November 30, 2008: Liesl Comes Home

My only plans for the day included sleeping in and spending the day at the hospital being ready for whatever might come up.  I slept in until around around nine thirty and then went straight into the hospital to spend the day with Dominica.  I was just on my way out the door when she called to let me know that the NICU pediatrician was making rounds and that it would be good if I could get there to be there when discussing Liesl.

Dominica and Liesl Leaving the Hospital

It was before eleven when I got to the hospital and got about fifteen minutes to visit with Dominica before the charge nurse stopped in to let us know that all of the tests had come back clean and that there was no continuing fear of meningitis (we had found out last night that the tests for sepsis were clean.)  Shortly thereafter the pediatrician came by and filled us in on the details although there are very few since the end result is that all of the tests are good and Liesl is extremely healthy (she also got 9/9 on her Apgar scores.)

The other item of concern was her bilirubin levels which had been 11.3 yesterday morning and 11.7 in the evening.  So there was concern that those levels would get too high and that Liesl would need to stay in the NICU longer in order to receive light treatments, but this morning the levels had fallen to 10 and she was clear to come home.

We left the hospital with Liesl around one thirty in the afternoon.  I had to make several trips to the car to get everything loaded up as Dominica’s hospital room was pretty full of stuff.  Then we brought Dominica and Liesl down to the main entrance of Hudson Valley Hospital Center in a wheelchair and I brought the car around the circle to pick them up.  It was cold and rainy so we really wanted to minimize the time spend outside.

We got Liesl home and spent the afternoon and evening just hanging out with her in the living room.  Oreo really wasn’t interested in her at all and didn’t even come over to say hello.  He was extremely glad to see Dominica though.  He had to spend a ton of time just sucking on one of his binkies because he was so excited.

This afternoon is the first time that Liesl and Dominica’s father really get a chance to hang out.  Frank had a cold while Liesl was in the hospital so he could not go in to the NICU to visit her and she could not come out to see anyone.  So he only really saw her right when she was born and brought out to see Dominica.

We tried to put Liesl into her swing tonight but quickly discovered that the swing was broken and doesn’t do the swinging action.  This qualifies as a minor disaster as the swing was supposed to be the place where Liesl would go to sleep when no one was holding her.  Now we have to find a Buy Buy Baby and get out there and get this replaced as quickly as possible.  We are really sorry that we didn’t test this out before now.  It never occurred to us that it wouldn’t work.

I played some Fable 2 while Liesl was sleeping and eating.  I didn’t get to play much but I have started using the real estate feature to buy up buildings in the game in the hopes that I will be making money during the times when I don’t get to play.  It is a pretty neat feature of the game.  I am enjoying Fable 2 so much that I decided that I needed to go back and play the original.  So I have Fable: The Lost Chapters coming from eBay.

We watched some Hulu or Netflix on the PS3 and then around ten or ten thirty Dominica and I took Liesl upstairs in the hopes of getting some sleep.

November 29, 2008: Work and Hospital

I had to be up before eight this morning as I am working today.  So I didn’t quite get a full night’s sleep although it wasn’t too bad.  I got a decent night at the very least.

I worked this morning from eight until eleven.  Then I got ready to go and headed on into the hospital to spend some time with Dominica and Liesl.  It was a pretty busy day of running errands and doing this and that.

I forgot to get lunch today when I went into the hospital.  So I visited with Dominica until around three thirty and then went down to the Beach Shopping Center and got lunch at Nonna’s, did some shopping at GameStop and then went to Stop and Shop for supplies.

After shopping I visited at the hospital again for a while.  I got back just as the Toccos were leaving to go to mass.

Then, around nine, I went back out to Stop and Shop and got more baby supplies that we had realized that we would need and got an African violet for Dominica.  I had been trying to find flowers for a while but have been so busy and missed a couple of places that closed early because of the holiday or weekend.

I stayed for another hour or so at the hospital and then went back home to get some sleep.  We are really hoping that Dominica and Liesl can come home from the hospital tomorrow.  Being at the hospital has been really rough because Liesl is stuck in the NICU which means that Dominica has not had any time to spend with her in a “normal” setting.  So we are going to be far less prepared on how to read her needs when we have her at home.

Super Nintendo Entertainment System (SNES)

I bought my SNES, with my own money, while in high school around 1993.  It was the first console that I bought myself and only my second traditional console after the ColecoVision that my parents bought for me as a child.  In between the two I had only owned a Nintendo GameBoy which was stolen at about the same time that I bought the SNES.  The SNES is the machine which I took to college with me in 1994 and was my only machine until I bought the Nintendo 64.  The SNES was one of the greatest video game consoles ever.

  • Dark Waters: New Horizons
  • Earthbound (Mother 2)
  • Secret of Mana
  • Chrono Trigger
  • NBA Live ’95
  • NBA Jam
  • Super Mario World
  • Super Mario: The Lost Levels
  • more to come when I dig them out…

Playstation (PSX or PSOne)

This is my page for tracking my Sony Playstation video games.  I had never intended to buy a Playstation.  I had used one while living in Michigan in 1995 because my roomate Aaron had one.  I used to play Ridge Racer quite a bit back in Flint.  Later, in around 1998, Mark Price and I were at Target and decided to go halves on a unit and just get one on a whim.  Mark never ended up paying for his half and I inhereted the unit.  It was almost never used and was eventually given away.  I only ever owned a few games for it as I used my SNES and Nintendo 64 far more.

  • Chrono Cross
  • Final Fantasy VII
  • Final Fantasy VIII
  • Final Fantasy IX
  • Legend of Mana
  • Parasite Eve
  • Suikoden

November 28, 2008: Liesl Turns One Day Old

Dominica is no longer pregnant; we have had our baby!

At eleven last night, after Liesl had gone off to sleep and Dominica was just being monitored after her surgery, we decided that there was no benefit to me staying at the hospital through the night and that there was almost no chance of me being able to get any sleep at all if I was to stay there with Dominica so I drove home.  It was a very good thing that I went home since I was home and in bed, snuggled with Oreo, well before midnight.  Dominica wasn’t even moved to the new post-partum room until midnight or later and she was interrupted all night long.  She said that I would not have slept at all.  As it was I was able to get six hours or more of sleep and Oreo was very thankful to have his dad with whom to snuggle.

Liesl Has a Lot to Tell Grandma

I got up at six thirty this morning and went into the hospital at seven.  At seven thrity Liesl was being examed by her intensive care pediatrician to see how she is doing today.  I went in and spent the early morning with Dominica who got no sleep at all last night.  She has now been almost completely awake for four nights!  It is amazing that she is functioning at all.

Dominica was actually feeling pretty good this morning.  She has been recovering well from the surgery.  She was surprisingly spunky this morning (although still tied to her operating bed.)

The pediatrician came in at almost nine to talk to us about Liesl.  The results from this morning’s blood work showed that her antibody count had risen which meant that there was a pretty decent chance that she was battling, in some form, Group B Streptococcus (Strep B) which is the most common cause of sepsis and meningitis in newborns.  Her levels had risen in comparison with the levels that they saw last night.

The bottom line at this point is that Liesl is in a high risk category for sepsis or meningitis and additional steps need to be taken to protect her.  So far there is no sign of an actual infection only signs pointing towards the possibility of one, but it would be very risky to simply assume that nothing is wrong.  So, unfortunately, Liesl had to have a spinal tap this morning so that they could draw fluid and determine whether or not there is a brain infection currently.

Dominica and I were, understandably, very upset to find out that Liesl had to have a spinal tap.  What a way to enter the world – long labor, c-section, seperated from your parents, hooked up to monitors since birth and now a spinal tap.  Not to mention the regular blood draws.  It’s been a rough twelve hours for our little girl.

Since it is black Friday I went online to Amazon and took advantage of their online sale.  There is only so much stuff that we need or want but I looked around and found a good deal on Transformers on BluRay as well as an item that I have been wanting to get for Dominica for Christmas.  So I have that item out of the way now.

Around noon we got word that the preliminary results from the spinal tap show no infection.  The preliminaries are hardly conclusive, however.  So Liesl has to stay on antibiotics until Sunday when we will get the culture results from the spinal tap.  Until then we will continue to worry even though she looks very healthy and the preliminaries have all been clean.

Dominica got cleared to be able to feed Liesl on demand late this morning which was a huge relief.  They have barely seen each other yet except for one brief feeding last night just when Dominica’s parents and I left the hospital.  The two of them got to spend a lot of time together today.  Our “hotel” room at the hospital, room 212, is right next door to the nursery making visiting really easy.

Dominica made a lot of recovery today from her surgery.  By noon she was even walking which is pretty amazing.

I set up shop in the hospital with my laptop and got logged into the office so that I could work.  It is the Friday after Thanksgiving which is one of the slowest work days of the year.  It is almost a four day weekend.  The market is only open for a half day today.  Unfortunately I am scheduled for quite a bit of late work this evening so I actually have more to do hours after everyone else has left than most anyone else has all day, and I am scheduled to work tomorrow morning as well as eight in the morning.

I finally managed to get the first 59 pictures of Liesl posted to Flickr this afternoon.  The only picture of our little girl that has gone out yet is one single image taken with Dominica’s mother’s phone that she txt messaged out to one or two people with phones that could accept the image.  Mine is not one of them.  I have not seen that picture yet.  Everyone in my family had to wait until I had a chance to upload the pictures that were on our Kodak digicam today almost a full day after Liesl was born.

I got to hold Liesl while she slept for a full hour before I left the hospital at four thirty to come home and do the evening deployments.  My laptop’s right “mouse button” is broken and that makes many tasks nearly impossible.  I need to have a mouse with me at all time when using the laptop.

I worked quite a bit this evening.  Much more than I had been expecting.  I ended up putting in a good portion of the day starting after five in the evening.  I am also scheduled to work again tomorrow morning so I have to be in bed early tonight so that I have a chance to get some sleep.

While I was working Dominica’s parents went over to the hospital to see Dominica before visiting hours were over.  I am not bound by visiting hours but everyone else is.  They got back to the house at eight thirty and then we headed out to get dinner.

I took the time to collect the Twitter transcripts from this past week starting with dad leaving Peekskill and going through all twenty seven hours of the labor process, the surgery, recovering and up until Liesl was free to feed today and things were as “normal” as they were going to be until she and her mother get to come home.  Amazingly, I posted approximately 1,100 words during that time window almost all of which were posted via a BlackBerry keyboard and most of which were cross-posted to FaceBook.  We had a lot of people following allow in one place or another.  SGL alone registered approximately one hundred additional readers during the days that Dominica was in the hospital and about as many were checking on us through FaceBook.

We had dinner at New City Diner in Yorktown Heights.  After dinner I went back over to the hospital for a little more than an hour.  I timed it pretty perfectly so that I arrived while Liesl was in the middle of a feeding so she and Dominica were awake.  Dominica still hasn’t slept since around Monday!  So I got to visit with them while Liesl was eating and then I got to hold her for a while once she was done.  I even got a chance to change my first diaper.

I left the hospital a little past eleven.  I was very exhausted.  Oreo was, of course, very excited to see me.  I came in the door and he ran to meet me.  I looked at him and said “Bed time?”  He looked up the stairs and then looked back at me.  I said “Yes”, and he turned and went straight up stairs and got into bed.