire card that I recently purchased so that I could transfer videos of Liesl to the computer from the camcorder.  So while hardly a screaming new machine this is a pretty serious desktop unit once I put it all together.

The install of Windows XP went fine.  As with any install it took several hours by the time that I had the operating system installed, the latest updates applied and most of the applications that I use installed.  The install went smoothly and before long my dual-head Windows XP Pro SP3 workstation was back together and usable.

Now if time allows I will get the old Windows machine, the one that I have been using for Windows for the past several years, reinstalled with a fresh copy of Windows XP Pro and will be taking it to dad’s house next time that I go there to set up and use so that I don’t have to steal his desktop every time that I do something there.  That machine will be much more limited with only the on-board graphics card, only 1GB of RAM and two 80GB hard drives but for the type of use that it will get that is no big deal and I only have one monitor at dad’s house so that works out fine as well.

Work did not wrap up until around eleven this evening.  What a long day.  After work Dominica and I watched a little Hulu and decided to call it a night.  It is still really warm even long after the sun went down.  It is going to be a little hard to sleep tonight but we don’t want to start running the air conditioning if we can help it.

April 24, 2009: Last Day with the Ralstons

After going to bed at four this morning I was woken up at seven thirty and felt that it would be best if I just got to work.  So I did.  Right up and down to the basement and off to work.  Only two to three hours of sleep at most.

The morning was really, really busy and I ended up working solidly until around eleven or so.  And then I worked heavily, but was able to at least see people, until a little after noon.  Then it was time for lunch and as this is our final chance to see Art and Danielle before they leave for a month I just left for a while.

We decided that this would be a good time to finally try out Grandma’s, a restaurant in Yorktown Heights on Crompond that we have been seeing for a while that looks really good.  They say that they are famous for their pies.  We will see.

The menu at Grandma’s is really impressive.  It reminds me of all of the German, Dutch and Scandavian food that I often see when I am in Ohio.  Much like Cracker Barrel in many ways.  Breakfast all day.  Very “down home” with friendly folks meeting you at the door, lots of traditional family baked goods (not the fancy French or Italian pastries – just pies and cakes) and a menu made almost entirely of breakfast and comfort foods.  My family will love eating here when they come to visit.

Dominica and I both went for the “famous” quiche.  Art got a quesadilla and Danielle got a spicy chicken sandwich.  Everyone really liked their good.  The main course was great as was the bread and the salad.  We all tried to save room for dessert which is for what the restaurant is really well known.

We eat got a slice of pie for dessert no matter how full we were.  Probably no the best idea but boy was it every good.  Really impressive home-style baked goods.  Yummy.  We will definitely be coming back here.  Not the cheapest place to eat around Peekskill, though.

We said our goodbyes in the parking lot.  Then Art and Danielle got on the road to Painted Post while Dominica and I went back home so that I could get back to work for the rest of the evening.

I was quite busy for the rest of the day and ended up working quite late.  Another exhausting day.

We did not get a chance to go out for our daily walk today so at around ten thirty this evening, when Dominica was getting close to deciding to go to bed, I decided to head out for a walk on my own.  I went for a really long walk since this was my chance to really get some exercise.

I went down Maple Avenue until it turned into South Division Street to the heart of Peekskill which really is not a bad walk at all.  One and a half miles down to the downtown intersection.

I walked around downtown a little.  I discovered that there are two coffee shops within an easy walk of the house which is awesome.  There are also several restaurants of all types downtown that look really good.  Many more than I had expected to have found.

I then proceeded down South to Washington and over to Hudson.  On Hudson I walked down to the Peekskill Train Station and out to the park.  I sat on a picnic table and watched the trains rumble by along the Hudson River.  I was quite surprised to see a New Haven train pulling a passenger line north towards Poughkeepsie or Albany.  I thought that only Amtrak and MetroNorth ran this line.

On the opposite side of the river I saw a cargo train heading south into the city.  The view from Peekskill is mostly of Orange County with a little bit of northern Rockland County.  Watching the trains from the river front is really cool.

I was pleased to find that there was a lively crowd down on the river front near the train station.  The bar that is actually inside of the train station has a large outdoor seating area which was quite busy.  The Peekskill Brewery was very busy as well.

From the train station I walked straight up the hill on Hudson and down Maple to go back home.  I used Google Maps to map out the route so that I would have an idea of approximately how far I had walked.  It turned out to be 4.2 miles.  Not as far as I had thought but not too shabby considering how much of that walk – all of it – is on significant incline or decline.  Very good exercise and a good chance to listen to some IT Conversations on my iPod.

My walk lasted for almost two hours.  It was after midnight when I finally got into bed.

April 23, 2009: The “Call” Comes in for the Congo

Not only did we go to bed last night at a decent hour but this morning I was able to really sleep in as well and then, once I finally did get up, I spent a while working from my BlackBerry.  I feel quite a bit better after actually getting some sleep.

I had to spend the day working which was too bad because we will get such limited time to spend with the Ralstons before they leave the country.

Art had come down to the basement and we were talking when Danielle called downstairs to tell him that Global, their missionary agency, was on the phone.  This was the call.  The official “you can book your flights – you leave on May 25th” call.  It was really neat that it happened while they were here.  It was very cool to get to be a part of that moment.

After the years of planning the immensity of the move to the Congo tends to wear off on those of us who have gotten used to the idea.  Seeing the shock and panic as Art and Danielle realized that they have to be on a plan in thirty-two days to central Africa and will not be seeing anyone again after that brought it all home.  They already have a ton of travel plans over the next month too so they are already down to things like “only one more chance to go to church – maybe, and not likely – at their own church!”  That’s weird to think about.

So much of the day was spent getting plans together, making calls, trying to calm down.  You can imagine.  It is finally real.  They have been working towards this for a really long time.  They rented out their house and moved out several weeks ago and Art had just recently left his job so that they would be able to go really soon and they have been saying “maybe the end of May” for a while but it was not official and had a really good chance of not happening until the news came through today.

The call came in around eleven or eleven thirty.  For roughly two hours Art and Danielle were going as fast as they could getting calls made and taking care of communications.  They have important documents that need to be obtained, money to be moved, approvals to be processed, embassy to be contacted and more.  At one thirty we all went down to Pastel’s for lunch.  Art got the Belgian waffle with strawberry preserves which is the same thing that he got the last time that he was here.

Now the reality of “this is the last Belgian waffle” starts to set in.  From this point out there will be few, if any, duplicated meals.  Each meal is likely to be their last of that particular example of Western fare.

Within a few hours they had their flights booked.  They are flying out of JFK on the 25th of May in the evening.  That is a Monday.  They are coming to our house in a minivan loaded with everything that they yet own, which isn’t very much, that will be going in their luggage on the plane on the 24th and spending their last night in the industrial world at our house.  Then on Sunday evening I will be driving them to the airport alone and will be dealing with the minivan return and that stuff.  No one else is going both because it would be a logistic nightmare but also because it will be so emotional.  This isn’t a vacation or a short term mission trip.  This is moving to the Congo with the intent to possibly not return and definitely not to return, if at all possible, for a minimum of four years.

Everyone was excited and nervous and a bit over-excited so we all, Dominica, Liesl, Art, Danielle, Oreo and I took a two and a half mile walk around Chapel Hill.  We figured that some exercise would help everyone to relax.  As long as we were in the house there were just too many last minute details that needed to be handled.

The walk helped a bit.  It was good because we really needed the exercise as well.  This week has been awful for our diets.

I worked again for a while after the walk.  A few hours.  Then Art and I ran to Best Buy a little after eight to buy another laptop for Danielle.  She has a newish Toshiba but the motherboard is starting to fail and if a computer dies in the Congo, that’s it.  No more computer.  Best case scenario is six months to get one sent from the states and six months is not very likely.  A year is probably more likely.  And any files on it will probably be lost.  They had bought the Toshiba new to go to the Congo; it didn’t survive long enough to even make the journey.  So we went to Best Buy and picked up a Compaq that was on sale.  Just $430 for a really nice unit.  It was quite a good deal.  They are taking three Compaqs with them when they go.  They each have one.

When we returned from Best Buy we all ate dinner together.  Danielle had cooked tilapia in Balsamic vinegar, dill and garlic, mashed potatoes and asparagus.  Probably their last tilapia.  They can only get catfish and Goliath tiger fish (Hydrocynus goliath) in Impfondo and neither of those looks very tasty at all.

We stayed up talking for a little while but everyone went to bed pretty early except for me.  Always more work to do so I headed back down to the basement and ended up working until four in the morning!  It is going to be another night without sleep for me.  I have only had one “full” night’s sleep all week.

The Ralstons are hoping to leave shortly after noon tomorrow so that they can get to their next stop on the travels early in the day.  They are driving from Peekskill to Painted Post, New York.  Probably about four hours on the road.  Not too bad.  We will get lunch before they leave and then they will leave from there.  They are going to be really busy for the next thirty-two days.