November 5, 2008: Very Long Day

16 Days to Baby Day! (37 Weeks and 5 Days Pregnant)

I got myself up at six this morning on just five and a half hours of sleep.  I am pretty tired today.  I had hoped to maybe make the 6:42 train but that just wasn’t possible so I got the 7:08.  That turned out to be very unfortunate as the 7:08 had a delay and we ended up just sitting north of Tarrytown on the tracks for almost an hour.  It was two hours and forty minutes of travel time from home to the office.  What a long start to the morning.  At least I will get to swim today since I am in the city.  Yay exercise!

Here is an FYI – my favourite thing about Joe Biden is that he is a major supporter of Amtrak and public rail transportation.  Yay Amtrak!  It would be so awesome if Joe was able to advance the rail agenda over the next four years.  The recent fuel crisis may act as a catalyst to make Americans realize that we need to beef up our efficient rail infrastructure.

Yesterday on my train ride home I finished reading Marc Levinson’s “Guide to Financial Markets, 4th Ed.” published by The Economist and Bloomberg.  Today, on my long train ride, I began reading “The Victory of Reason” by Rodney Stark.

I finally got to work but decided that breakfast was needed.  Shreyash and I walked down to Financier and got coffee and I got a croissant with brie for breakfast.  Yummy.

Dan and I took a late lunch and headed to the gym around two this afternoon to go swimming.  This is my fourth week of getting into the pool on a regular basis.  It is starting to feel pretty good although I feel like I am covered in chlorine all of the time.  Taking a shower at the gym doesn’t really get the chlorine off very well.  Today was a good swim, almost an hour.

I looked at SGL’s information on Google Analytics today and it would appear that readership has really increased in the last month or two.  I do not look at the stats on the site very often so it was a nice surprise to find that we have ten to twenty percent more readers now than we did just two months ago!  Awesome.  Keep telling your friends.

I decided that the only way for me to remain productive on my final paper was to stay late in the office and just keep working on it.  I have a very tiny window in which to work on it and if I don’t stay on top of it I will not be able to finish it by Friday.  The work is not hard but there is a massive amount of it to do before Friday night.

Dominica had her next doctor’s appointment today.  Everything went well there and she got home around seven this evening.  Crazy that her doctor’s office is open so late.

While I was stuck working on my process management paper Dominica did some more testing with PlayOn and the PS3 and got NetFlix working now in addition to Hulu which we had working before.  She says that it works just as well as Hulu worked and that the image looks better coming through PlayOn and up to the PS3 and displayed on the big screen than it did on her laptop.  That might be because of the PS3’s playback capabilities, because of the way that the Westinghouse blends the image compared to her precision Samsung monitor or just because the PlayOn server detects us having a faster Internet connection in Peekskill than we were getting in Newark and therefore we might be getting a higher quality video stream.  In any case, its awesome that the system works so well.  It’s like having the best features of television without the crap of commercials and the cost of cable.  It can’t be very long before services like Netflix will be able to deliver high definition video that rivals what cable is delivering today.

I left the office at nine thirty and made the 10:12 train out of Grand Central Terminal.  That meant arriving at Peekskill at 11:06.  What a late day!  I called Dominica from the train and she was already asleep and was not at all happy to have to come down to get me.  This week’s schedule is really rough on both of us.  It is a very good thing that she is done with work and home full time now or we would be in really rough shape.  I would be taking a taxi constantly otherwise.

Got home and finally got some dinner.  Just some stuff from the fridge that Dominica picked up at the grocery store today.  Finally we can have food in the house again and actually get to eat something different and healthy, and fresh breads too.  This is great.

I decided that I just have to work from home tomorrow.  There is no way around it.  I am far too tired to be able to go in early enough to get anything done nor do I have the four hours of commuting to spare at the moment.  Beyond that, there is no way that Dominica can get up in the morning to take me to the train station.

It was around midnight when I finally got to bed.

November 4, 2008: Obama Wins Election

17 Days to Baby Day! (37 Weeks and 4 Days Pregnant)

It is election day morning.  I didn’t even remember until I was on the train and noticed all of the newspapers that people were reading mentioning nothing but the election (and sports – never have I see a place that is so addicted to legacy paper-based entertainment and sports as New York City.)

Today is also Dominica’s last day going into the office in New Jersey.

Dominica and I had to get up at five thirty this morning.  Luckily we managed to get to bed very early last night and it wasn’t all that bad getting up so early.  There are no clocks around the house which makes keeping track of the time in the morning particularly difficult.  I ended up making us late and I missed my 6:42 train out of Peekskill.  We arrived at the station just as it was pulling up which means that there was no way for me to make it on to the train.

I waited and took the 7:08 train instead.  At least it was a really nice morning for standing outside and waiting.  Nice weather and a cool fog on the middle of the river so the other shore was almost invisible.

The train wasn’t so packed today and I had a seat without anyone sitting next to me.  It was a nice ride in.  The Lex Express was packed like a Moroccon sardine can without the natural fish oil (thankfully) but I still had to hold on carefully and lean over someone to have any space.  Good thing that that doesn’t last for very long.

The early morning voters on Wall Street were lined up all the way down the block.  You couldn’t even tell what the line might be for it was so long.  I learned today that folks down here have New York voter cards that allow you to vote anywhere.  I’ve never heard of these.  Being from Upstate NY (not downstate that people call Upstate) we just go to our local voting location and sign in.  No cards.  I had no idea that part of the state had cards.  I wonder if we can get them for anyone or just in certain regions.  There isn’t enough information about the complexities of voting apparently.  As a pretty well read citizen I didn’t even know to look for such a thing and I have been voting actively (except for this year) for fouteen years now and was active in the young Republican in Wyoming County as far back as 1989.

Here is a thought, if the price of gas had not plummeted just before the elections (ignoring all of the other political implications of having energy be a top priority for the economy instead of being almost a non-issue,) I wonder how much the cost of traveling to vote would have impacted voter turnout.  As it is we are expecting record voter turnout this year (the voters always get riled up the most when the vote matters so little) but fuel prices are also very, very low.  The lowest in a very long time.  I wonder if we would have seen a voter decline if the prices were over four dollars per gallon like they might have been.  This election year sees a higher number of uninformed and casual voters coming out rather than passionate and educated voters (I assume that passionate voters are generally uninformed and vice versa 😉  )

As always, SGL strives to remain educational such as with yesterday’s lesson on the locust of North America, today we will dive into the etymology of the Old (Olde) English phrase “arsy-versy”.  This phrase, found in use in print in England at least as far back as the 1530s means, quite literally, “arse turned around” and is the modern phrase “ass backwards.”  It is a blend of the Olde English “arse” with a rhymed version of the Latin versa.  Who says that etymology isn’t fun?

“Ye set the cart before the horse – cleane contrarily and arsy versy as they say.” – Prouerbes or adagies with newe addicions, gathered out of the Chiliades of Erasmus, 1539

Work was actually pretty busy this morning.  I was hopping all morning.  Daniel and I headed out to the gym for a swim at one in the afternoon.  It was great.  We swam for at least an hour and a half.  What a great workout.  I feel really good today.

A new report links Autism in the US Pacific Northwest with rainy climates.  Areas with greater annual rainfall have higher percentages of children with autism and autism spectrum disorders.  They have a lot of speculation about how rain causes autism including direct environmental impact or lifestyle changes (staying indoors) because of excess rain.  This, of course, makes little sense as the northwest has become a center for autism but the rainfall there is actually lower than on the east coast.  That, of course, is also beside the point.  I can hypothesis as to why there is such a high incidence of autism in rainy areas – and I know that some of my readers will guess my reason as well just from having read SGL so much.

In my own personal experience, with what we believe to be a form as Asperger’s Syndrome (an autism spectrum disorder – not diagnosed but I am very much a textbook example of the syndrome,) I have found that I just prefer living around rain.  I like the way that it sounds, the way that it feels, the change in the light temperature, the way that it muffles sounds and creates calming white noise (a major factor most likely for those with autism spectrum.)  I bet that a simple study would find that people with autism and Asperger’s often enjoy rain and migrate to or refrain from migrating from areas with heavy and/or regular rainfall.  This is purely anecdotal from my own experience but due to tactile and sensory commonalities within the autism spectrum I believe that this is an obvious answer.  A study of this would be very interesting along with a study as to inclinations for Asperger’s Syndrome children and adults about their proclivity to spend or enjoy time around fountains, streams, rivers, the ocean, in the shower, etc.

My afternoon really slowed down and I was able to head out of the office at a quarter after six.  Not too shabby.  Too bad my entire evening has to be spent writing a paper.

I just missed the 6:43 train and had to take the 7:18 out of Grand Central getting me home a bit after eight.  Dominica and Oreo picked me up (she is all done going to the office now) and we ran to Burger King for a quick dinner.  It was a quater after nine when we got back home and I headed down to the basement to get to work on my paper and Dominica went to bed.  Even though she does not have to go to work tomorrow she does have to get up and take me to the train station early in the morning.

I “watched” the election results via Yahoo! Elections.  Boy am I glad that this election is over.  It has been going on for so long.  I am just sick of hearing about it.  Obama is now the first not totally white President to ever be elected in America which is pretty groundbreaking as we are the bastion of white, male leaders.  Now we will see how it goes.

At this time, Obama has a landslide of the electoral college but only a sliver of a lead in the popular vote.  Hopefully those two will align a bit more closely by the time that the votes are all tallied.  We don’t want a president-elect without a clear mandate from the people to govern.  That’s just not healthy for a nation needing to make military and economic changes rapidly.  It will just lead to division.

I spent the evening attempting to work on my paper for RIT.  I am so worn out by the end of the day that it is really hard to get into it.  This is really tough as there are just a few days to work on it yet.

November 3, 2008: First Work from Peekskill Day

18 Days to Baby Day! (37 Weeks and 3 Day Pregnant)

“Only a white man would believe that you could cut a foot off the top of a blanket and sew it to the bottom and have a longer blanket.” – unknown Ojibway woman in reference to Daylight Savings Time.

Happy Birthday to John Stephens!

Dominica was up and out of the house way too early this morning.  Oreo and I had the luxury of sleeping in until almost eight.  It is all grey and overcast this morning.  No sun but the grey makes for some gorgeous foliage colours at full saturation.

With the sun less than at full power today I am really noticing just how dark our new house is.  The deck hangs over the basement doors blocking quite a bit of light there and being a middle unit the house only has the small windows on the north side and the glass doors on the south.  The living room portion gets some light during the right parts of the day but the kitchen, for example, get’s almost nothing.

Oreo and I got up at a quarter until eight and headed on down to the basement to set up shop for the day.  I have him set up with his Star Wars pillow and a pile of blankets and a few binkies right by the patio doors so that he is close to me and has a view so that he can entertain himself.  In this new house we will often find him camping out in parts of the house where there are no people.  We are not used to him having enough space to really get away from us when he wants.  In Newark he would go into the bedroom in the afternoon to be by himself but that was very close to where we were.  Here he can escape to a completely empty floor if he wants to be alone.

So tomorrow is election day.  I think that most Americans have the impression that this is one of the most important elections of our time.  Personally, I think that this is the result of “election Christmas season syndome” – the beginning of campaigning far before we usually have such things (like playing Christmas music in Walmart on Halloween!)  People are so anxious to get George W. Bush out of the White House that they have upsold the election to a ridiculous extent.  In reality we are dealing with a relatively moderate Democrat (Obama) and a very left-leaning Republican (McCain) who really don’t differ from each other that dramatically.  In my opinion, with the information that we currently have at hand, this may be one of the least consequential elections of our time.  So many key platforms are simply “fix the mess that Bush has made and continues to make” upon which both candidates agree.  I’m amazed by how many people are passionate at all about the election.

Just so people don’t think that I am off hiding somewhere and avoiding the election entirely as I am not voting (for several reasons but the big one is the incredible hassle of changing voter registration while constantly moving – I am registering not that I am living full time in a single place in my home state so I will be voting in the election in two years’ time but not in this one and because I don’t see the candidates as being massively divided but mostly just two very luke-warm mediocre whatevers.)  As most of you know, I am a libertarian leaning conservative Republican (my key platforms about which I care are freedom of speech (which is my I lean to Obama because McCain does not support net-neutrality which without we could face a loss of our most important freedom), environment, economy and a color-blind government that does not sanction racism of any sort.)  Beyond that I prefer light government to heavy government and would prefer that the country divide more heavily towards fifty individual countries with a lighter central government (more like the EU) but, failing to do so, I support a reduction in state’s rights as almost no American has a clear concept of the division of state and federal power and do not identify strongly with their current state of residence and would be served better by consistent and consistently applied laws that are clear, discoverable, fair and understandable.

Given my platforms and their level of importance to me I was a Republican hoping that Hillary Clinton was going to win this election but, having already lost that option, I am leaning my preference towards Obama over McCain.  My key reason for this is his stance on net-neutrality and the fact that I think that Joe Biden is really the best of the current executive crop and promoting his career seems to be the best option at the moment.  McCain himself seems fine but his net-neutrality stance is a showstopper for me even if many of his other platforms seem to be slightly more favourable than Obama’s.  I just don’t see them as important to the long-term health of our political system and ergo economy.  I’m pushing for my children’s futures here and not for short-term financial bailouts or whatever.  McCain’s poor handling of the economy didn’t strengthen his image either.  If he doesn’t have a comprehension of something then he needs smart people to explain it to him.  It failed with net-neutrality and, apparently, the economy as well.

From talking to people in the NYC area, most of whom are liberal Democrats – because that is the majority of the population here – I keep hearing the same few things over and over again.  McCain is so much a leftist that they aren’t that opposed to him, although they favour Obama.  I have heard a lot of disappointment that Hillary is out of the race.  But the biggest thing that I hear is that they are adamantly opposed to McCain’s winning of the election because they are afraid of Palin getting to the White House should something happen to McCain – which seems more than likely.  Few presidential candidates have so much tied to the quality of their running mate as McCain who seems so unlikely to last for one term let alone two.  Palin is the real polarizer in the election.  The mistake that I believe that McCain made was choosing someone as a running mate who only really solidified the votes that he was definitely already getting (the extreme right wing) but alienated a large section of the moderates who might have swung to the right in this election.  The rights were always going to vote for McCain and the lefts always for Obama.  Those are the partisan areas.  But a lot of us are moderates and actually do consider the merits of each candidate rather than simply following the party line – “party over country.”  I am very proud to be a Republican who cares more for his country than for his party.  But McCain sent the majority of those previously on the fence very solidly over to the Democratic camp with his choice of Palin.  Many polls that I have seen show her as being the decisive factor for the majority of undecided voters.

I also favor the Democrats winning this election (while it pains me to say it) because I feel that McCain, or any Republican, will fear using Bush as a scapegoat for the pointless wars in Iraq and Afghanistan and will work to “improve the image of the party” rather than trying to fix the war situation.  Any Democrat can just point to the Republicans (I’m not blaming us, just saying let’s get over the blame situation and move on – I am willing to accept the blame if it saves innocent lives), afix blame, stop the war and move on.  I realize that it is not quite so simple but basically the principle holds true.  The Democrats can pull us out much more quickly than the Republicans can given the political climate.  It’s just the way it is.  Let’s move on.

Given America’s horrible international reputation at the moment it is also helpful to have a Democrat in the White House.  This is not because Democrats do the things that people in the international community (especially Europe and the UK) want us to do – in fact the population of the EU and UK, in my experience, actually really favour Republican ideals but are so mislead by the Democratic spin machine that they get upset if a Republican is elected.  So, while having a Democrat isn’t what they actually want, in general, it will make them happy because the Democrats just do a better job at cajoling and manipulating foreign populations into liking us.  Right now, we need foreign support even if we do it through marketing and spin and not through actions.

So there you have my 2008 US Presidential Election overview.  Here we go in what I dub “one of the least consequential elections of our times.”  (Seriously, to compare either McCain or Obama to an election for Bush is really insulting to either candidate, I hope.  The chance that either is anywhere near that bad is really, really low.  Therefore this election would appear to have much less on the line than the last election.)

I saw the mail come today.  One thirty.  Seems like a reasonable time to be getting the mail.

Oreo finally discovered the deer in the back yard today.  We have three deer who like to hang out in the back yard just beyond our deck eating in the late morning or early afternoon.  Today is the fourth day that we have seen them there.  Oreo has yet not noticed them but today I pointed them out to him from the basement rather than from the living room and he got quite interested, maybe because they were so much higher than him for a change.  He growled a little bit didn’t get off of his pillow.  They took no notice of him.

I found out today that Republican Congressional candidate Kieran Michael Lalor is one of our neighbours.  We are new to the area and obviously don’t know anything about the political scene here.  You can learn more about our neighbour at the Kieran Michael Lalor 2008 campaign site or on his blog.  It would be neat to have a congressman living on the “street”.

I learned today that North American, being the home to the world’s largest locust threat just 150 years ago, is today the only populated continent without a major locust threat.  The Rocky Mountain Locust which once had a swarm larger than the state of California, became extinct in the late nineteenth century without any warning or intentional human intervention.  The cause of the extinction is not well understood but there are several somewhat reasonable theories.  Most likely the extinction event was caused by the natural course of widespread farming.  Although complete extinction is a pretty dramatic result of some casual plowing killing grasshoppers in just a few years in the days before the tractor.

There is a theory that the locust still exists but only exists in grasshopper form because of its lower population density caused by human interference.  If this is true then somewhere out there the locust is just waiting to rise again.  (For those unaware, a locust is a phase of the grasshopper that only occurs when the insect exists in a large swarm.  Grasshoppers are individal phase insects and locusts are the DNA match swarm phase of the same insect.)

I managed to get tons of unpacking done while Dominica was at the office today.  The house looks completely different.  Her office is all set up in addition to mine – neither was set up this morning.  Now we are both able to work in the basement at the same time and both be productive.  This is a major step forward for the basement.  The only really big thing left to do in the basement is to get the shelving units bolted to the wall for safety and then fill them up with books.  The books represent the bulk of the items still unpacked in the basement.  Almost nothing else at this point except for the wire box which will remained boxed as that is just how we keep it.

Only a handful of boxes left anyplace but in the dining room where we staged everything.  The kitchen is down to two partially completed boxed.  Ditto for the bedroom.  Living room is done and the basement is, as I said, at a stand still.  We now have telephones on each floor as well which is awfully handy.  And wireless so that we have Internet throughout the house although we are anxious to get the place wired.  Right now we are stuck with a rather dangerous CAT5 running across the middle of the basement.  We don’t have any way around that one unfortunately.

We found a sideboard (a.k.a. lowboy) at Target today which is very inexpensive and appears to match our furniture motif.  We are going to have a sideboard beside the dining room table where we will keep the alcoholic products like red wine and mixers.  Beside it will be the wine fridge once that arrives from dad’s house.

The next item that we need is our kitchen table.  We are going to be looking for a small, round cafe table maybe as early as this weekend if we get a chance to go hunting for it.  Something really small and cute that will be useful and still unobtrusive in the kitchen.  Just two chairs for the kitchen table.  The eat-in kitchen area is tiny.

It was a quarter to seven when Dominica finally got home after having left the office in Totowa, New Jersey at five this afternoon.  Talk about a long commute by car.  Only one more day though and then she will be home in preparation for the baby.

We went right out to New City Diner to get some dinner.  We were both really tired and just wanted to get some food and then to get to bed.  Dominica had the fish’n’chips which is pretty funny as at least one person has gotten the fish’n’chips at New City Diner every meal that we have ever eaten there starting with over a week ago when we went there with Katie (I got the first fish’n’chips) and continuing through every meal eaten there while my dad and aunt were here and still today.  Crazy.

It was eight thirty when we got back from the diner.  Tomorrow is another really early day for Dominica and early for me as well. We have to be out the door around six twenty which is crapily early.  I am going to attempt to catch the 6:42 train into the city.  At least I will get a jump on the day.

This week is going to be very painful for me.  My final is due on Friday so I am working on nothing extra but that for the rest of the week.  Today I had to get my office set up so that I had some ability to work on the final paper from home.  There is just no way for me to work from the laptop because I need so many different applications running all of the time.  There just isn’t the screen real estate necessary to stay productive nor is the keyboard conducive to a lot of writing.

Dad received my massive paycheck today that included the week that was lost prior to the house closing.  One less thing to worry about now.  Now we can pay any lingering bills like the electric bill.  Someone remind me to do that tomorrow.

Dominica and I are trying to figure out how we can handle getting out to Elmira this weekend for papa’s funeral.  The funeral is on Saturday morning.  There is no way for us to go early since my final is due on Friday night and every spare moment that we might have had to get a jump on it was used up in the move and, to be fair to us, I did not get my draft approved until late last night so we were reticent to have me doing any work on the paper if my direction was not sound.  Now I have my direction and I have an office from which to work.  Now I can get to work on the paper.  I have only four days in which to write a thirty-ish page paper and get it into “final” status.  This is going to be a tough week.

Given that we can’t work around the final our plan is tentively to have Dominica get tons of sleep on Friday (she doesn’t work Wednesday, Thursday or Friday) and to then get up and have her drive us out to Elmira extremely early on Saturday morning.  I will be far too tired to drive safely at that point.  Then we might stay out there or come back that night.  I have no idea what the plan will be from that point onwards.  My only concern right now is the tactical planning necessary to get my paper completed and turned in.

At this point we have all but decided that I am not going to be taking a class this semester.  There are too many unknowns with the baby coming the first or second week of the semester to take that much risk.  Best to just save the money and have some time to be home.  We don’t want to sacrifice my collegiate career just to save a single quarter’s worth of time.  Penny-wise, Pound-foolish.

It is almost nine o’clock and Dominica went to bed at least fifteen minutes ago.  I wrapped up some stuff for the office and am on my way to bed myself.  Oreo is anxious for a late night snack before bed.  Tomorrow will be an exciting day for the markets as well as in politics.  I keep forgetting that it is election day.  That shows how disconnected from mainstream media I am.

November 2, 2008: Unpacking

19 Days to Baby Day! (37 Weeks and 2 Day Pregnant)

The time changed this morning which was great.  It was well after the new nine when we got up this morning.  Both of us were still really tired.  I have a feeling that that isn’t going to change for a very, very long time.

I started the day playing some Oblivion which I am liking more and more as I get used to it.  It is a really neat game.  I hope that I manage to keep playing it for a while.  Somehow I doubt that I will have much time for it.  Right now I am still at the very beginning of the game and have just set foot through the first Oblivion Gate.

Dominica did a wonderful job getting the kitchen organized today.  There are just two food boxes left.  I got the basement office set up.  Not completely but enough to get us back to basic functionality.  We are back on wireless, Dominica’s laptop is up and running and the telephone is on again so we are able to make and receive telephone calls.  With the wireless up and running the PS3 is now online and updated as well.

Dominica played her new game, Folklore, on the PS3 today.  This is the very first that she has used the system herself at all.  She likes the game, which is good because it is the only one that she has.  I might even try playing it at some point.  She will have a lot more time to play the PS3 soon once she is home all of the time.

We downloaded the playable demo of Eternal Sonata for the PS3.  Wow are those some amazing graphics.  I don’t like the fact that the game is a “linear path” that you take to walk through the game but I really like the graphics, score (it is all Frederick Chopin), battle system and overall feel of the game.  I definitely want to play it.  I would much prefer if it had the open feel of Dragon Quest VIII rather than the “press a button to advance the dialogue” feel like Final Fantasy VII.

I had a pretty busy day working out of the basement.  I had several small items come up at the office that needed my attention and, as it is Sunday, I had to spend a lot of time working on stuff for my class at RIT.  There is no way to avoid that on Sundays.  This is the last Sunday of my class.  The class ends on Friday at midnight.  My final is due then so I am going to be very, very busy this week working to get that completed.

Dominica watched several episodes of Bones on DVD while I worked.  She may even have finished the disc.  Once she is done with that then Netflix can begin to send up BluRays.  Sweet.

I got PlayOn hooked up and working from Dominica’s laptop to the PS3.  It was really easy to set up and it started working right away.  We did experience some problems with it involving playback continuity but I am thinking that those problems are very likely related to the way in which we are using the system with the wireless.  Once we have all of the computers switched over to wired, Gigabit Ethernet and have the PlayOn doing its local caching off of faster, desktop speed hard drive(s) then it will, I am guessing, work flawlessly.  The playback was choppy (leading me to believe that the issue was our network and not our Internet connection) the actual image and sound quality were amazing.

We watched two episodes of The Family Guy and they looked just as good or better than regular television.  That was through Hulu.  We don’t have Netflix working yet but will soon.  Hulu is the only thing working thus far but it sure is enough to make the software well worth it.  Very cool.  Mostly we will be watching Netflix as we pay to have our content be commercial free.  But when things are Hulu only that’s fine too.  The commercials are minimal.

This evening, when I took Oreo out for his late night walk, we had a surprise run in with a skunk.  I was holding Oreo’s leash in one hand and his full poop bag in the other and fumbling with the gate to the trash area up the hill from our house.  When the gate opened he was right there, just a few feet from us.  He was pretty surprised to see us as well but was trapped inside the gated area with nowhere to run to get away from us.  He immediately turned to spray us but luckily Oreo came with me as I backed away and we were able to get out of his threatened zone and he cautiously snuck out and ran down to the pond to get away from us.  Boy was that close.  Closest that I have ever been to a skunk that I could see like that.  I was sure that we were done for.

Katie said that she found gas in southern New Jersey today for $2.01!  That is amazing.  We are going to be seeing gas below the $2 mark this week almost for sure.  Who would have thought?

Dominica went to bed at nine thirty.  She has to be up extremely early tomorrow because her office has a really busy day planned and she is supposed to be in very early to help out.  Yes, she is going to work tomorrow and, we expect, Tuesday.  To help her out tomorrow I am staying home with Oreo so that she does not have to drive Oreo to daycare which takes at least another half an hour.  She also does not need to drop me at the train station which takes easily five to ten minutes.

So I am home tomorrow working a normal day.  My swim schedule for the week is going to be all messed up again.  At least I will still be in the city most of the week to get to the pool.  Just not on my usual days.  My life does not allow for schedules at the best of times.  I suppose that that makes me more able to adapt to changing schedules since that is just the norm for me.  I do not rely upon set schedules throughout my life.

My goal for tomorrow is to get as much of my final done as possible (I got my feedback tonight for the portion that I have done so far and I was told that I am on the right track, about which I was quite concerned, so tomorrow I can really hit it.)  Then, as time allows, to get the basement office assembled as much as possible.  The hardest part is figuring out how to deal with some of the temporary cabling issues and finding parts that are packed away never to be seen again like Dominica’s laptop’s basestation which would be very handy right about now.

November 1, 2008: First Day in the New Home

20 Days to Baby Day! (37 Weeks and 1 Day Pregnant)

Dominica is officially done with her scheduled job and is now going to work on a day-by-day basis (dato-a-dato) until she is no longer able to work because of the baby.  Our expectation is that she is going to manage two more days in the office, Monday and Tuesday, before she won’t be able to drive in any more.  She is off Wednesday through Friday because of her bereavement days so by the time that she would be driving back down to Totowa another five days will have passed and that is a lot of time this late in the pregnancy.  We are into the “baby any day” zone at this point.

I managed to get back to Peekskill at 9:23 on the first off-peak train from Manhattan.  It took a while to fight by way through Grand Central Terminal as thousands of halloweenies were descending upon the city as I was heading out.  It was early enough that the family was able to wait for me to get back to Peekskill before eating dinner.  They picked me up at the Peekskill train station (which, by the way, our GPS unit does not list as even existing!) and we drove out to the New City Diner for dinner.  It is very handy that such a versatile restaurant is so near to our home.

After dinner we got back and it was pretty late so we pretty much just went straight to bed.  We are all really exhausted from this week.  Dad and aunt Sharon completed all of the painting that needed to be done in the nursery, master bedroom and the master bathroom which involved even pulling the medicine cabinet off of the wall to get the paint deep into the corner between it and the main mirror.  It was a huge amount of work.  Unfortuantely I have only been at home in Peekskill late at night and there are very few lights in the house so far and thus it has been so dark that I can barely tell what colour anything is.

Dominica and I slept in this morning until almost nine.  We are really exhausted after a very long and busy two weeks.  Now we need to do a little catch up on that so that we can remain functional.  There is a whole lot of “busy” coming up on us very quickly.

We had thought about doing breakfast with dad and aunt Sharon this morning but there was so little time before we all had to leave that we decided against it.  So we just visited for a little while before Dominica and I had to get ready to go to her ultrasound appointment which was at ten thirty.  We have an “emergency” ultrasound today because there was some fear that the baby was oblique and not completely head-down so today we are getting confirmation on the baby’s position.  If the baby is oblique it will raise the chances of having a Caesarean section dramatically.

Dominica and I had to leave for the hospital at a quarter after ten.  Dad and aunt Sharon were just loading up the car to head out themselves.  Just as we were leaving Dominica discovered that her referral paperwork was missing from the car so we searched the car and house in a panic and then decided that our best bet was to run downtown and get new papers issued from the clinic.

It was a bit of a panic but the clinic got us copies of the paperwork and we were up to the hospital by a quarter till eleven.  Late but they took us anyway.

The ultrasound went well.  The baby is actually head-down and not oblique so we are still in the clear for avoiding a Caesarean section.  Little baby Miller is currently estimated to be seven pounds three ounces although there is some growing left to be done and an ultrasound-based weight measurement has a very wide margin of error.

After the ultrasound we got a quick tour of the birthing department at the hospital.  It is very nice and I think that we both feel better after having had a chance to see the facilities.  They are very small and it is a very personal facility.  They are only really designed to handle about five new babies at a time which means that they only receive one or two per day, I think.  When we are there Dominica will have a private room and the new baby will be able to stay in the room with her as long as nothing goes wrong.  I am able to stay there twenty-four per day as well.  Visiting hours for the rest of you are from noon until eight in the evening.

After the tour we went down to the Beach Shopping Center near to the hospital and checked out the Stop and Shop which is our local supermarket.  This is our very first time buying groceries or any type of commodity supply while in Peekskill.  We really liked the market.  It is a lot like a well-lit Wegmans.  We aren’t sure but it may be open twenty-four hours per day as well.  We will figure that out.  It is very close to the house.

We picked up a copy of Hudson Valley Magazine today.  We are Hudson Valleyers now; time to get to know the lay of the land.  It was the “best of” issue with all of the best restaurants and stuff from around the region which runs from Yonkers to Albany.  It is a very large part of the state with a lot of really interesting communities.  We are also on the lookout for Westchester Magazine.  We’ve been looking for it but have no idea who might sell it.  No one appears to be selling it anywhere.

After shopping we came home and worked on cleaning and unpacking for a little while.  Then I made lunch which was vegetarian BLTs with thick sliced Stop and Shop Bakery sesame bread, Roma tomatoes, Boston Bibb lettuce and mayo with Morningstar Vegetarian Bacon.  They were really delicious.  We also got a Stop and Shop Bakery lemon crunch half-pie for dessert.

I got the Playstation 3 hooked up today.  It is sitting on our wire-frame printer stand and hooked to the television which is sitting on the floor leaning against the wall.  Not the best setup but we wanted to be able to use the system.  Immediately Dominica discovered why I have been talking about getting a larger screen very soon.  The current screen is absolutely miniscule in our large living room.  We have to move the furniture closer just to be able to see it.  We are used to it being in our bedroom where it was right at the foot of our bed.  It wasn’t large there but it was adequate.  In the living room though, it looks awkwardly small in addition to being hard to see.

I got the PS3 running and played a little bit of Elder Scrolls IV: Oblivion which I have been looking forward to playing for about three years now, it seems.  Jeremy had Elder Scrolls III on the PC back when I still lived in Geneseo and I bought it for my own PC when I was living in North Brunswick by myself in early 2006.  I liked Elder Scrolls III and was looking forward to the updated and larger sequel but just never had the time or the platform on which to play it.  It is a really neat, sandbox style traditional RPG with some action and amazing graphics and sound.  According to many sources that I have read the PS3 version of the game is the very best one to play as it came out later and had more time to be perfected before being released.

Oreo was sleeping innocently by the back door (glass sliding doors) this afternoon when the neighbour’s cat, Bella, jumped on over to our deck and came right up to Oreo at the glass and scared the crap out of him.  Oreo ran into the kitchen to get Dominica to come help him and then ran back to the window and attempted to attack Bella through the glass!  The two of them, I was told, were really going at it both being extra brave with the solid glass between them.  It was quite entertaining.  I was upstairs and was not aware that this was going on.  Very funny.

Because of the Oreo/Bella display we got a chance to visit with the neighbours a little.  They were pretty shocked to find their cat launching herself over onto our deck!  I don’t think that they were as surprised as Oreo.  He is not a cat loving dog.  He is terrified of cats.  He was on high alert for a long time and exhausted himself doing house patrols for the rest of the afternoon making sure that no other rogue cats were invading his domain.

After we were tired of doing things around the house, which didn’t take long after our long week, we decided to just go out and do some exploring and shopping and to pick up, if possible, something on BluRay to watch on our new BluRay player.  Dominica has Heroes Season Two but I have not completed the first season yet so we can’t watch that together until I do.   I have a few episodes left to go but each one is an hour and they are on the AppleTV so there will be no watching that until the AppleTV is hooked up.

We went exploring looking for Cortlandt Center which dad had found on a map and thought must be close to us, but we were not sure where it was.  It turns out that Cortlandt Center is right around the corner.  We just head over to Main Street and head east for a very short distance and there are a ton of shops that we will use all of the time including a good-sized Walmart, Best Buy, Home Depot, Barnes & Noble, McDonald’s, Burger King, Wendy’s, Dunkit Donuts, Applebee’s and much more.

We shopped at Walmart and picked up some basic house supplies and Shrek the Third on BluRay.  It was inexpensive and we assumed that a CG Dreamworks movie from the Shrek franchise would at least show off the BD capabilities and be mildly entertaining.  Neither of us had seen this latest Shrek movie (and in actuality we were not really clear on its existance – we are dramatically out of the mainstream media world at this point.)

We decided to get dinner out since we were someplace new rather than going home to eat even though there is food in the fridge.  We will have that tomorrow.  We tried out the Piazza Roma that is in the Cortlandt Center plaza.  It was very good.  I had coconut crusted sea bass over mangoes which was excellent.  Min had the pasta trevi and really liked that as well.  The service was a bit slow but there was a roast (not the pig kind, the jabbing kind) going on that had quite a crowd and we think that that was what was affecting the staff.  We will definitely be trying them again down the road.

We got back home and discovered, at ten thirty at night, that Walmart had not removed their security packaging from the BluRay that we had bought.  It is not the kind of thing that you can just remove and if you do it sets of a piercing alarm which you cannot turn off.  I know this because I know someone who had this exact thing happen to them with CAT5 cables and ended up with two alarms going off for hours and they had to bury the stupid things in a dumpster to get them to not be overpoweringly loud.  So I was not about to set off one of those in our new home with the windows open!

I drove back to Walmart as quickly as I could.  Luckily they didn’t close until eleven tonight and I got back there at a quarter till.  I got right in to customer service but ended up having to wait there for over twenty minutes while the electronics department flatly refused to help them at all.  In fact, the customer service manager also refused to respond when needed for other customers and the store manager never reacted at all.  Twenty minutes I stood there waiting for Walmart to give me a product for which they had happily taken my money just two hours earlier.  I couldn’t believe that little they were willing to help me.  The poor customer service kids were stuck there without any way to get anything done.

Not one single person who arrived after me even got into customer service.  There was a line the entire time and all of those people ended up just leaving without getting any resolutions to their problems at all.  Unbelievable.  I only got service because I wasn’t willing to leave and had already purchased the product.  I was there after the store closed.  Completely ridiculous.

I got back home and we watched Shrek the Third which was mildly entertaining, as we had guessed.  Not a great movie and definitely just playing off of the franchise but a decent film and definitely one that looked great on the BD player.  We are very glad that we now have BD capability.  It has solved a lot of problems.  Our Netflix queue should begin sending us BD films later this week too, which will be nice.

It was a pretty late night but we were energized just being in our new home.  There is very visible progress on the unpacking as well.  The office is still not set up and we are just doing without today.  That is a project for tomorrow as there is much that I need to do down in the office anyway.  It cannot be delayed any further.

We will be home tomorrow.  No plans to go anywhere at all.  Unpacking, homework, etc.