November 25, 2008 Part 2: False Alarm, We Think

Well we went to the hospital and spent about three hours there.  At first everything seemed like we were all systems go.  Everyone agreed that it looked like we were progressing but then, after a while, they did some tests and they don’t think that the water actually broke and labor is not ready to begin.  The nurses and midwife were great.  (What a relief to not have to have had any lab tests done today!)  They were really supportive and in the end left the final decisions up to Dominica (and me but I’m useless here) and let her decide whether to wait it out or to induce.

Around five thirty Dominica decided that induction was a bad idea at this stage (early induction could trigger a c-section) and the baby needs to tell us when it is ready.  We live so close that there is no fear of traveling back and forth between home and the hospital.  So we went home.

The good news, though, is that with another day of monitoring and testing that the baby appears to be completely healthy and, if anything, overly active.  The baby is still moving like crazy in there.

We went back to the house, got dad and went to Pastel’s for dinner.  I ran into GameStop and picked up Final Fantasy VII: Crisis Core for the PSP as it will give us something to do in case we get stuck for a long time at the hospital again.  We would use our Nintendo DS Lites but we managed to pack the chargers for them and they are lost in our boxes at the moment.  So until we find them the PSP has the only charger which we have yet happened to come across.

After dinner we made a quick run to the Stop and Shop for some quick necessities and then came back home and watched a few episodes of Mary Tyler Moore and had a fire in the fireplace.  Dominica went to bed around nine thirty and I am planning to go to bed at ten thirty (any minute.)  Dad is staying up for a little while manning the dwindling fire.

Tomorrow morning dad is planning to head back home for a week or a little less unless there is some immediate baby news.  We believe that Dominica’s parents are heading our way in the early afternoon and will probably be staying until Sunday night.  Depending on when the baby decides to make an appearance all plans will change.

November 25, 2008: It’s Showtime!

Dominica is now 40 weeks and 4 days pregnant…

Dominica Very Pregnant

Damp.  That is how things are around here today.  It rained all night and it is raining very steadily this morning.  We are pretty sure that there is some minor roof leakage coming down to the living room ceiling.  It is nearly impossible to tell but I think that the “wet” area is slightly cooler than the rest of the ceiling indicating trace amounts of current water there.  That is better than the plumbing being the problem; I think.

I started work at eight thirty this morning.  Dominica slept in until almost eleven.  She was really exhausted after spending the entire afternoon and evening at the hospital last night.  Nothing like adding stress and exhaustion to the woman who is past due to have a baby.

At eleven this morning, Dominica’s water broke.  It looks like the baby has finally had enough and is ready to come out and greet everyone.  Dominica called the midwife and we need to go in early for a few things but nothing urgent.  Could be a long time before labor really starts but because Dominica needs an antibiotic we need to actually be at the hospital.  News will probably be rather slow as we will be just reading and relaxing for quite some time.

Bob’s delivered our dressed at twelve thirty.  That was the last thing that we needed to wait for.  My out of office assistant is turned on and I have signed out from work.  The announcement has been emailed out and we are heading to the hospital!

I don’t know if I can update SGL from the hospital or not.  But I can update Twitter so keep checking in either here (Twitter in the top left) or go directly to Twitter for the latest news.

Posting just before we leave.

November 24, 2008: Completely Disgusted with Hudson Valley Hospital Center

Dominica is now 40 weeks and 3 days pregnant…

I got to sleep in again.  This is five days of continuous eight hours or more of sleep every day.  This is unprecedented!  I can’t remember the last time that I was so rested.

The federal governments backstop plan for Citi went through during the night and Citi shares were soaring in pre-market trading this morning.  Things are looking up in the short term for Citi and the east end of Wall Street.

Dominica’s day consistent of nothing but poorly handled medical visits.  She slept in a little and just before noon dad drove her down to the clinic downtown for her appointment with her midwife.  She was barely there fifteen minutes when she called to have me come pick her right up.  It turns out that the midwife’s office had scheduled her appointment before the appointment at the hospital which this appointment was meant to discuss.  So Dominica whole morning had been planned around a trip to the clinic where all they did was realize that they had a scheduling mistake and send her home.  So she has to go back in two days.

Rant Warning: I am beyond livid with Hudson Valley Hospital Center in Peekskill, NY and their unprofessional behaviour.  For the 99% of my readers who don’t need to know the details of the day here is what’s important – nothing is wrong with Dominica or the baby.  Everyone is healthy but the baby is not likely to come for several more days.  The rest of this post is a record so that we can recall exactly how HVHC behaved today.  Feel free to skip it.

Then, with only a small break at home, at two in the afternoon I took Dominica over to the Hudson Valley Hospital Center for the ultrasound and non-stress test (NST) that the midwife had wanted to have discussed this morning.  I was running around trying to get showered and fed before we left.  I only had time for a quick snack instead of lunch.  The change in her earlier plans had thrown off my schedule a bit.

So at two we went to the ultrasound at the hospital.  Dominica managed to get pre-registered so that we don’t have to do that when we go in for the labor and delivery.  The ultrasound went well but took longer than expected because the baby is extremely active and twists and turns so much that the ultrasound technician was unable to get good pictures.  Everything looks good and the baby is estimated at 7 pounds 6 ounces.  It is evident from the ultrasound that labor is not ready to begin because the baby hasn’t completely moved into position yet.  Labor is unlikely to begin until the baby is “lodged” head down without much room to move.

From the ultrasound we went up to the delivery ward for the non-stress test.  In reality, the NST should be called something more like an “activity test” since the real test is to make sure that the baby is mobile and active which, in theory, is facilitated by not being under stress.  Since the test actually tests mobility and activity and not stress it seems misleading in a marketing-statistics sort of way to refer to the test as a non-stress test.

The test itself went quite quickly.  Fifteen minutes or so and that was all wrapped up.  Then we got stuck for a while and I could not figure out what was going on.  It was already three thirty or later by this point and I was thinking that we would be doing well to be all done by four.  The results were up from the ultrasound and everything looked good.  Then, without any hint of there being “more to come”, we were given menus and asked if we would like the television put on (we were in a delivery room with all of the “fixins”.)  This was a bad omen.

Eventually a phlebotomist arrived and tried to take Dominica’s blood samples.  He was completely absent minded and talked to himself like he was crazy the entire time.  He was friendly but seemed to be quite off his rocker.  His English was not clear at all either so I could barely understand anything that he was saying.  He might have been high.  He certainly was not coherent.

The phlebotomist took Dominica blood sample through her hand instead of through her arm.  He was very bad at drawing blood and this proved to be incredibly painful.  I looked over and saw Dominica trying not to cry from the pain.  The needle in the back of her hand looked horribly painful and he was not paying any attention as he wrenched it this way and that.  I think that he may have kept forgetting that he was in the middle of drawing blood.  Dominica was visibly in unbelievable pain but was trying hard not to let on.

After the blood was drawn we sat.  And sat.  And sat.  After about an hour of no news a nurse came in to tell us that when no results had arrived from the lab that they had called to check and once they had confronted the lab about the lack of results the lab admitted that the phlebotomist had taken too little blood for some of the samples and had completely forgotten (or lost) some of the other samples so samples would need to be drawn again.  The lab was apparently quite embarassed and attempting to avoid the situation by not communicating this to us in the hopes that we would just leave eventually and not need the tests to be run.

Then we sat.  The lab never responded.  No phlebotomist ever arrived.  After forty five minutes the nurses came in to appologize, gave us a letter of apology and some gift certificates to the gift shop and called the lab to yell at them and to get someone up right away, but, as can be expected at this point, the lab refused to send a phlebotomist.  So we sat for another long while.  Nothing.

Our only guess is that there is some political struggle going on within the hospital and that hospital administration has lost control of some of the departments and that the blood lab is attempting to exert some control by refusing to do thier jobs.  It is incredibly unprofessional and a violation of medical ethics to let some petty internal concerns like this keep patients from getting medical treatment and lab results.

Finally the third shift nurse (we were there through three shifts!) told the blood lab that she was doing the blood collection herself since they refused.  It took an additional forty five minutes from the time that we were discussing leaving and having the hospital call us at home once they decided that we were worth treating until the blood lab was willing to tell the nurse what samples were needed in order to run the tests.  Incredible.

The nurse on duty took the blood sample and just after eight in the evening – SIX HOURS after we had arrived at the hospital, we finally had the results from the extremely simple bloodwork saying that everything was fine.  All of that and they could have just taken the blood sample at three thirty and called us at home.  We were there for so long that Dominica had a full meal delivered to her hospital room and was offered a second meal because it had been so long since the first one.  We went through three nursing shifts.  We arrived in the middle of the day and left after visiting hours had ended and the vallets had gone home.  The lights had turned off almost an hour before we were done.

It was really sad that long after the nurses had realized that something had gone wrong that it took several times the length of the total time necessary to draw the blood and get the tests results to even get the lab to respond at all.  Other patients were likely arriving, getting tests and leaving all while we sat waiting.

The whole ordeal was really awful.  We were in the dark pretty much the entire time.  I had no idea why we were there past four o’clock or what was going on.  There was really no communications to us.  We were just suddenly left alone in a delivery room for what seemed like no reason.  The worst part is, that even though the nursing staff for the delivery unit were great, that I have serious doubts about the hospital’s ability to handle any sort of actual medical care or to deal with an emergency.  What if something goes wrong during the delivery?  Will the hospital respond or will politics play a bigger role while disaster strikes.  If this is how the facility handles a normal situation what would happen when lives are at stake?  This was our first interaction with the hospital and now we have to have the baby there (we are too far away from another hospital to consider using them and we are too far along in the pregnancy to even consider it if one were closer) even without being able to trust them to handle the most trivial medical task.

It was a lot like watching Kitchen Nightmares when one customer waits for food and watches customers who come in after them get seated and served and leave before they get any food and at all.  Then complain that this is happening, get tons of apologies from the owner and then have MORE people come in, sit down and go through an entire dinner cycle and still not get anything themselves.  You wonder how that could possibly happen in a restaurant (it actually happened to me at Tom Wahl’s in Avon in 1993) but it is truly amazing to see it happen in a hospital!  And for all we know this is how everyone is treated all the time.  We have no evidence to tell us that this was a fluke.  No administrator was called.  No one was disciplined and after several “cycles” of being completely ignored nothing changed.  These are symptoms of a system where this type of behaviour is normal, accepted and no longer a cause for concern.

After our hospital ordeal we went to Pastel’s at the Beach Shopping Center for dinner.  We had been planning on going there since about five thirty.  Only, once we arrived, we realized that it was so late that the restaurant had closed.  So we called dad and had him wait at the house (he was going to meet us at the restaurant) and we drove back home.  Then we all drove together to New City Diner and had dinner there.

By the time that we got back home it was well after ten and I still had work for the office that I needed to do.  So Dominica went straight to bed and I went to work for another hour or so.  It is pretty pathetic that a simple, routine test in the early afternoon causes us to have to go to bed late.

I got to head off to bed around midnight.  I will be working from home again tomorrow.  It is a good thing as I have a ton of catching up to do from my lost day today.

November 23, 2008: A Relaxing Sunday, But No Baby

Dominica is now 40 weeks and 2 days pregnant…

I woke up around seven thirty this morning but, since this is probably my only chance to really relax for quite some time, I decided to just stay in bed and escape for a while.  Oreo got himself up and went looking for his grandpa long before Dominica and I got ourselves up.

Today is our one chance, without me having to work all morning, to go out for breakfast so that is what we decided to do.  We drove down to the Beach Shopping Center and ate at Pastel’s.  Dominica and I discovered that they have really great Belgian waffles.

Did you know that the pixel, roughly as we know it, is at least 441 years old if not centuries older and the documentation of such has just not yet been discovered?

After breakfast we stopped by GameStop to see what they had in stock.  Dominica found Lego Star Wars: The Complete Sage used for the 360 and so picked it up since she loves the Lego Indiana Jones game.  I also picked up My French Coach for the Nintendo DS.  Both were used and cheap.  I am always looking for a way to learn a foreign language.  I really wish that I could speak something other than English.  I have minimal survival Spanish but that is about it and it is very minimal.

I found out today that one of my all time favourite games, Chrono Trigger, an RPG originally for the Super Nintendo, is releasing this week for the Nintendo DS.  I also found that Final Fantasy IV has been remade and is now available on the DS.  I have a lot of game playing to do to catch up with all of the games that I want to play.

Dad did some work upstairs, including some patchwork on a bump in the wall where a baby item fell and dented it, while Dominica and I worked on getting the car seat put into the Mazda.  That was much easier than we had imagined.

Dominica spent the afternoon playing Lego Indiana Jones.  Dad spent a bit of time watching her play while I spent the afternoon in the basement working on a Ruby on Rails project.  A lot of my day was lost working on a really obscure and poorly documented Ruby/Gem SQLite driver problem.

For dinner we decided to go out to King Buffet, which is right around the corner, for Chinese Buffet.  This is our first attempt at Chinese Buffet in Westchester.

It was before five thirty when we got to King Buffet but there was quite a waiting line and we had to wait ten minutes or more to get a seat.  I am pretty sure that I have never seen a Chinese buffet with a waiting line before.  We ended up all being pretty impressed with the food.  There was quite a large selection and all of the food was really good.  Everyone really liked it.  They even had really good soft serve ice cream.

After dinner we came home and Dad watched television shows via Hulu on the PS3 and I got back to work on my Ruby on Rails project.  Dominica spent much of the evening researching new video games for herself and for our nieces.

I worked until almost midnight.  Before heading off to bed I checked the regular and financial news reports.  The US government looks convinced that without help Citi is going down – whether because of actual financial problems or just simple panic it is hard to saw.  In either case, the government seems prepared to keep Citi from completely collapsing.  It is going to be an interesting morning.

There are two schools of thought coming from the “purely capitalist” side of things.  One is the school that says that there should never be any government intervention and that the market should always be able to run itself, for better or for worse, because in the long run the market always chooses rightly and any government intervention just creates bad behaviour and bad results.  The other school says that there is always some form of intervention somewhere and that the public does not behave correctly for a pure-market economy (panics based on mass hysteria or incorrectly reported new, etc.) and so the government has to step in for the people’s own good.

In case you are wondering about market panics, think about Apple’s stock prices when Bloomberg incorrectly announced that Steve Jobs had died (he was actually fine.)  Several news sources had speculated that his health was failing and that Apple had no plans after Steve was gone.  This was pure speculation to sell papers to people who don’t do their own research.  Then, suddenly, one of the most trusted news agencies accidentally released a story saying that Steve was dead!  There was every possibility for the event to have destroyed Apple even though they were doing great financially and nothing had gone wrong internally.  Articificial forces outside of the pure-market were affecting large amounts of capital investments simply because the business world today is far too complex for normal people (including me) to grasp and because making investment decisions based on a news item require reactions to be so fast that taking time to check sources is dangerous and could result in a large loss simply by trying to be sure that something is true.

As you can see, capitalism doesn’t exist in a vacuum.  Not that I think that the government should bail out investors who do really risky things and then want the rest of us to pay for their gambling, but often, on the other hand, banks are hamstringed by non-market driven government intervention such as heavy regulations.  If the government gets involved in regulations (beyond the basics – no stealing, no misrepresenting, no lying, no breach of contract, etc.) then it has a certain duty to get involved when things go wrong as well.  It’s a tough call.  In either case, though, tomorrow is going to be interesting.