July 17, 2008: End of House Hunting?

I had to be up before six thirty this morning as I am covering the early morning shift and boy am I ever tired.  I am glad to be home today especially because it is extremely hot here in the New York Metro area today and walking into the office would be awful.  I am not looking forward to tomorrow when it is supposed to approach one hundred degrees in Newark.  Ugh.

Oreo really didn’t need to be home today.  He had tons of energy all day and really wanted to play.  He was so adamant about getting my attention that he actually barked at me several times!  He has only done this two or three times in the three years that he has lived with us.  So he was really worked up today.  He is so cute when he gets so excited that he barks at you to make you play with him.  He actually took a run at me, jump up and bounced off of me while I was in my office chair and barked in my face and then stood over his binky ready to play!

Dominica had a doctor’s appointment today, but not an ultrasound, to check up on the baby.  Everything is good.  She has another appointment in four weeks.

After her doctor’s appointment, Dominica came home and picked me up and I took her to work and then came home so that I would have the car in the afternoon.  We have to drive up to Peekskill this evening and I have to have the car as Dominica’s work is on the way and it would take an hour or more longer for her to pick me up and then go all of the way back past Totowa.

I left Oreo at home as it is so hot outside and I drove up to pick up Dominica at four thirty.  From Totowa, New Jersey we drove on up the Palisades Parkway and over the Bear Mountain Bridge on the Hudson River to Peekskill, New York.  Today we are looking at one townhome that we had looked at previously and liked as well as four additional townhomes in a different development that we had not looked at before today.

It was way too warm for looking at houses.  Half of the houses had no air conditioning and being in then when they have been shut up and are all musty and hot and humid with no air movement at all is a bit much.  It was quite uncomfortable.

We really liked the new complex that we looked at.  It was gorgeous.  We did not like the homes themselves as much.  The prices were all over the place.  There is one home in that complex that we would consider, but we are pretty sure that we are actually most interested in the one that we looked at for the second time today.  Our plan is to make an offer on that house as soon as possible.  If that doesn’t work out as we hope then we have a perfectly viable option in the other complex.  We are definitely glad that we took the time to look in the other complex as we got a better price comparison and more of an idea of what is available in the area and how long things are typically sitting on the market.  There are several townhomes that have been on for over a year!

On the way home we stopped off on the Garden State Parkway and ate at Burger King.  That is really handy and we seem to always do that on the way from Peekskill back to Newark.

After we got home, Dominica went straight to bed and I did a little work and then was in bed around eleven thirty.  I would have been asleep long before but Oreo decided that he wanted a late night walk before turning in for the night.

July 16, 2008: Getting More Tired

Something happened and I got stuck writing yesterday’s post twice.  I must somehow have never saved it or something, which is strange as the system saves automatically.  Or maybe I did something weird causing the post to get overwritten.  Either way, I thought that I had Tuesday’s updates already posted and discovered that they were missing and wrote them again.

In the rewriting I forgot to mention that Socks, the little baby Boston Terrier who lives down the hall from us, came by after his vet appointment this evening to meet us.  He is so adorable.  Just three months old.  A tiny little Oreo.  He and Oreo played for a little while.  Oreo loves puppies and is so gentle with them.  It is incredibly cute watching Oreo play with the little, tiny Boston puppy.  It is so sad that we never knew Oreo at that age.  He must have been the most wonderful puppy ever.

I had to be up early this morning so that I could catch the train out to Warren.  I was completely exhausted.  We tried to go to bed early last night but I wasn’t able to fall asleep as early as I had hoped.  So I am short on sleep again.

Today was another busy day for me.  I was hopping all day from one thing to another.  That was good because it kept me awake.  Otherwise I would have been fighting not to fall asleep at the office.

I took the five o’clock shuttle for home and made it to Summit Train Station just in time to step right on to the Hoboken Express with no stops from Summit to Newark Broad Street Station.  I was home in no time – well okay, about an hour.  But much faster than usual.  And I made it just in time for Dominica to pick me up on the side of the road about halfway to the apartment so I didn’t have to walk as far as usual.

Dominica went to bed early and I stayed up late talking to Andy on the phone.  We started talking around nine thirty and ended up on the phone until after two in the morning!  I am going to be even more exhausted in the morning.  Tomorrow I am working the early morning shift so my day starts very early and then in the evening Dominica and I are going up to Peekskill to look at four more houses and one that we have seen before.

July 15, 2008: Recovery Day

Dominica and I were seriously hurting this morning when we woke up.  Camping this weekend really put the hurt on us – we are too old for this sort of thing.  Min got up and immediately knew that she could not go in to work this morning.  So she called in and took a half day off sick.  Then she and Oreo slept in until around noon.

I had to get right up and get to work.  No sleeping in for me.  Boy was I sore this morning.

Because Min didn’t go in to work until late today Oreo was able to spend the day at home sleeping.  He liked that.

This week is really hot here in New Jersey.  It is not going to be pleasant.

I had a pretty busy day.  I spent the whole morning just catching up on the literally four thousand emails that had come in from the time that I left the office on Friday evening until this morning.  This amount of email really makes the whole email system completely useless.  People really need to learn when email is appropriate and when other forms of communication are appropriate, and a good percentage of the time the right choice would be neither and to just keep it to themselves.  The bulk of the email has nothing to do with me which makes it extra frustrating.

This evening was a purely relaxing one.  We just watched Third Rock from the Sun and ordered in Chinese for dinner.  Then it was off to an early bed time.  Dominica had actually fallen asleep immediatley after getting home and we didn’t have dinner until eight when she woke up again.

July 14, 2008: Returning from Watkins Glen

Thankfully it did not rain last night or if it did it was extremely little.  We actually got pretty decent sleep once we were all able to fall asleep.  We didn’t get up until after eight.

Contemplating a Tough Shot

We were delighted to discover that the sun was out and that the dew was rapidly burning off of the grass.  This was a Godsend as we desperately needed to lay out just about everything that we had brought with us in order to dry it out before we could pack it to go back with us.  If we didn’t get everything dry this morning then we had to unpack everything at Dominica’s parents’ house, set the tent and everything back up, let it dry and then have her family pack it back up when it was all done.  That would have taken hours out of our afternoon which we did not have any of which to spare.

There wasn’t really any time to spare this morning and we spent every moment that we had available to us drying and packing the camping gear.  We let Madeline and Emily sleep as long as they could but for Emily that wasn’t long at all and for Madeline it was only until around nine.  The girls really had nothing to do this morning and we very, very bored.  We felt really bad but there was nothing that we could do to entertain them as we had to spend all of our time getting the camp packed.  They did spend a little time taking turns playing Cooking Mama on Dominica’s Nintendo DS, but that only killed so much time.

Somehow the car-top carrier actually got dry and we were able to pack everything into the car.  It was amazing that Dominica was able to figure out how to get everything back into the car.  I could never have packed the car like that.  Not having Oreo with us did make things quite a bit easier as we were able to use the space in the back seat that he had been using on the way down.

It was a quarter till one when we were finally able to check out and pull out of the campground.  Almost five hours of packing!  But we can’t complain as everything was dry (except for the towels) and everything was put away and packed into the car.  What a relief it was to have that all done.

After checking out we played a round of miniature golf for the girls as they had been so patient all morning with nothing to do.  Dominica was only able to play a couple of holes, though, as she started getting light headed from bending over so much trying to play so she had to stop.  Being pregnant is tough.

After the girls finished their game we drove on down to the town of Watkins Glen and stopped a the Burger King there to get a quick lunch.  We got to try out their new apple fries which are apples cut into the shape of french fries that come with a caramel sauce for dipping.  It is a great idea.  Far healthier than French fries and quite tasty.  I never liked Burger King’s French fries anyway so this is a great alternative for me that makes me far more likely to want to eat at Burger King.

After lunch we crossed the parking lot and we all got ice cream (or gellato for Dominica) from the ice cream shop that was located right there.  Then it was time to really get on the road.  So around two in the afternoon we finally set off for Frankfort.

This time the drive went well and we made good time through Ithaca, Cortland and Syracuse and up to Utica and Frankfort.  We arrived in Frankfort just in time for dinner so we hung around for just a little while and had the picnic at the Tocco’s that had originally been planned for yesterday before the rain made that pretty much impossible.

Nose to Nose - 2004 BMW 300Ci in Frankfort

While we were there with the BMW 330Ci parked in the police station / municipal parking lot directly next to Dominica’s parents’ house another completely identical BMW pulled in and parked nose to nose with Dominica’s car.  We have never seen another BMW in Frankfort let alone a completely identical model with the same year, color, model and options and then to have them parked nose to nose on a Monday evening!  I ran out and took some pictures just to prove that it happened and ended up being outside at just the right time to see the other owner and to get to talk to him for a little bit about the car.  He does not live in Frankfort, as you can imagine.

We got the Chrysler 300M unpacked and packed up the BMW and were back on the road between six and seven in the evening.  The drive back down to Newark went well and we arrived at the apartment at Eleven80 before midnight.  We were completely exhausted by the time that we got home but still had to unload the car and walk Oreo.  Then Dominica went straight to bed but I was so wired from driving and walking the dog that I didn’t fall asleep until two in the morning.

July 13, 2008: Rain at the Glen

It rained pretty much all night.  We were pretty damp by morning and there was a bit of pooled water in the tent.  The porch area was really a mess.  Dominica and I were really glad that I we had panicked and managed to close all of the windows and to move what we could into the middle of the porch area.  We were in pretty rough shape as it was but it would have been so much worse.

Madelines Breakfast

We were all up around a quarter to seven this morning.  It isn’t always easy to sleep in when you are camping.  When camping you really get the feel for just how “shifted” normal life is from daylight hours.  The average person, at least here in the US, stays up long after the sun has gone down and does not get up until long after it has come up, but when camping you tend to go to bed right as the sun goes down and get up pretty much when it rises.  It shifts your schedule very quickly.

We got up and got dressed and spent some time trying to get the tent into as good of shape as we could muster given our limited supplies, space and experience.  Then, at eight, it was time to head to the “mess hall” for our buffet breakfast.  It is all you can eat eggs, pancakes, French toast, sausage, bacon, toast, bagels, muffins, English muffins, etc.  We were looking forward to a hearty breakfast after having mostly beans for dinner.

Emily Eating Breakfast

From the time that we woke up until after breakfast the rain held off.  It was quite warm and sunny which gave us a critical reprieve to get some repairs done on the tent although it was not possible to get anything really drying at all as the humidity was still in the ninteties.  It was just hot and muggy but at least we were able to shift things around and mop up some of the standing water.  That helped.

It was far too hot for Oreo to be left in the car and we were afraid to leave the campsite unattended even if Oreo could have been left there on his own.  So Dominica and Oreo stayed behind in the tent and slept for a few hours while I took the girls back to the swimming pool so that they could swim some more.  The pool is really great and the girls just love it.  We couldn’t have gotten a better pool for them.  It is big and spacious but not so big as to be dangerous and not so many people using it as to be a problem.  It is three feet deep in the shallow end and five feet deep in the deep end so it is pretty safe that way as well.

Dominica Eating Breakfast

I took the girls to swim at twenty after nine but discovered that the pool didn’t open until ten.  So we walked back to the camp and told Dominica but then decided that we would just hang out at the pool and wait for it to open as it was all muddy at the tent.  It started to rain this morning just after breakfast, sometime between eight thirty and nine in the morning.  So we were already wet just from the walking and the girls were getting pretty muddy as everything was dirt and had been wet all night.

The girls swam from ten o’clock in the morning, when the pool opened, until about noon when it was time for us to get ready to meet the Doty/Tocco clan at Watkins Glen State Park – just a few minutes away from the KOA where we were staying.  The swimming was very important as the girls were pretty bored after all of the time spent setting up the camp, cooking dinner, dealing with the rain, long drive to get to Watkins Glen, etc.

Just as we were finishing our swim Dominica instant messaged me from the tent to tell us that the rain was coming down pretty hard and that the tent was leaking pretty badly.  So we raced bask to help out.  There was only so much to do, though, and the tent just got rather damp.

Around noonish, I don’t remember the exact time, we drove down to Watkins Glen State Park at the south entrance to meet up with Dominica’s family who were meeting us there for a picnic.  It went from raining steady to really pouring once we got to the picnic area.  It seem to really start just as we arrived.

Our Campsite E103

It only took a minute of the heavy rain and the flooding parking lot before everyone decided that eating outside was a lost cause and that other options would have to be investigated.  We could not use the picnic pavilion at the park because it was already reserved.  So we gave up on Watkins Glen State Park and drove down to the Seneca lakefront park near downtown Watkins Glen and looked for a picnic area there that we could use, but there was no such luck.  We took just seconds too long in getting there and the last picnic pavilion was taken just as we arrived.

Dominica and I had seen a family restaurant in town right on route 14 that had looked nice so we talked everyone in to eating there.  So lunch was at Savard’s Family Restaurant.  It was sad because so much effort was put into the picnic and now we weren’t even able to all sit together as a family because there were about fourteen of us and we had to be split between tables.  The food was good and we had a nice time but it wasn’t the big “get together” that we had hoped to have been able to have had.

The original plan was for the girls and whatever adults were interested to go swimming in the Watkins Glen State Park Olympic sized pool but because of the rain most everyone decided that they didn’t want to do that and the girls were indifferent as they could just go back to the campground to swim in their indoor, heated pool.

We did decide that it was just too warm and too wet to have Oreo with us so we let him go back to Frankfort ahead of us with Dominica’s parents.  It was very sad to send him away as he really, really loves camping but it has been a lot of work trying to take care of him and with the rain we really can’t handle anything extra.

We decided that I should do some swimming which, since Oreo returned home, is an option because Dominica can be the “lifeguard” on duty instead of me.  At least one adult has to be “on deck” at all times so I haven’t even had the option of swimming until now.  So we hit the Watkins Glen Super Walmart and picked up some additional towels and two swimsuits for me (they were on sale, just $7.50!)

We went back to the KOA and surveyed the damage.  Surprisingly, even in the crazy rain and wind that we had while we were away the tent was really no worse off than it was before we left.  Pheww, what a relief.

We all changed and headed for the pool.  It was around four in the afternoon when the girls finally got into the pool to start swimming again.  I got in right away as well and this is probably by first time swimming since Dominica and I belonged to the YMCA in Ithaca in 2002!  I ended up swimming with the girls for almost three solid hours.  I got out for a little while and Dominica swam for a bit but she can’t throw the girls around and do fun pool games, being pregnant, so they were pretty bored with her in the pool.  We practically had the pool to ourselves all evening.  There were other people using it but not very many.

Trees at the Watkins Glen KOA

The girls started to get tired, and hungry, around eight.  They got in at least three and a half hours of pool time which was awesome.  It really wore them, and me, out.  I was pretty sore by the time that I was getting out of the pool.

We went to the campground office and ordered some pizzas for dinner.  After last night we had decided that we are taking the easy route for food today.  No cooking at all.  They had actually stopped making pizza early because they didn’t have enough people but we made boo-boo kitty faces and the owner came over and cooked pizzas for us.  We got some ice cream while we waited.  Under more normal conditions we could have had pizza delivered to the tent site which would be really cool.

We ate out pizza, it was around nine or nine thirty, at the picnic table at our campsite.  The camp was extremely quiet tonight.  There is almost no one staying at the KOA as it is a Sunday night and most people left this morning.  Last night there were loud parties going on and it bothered a lot of people.  Tonight it was all but silent.

After dinner I made an attempt at starting a campfire but had no luck.  It wasn’t exactly a serious attempt but more a chance to burn all of our paper product trash as kindling and a feeble attempt at drying out our water-logged fire wood that sat out all last night and all day today.

Our camp neighbours, who live in New Jersey but are originally from Belfast, took pity on us and brought us dry firewood and a firestarter thing that fired the whole thing right up.  They didn’t want to see the girls go without s’mores on their first time camping in New York!

Beyond Our Campsite

The fire got going in no time and I tended to that while Dominica worked to dry the tent using our towels and to get it sleepable for tonight.  By late evening the rain had stopped and we were starting to make headway on the tent.  It was much cooler tonight too – Min and I had to break out our sleeping bag for the first time.

Around ten we cooked s’mores.  Well, I cooked s’mores.  The girls really weren’t too interested in getting down and roasting marshmallows and Dominica sure wasn’t going to be bending down to cook them being five months pregnant.  The s’mores turned out pretty well, I think.  We are very thankful for friendly camping neighbours and their supplies.

We got the girls off to bed between ten thirty and eleven at night.  Dominica started working on getting everyone ready for bed back at nine when we had finished eating.  She did so much work tonight!  She and I were not able to finally turn in until a bit after midnight which was awful as we were just completely exhausted by that point.

Just before going to bed, while doing some work on packing things into the car, we discovered that the car-top carrier had somehow taken on water and had a gallon or two of water trapped in its lining!  What a disaster.

We did the best that we could to position the car-top carrier in such a way that it would drain during the night in the hopes that we could salvage it in the morning.  Because the water was trapped in the liner we had no way to open the carrier to drain it let alone dry it.  Tomorrow is going to be interesting.

Dominica and I were so stressed that after going to bed we had a really hard time falling asleep.  Everything went so poorly and there is so much more work to do tomorrow – especially with everything being wet and the car-top carrier possibly being useless – that we felt completely overwhelmed.  We were very worried that we just would not be able to get the site packed up.  We are supposed to be checked out by noon.  Then we have to drive to Frankfort with the girls and drop them off.  Then we unload all of this stuff, again, and load up the BMW that is at Min’s parents’ house.  Get Oreo and then drive back to Newark.  It is going to be such a long day.

Around one in the morning Dominica and I heard a sound outside of the tent.  We have the porch area wide open (but screened) so I could see out into the night to some extent.  We had a white garbage bag out by the road that would be picked up in the morning.  The KOA has garbage collection each morning and you just sit your trash out by the “road” just like you do at your house.  I looked carefully and noticed that the bag was moving away from us.

I told Dominica “Our trash appears to be leaving!”  So she grabbed the Colemand LED flashlight and her glasses.  She got ready with her glasses looking out the door and I turne the flashlight onto the garbage bag.  It turns out that we had a skunk looking for the left over pizza!

We were very fortunate that the skunk didn’t rip the bag all apart and make a huge mess.  It just made a tiny hole, probably ate more than it could handle for the night, and left us.