December 19, 2013: Preparing for Christmas Travel

Today was a busy one at the office. Most likely, I suspect, people trying to squeeze everything out before the end of the year as the mass vacation exodus normally starts tomorrow.

Tonight the girls wanted to, as they do every night, snuggle on the couch with me and watch Doctor Who all evening. This worked out well because I needed to keep them busy. Dominica camped out upstairs in our bedroom wrapping Christmas presents. So many to be wrapped. Dominica went on a crazy shopping spree this year and has so many presents to ship with us.

Tomorrow we leave for Ohio as soon as I get out of work.

December 18, 2013: The Childrens’ Holiday Party

I slept in and went to work a little late today.  Yesterday was such a long day and I wanted to make sure that the roads would be clear before I drove in to the office.  I did not want to face all of that snow again.

My morning commute ended up being just fine, but I am glad that I took the time to sleep in.  Yesterday was exhausting.

Work flew by today.  I was quite busy this afternoon and racing to get things completed before Dominica and the girls arrived.  I even told them to come later than we had planned so that I could work a little bit longer.

Dominica and the girls met me at the office between four thirty and five.  It was already dark out.  I came down and joined them in the parking lot.  We have to leave my car at my office building and I am going to drive them over to the office that is hosting the party tonight because there is limited parking there and Dominica does not know how to get there.

Liesl has been excited about doing the face painting at the party for a week.  Both girls just love face painting.  So we found the face painting station first.  Luciana decided on a snow man on her forehead and Liesl requested a unicorn.  The face painters did an awesome job.  These are a completely different caliber of face painter than we are used to having.

Next up was getting balloon animals made.  Liesl got a magic wand and Luciana a snowman with a strap so that she could wear it as a bracelet.  She loves bracelets, that’s one of her things recently.

They did some crafts and had some light snacks.  They did some colouring and some sticker things.  We got a light dinner too.   There was really good food and even the girls ate.

Our last thing for the evening was making our own gourmet cupcakes.  They were enormous.  Massive cup cakes and the girls had a great time decorating them.  Liesl even used icing to write her name on hers.

Describing the evening it sounds like it was very short but we were actually there for more than two hours and actually stayed a bit after the party was done.  The girls had a wonderful time.  When we got home Liesl would later remark that this was the best evening ever.  It was well worth the three hours round trip for Dominica to have brought them down for the party.

It was after nine when we got back home.  We had to drive home separately.

December 17, 2013: Big Snow Day in Connecticut

My alarm went off at twenty till five. I showered and got on the road before five thirty. It was very cold, the weather report saying just nine degrees, but there was no snow yet so while cold it was clear. My drive in was great, perfectly clear roads and sky, almost zero traffic. I actually made it from home to the office in under an hour! A record for me in either direction.

The snow did not start to fall until I was already in Norwalk and it was only heavy enough for me to see that some snow was coming down. The snow did not start to come down with any real earnest until seven when I had already been in the office for quite some time.

During the day, though, the snow really came down.  We were really worried about getting snowed into the office.  It was a ton of snow.

I worked late to account for the snowy roads, hoping that by working till close to seven that there would have been time for the roads to have been cleared, or cleared enough that I could drive home.  Hopefully with other commuters going before me it will not be too bad.

The drive home was not good but it could have been much worse.  It took me nearly two hours to get home so it was well after eight when I arrived.  Parade Hill was, not surprisingly, pretty awful and the roads really were not plowed at all.  Much of the drive I was sliding but at such slow speeds it is only so bad.

Watched a little Doctor Who with the girls once I was home tonight.  It was a short night for us.  I plan to sleep in tomorrow and give it time for the snow to clear before going in now that the snow is already on the ground.  We are really concerned that the snow will not clear before Dominica needs to drive the girls down as they are coming for the company’s childrens’ holiday party at my office tomorrow evening.  They are really looking forward to that.

December 16, 2013: Major Potty Training

It was one of those amazing winter mornings with the glistening snow clinging to the trees but roads clear enough that driving was no problem. The sun rising behind clouds of ice crystals making the sky a slow gradient of pastels of blue and pink. I was in bed at ten last night and that meant that I was up very early this morning. I woke up on my own at ten till five. I would have stayed in bed longer but my back was soar, the bed being quite soft being as old as it is, so that encouraged me to get up and get moving on the day.

I was out the door before six thirty, the earliest that I have gone into the office yet from Peekskill. The drive was very nice, the first part being in the dark but the sun coming up by the time that I got to Katonah.

As I came through Yorktown this morning I noticed that the Yorktown Diner, which I have been watching get built out for the last several weeks, was finally open today so I swung in as I was going by. There was no one there, I was the only customer. The owner said that they actually opened on Friday – but I was pretty busy that day so it is not surprising that I did not notice it. I got an egg and cheese on a hardroll and coffee. This is where being back in New York is awesome. Breakfast came to just $2.95 after tax. You aren’t going to find that in Texas. And breakfast was delicious. The deli is Mediterranean and loaded with awesome vegetarian options. Dominica is going to be thrilled since I can easily stop here on my way home and deliver dinner. Cheap and so convenient. They open at six and close at eight. So I can pretty easily hit them heading into or home from the office.

I got to the office at a quarter till eight. It is a bright, crisp morning and we are supposed to see it get pretty nice later in the week hitting the mid-forties by Wednesday or Thursday. We are hoping for good weather this weekend as we are driving out to Ohio on Friday evening after work for my grandmother’s ninetieth birthday party on Saturday.

Getting in to the office really early is nice. So much time to get caught up and be ready before the day really begins. Always strange, though, to be at work as much as two hours before the family even wakes up.

Dominica has to run back to Sears today to deal with the broken tire pressure sensor and to do some grocery shopping while she is out.

Today was a major potty training day for Luciana. Dominica had her on the potty nearly all day and she did amazingly well. Not only is her potty training coming along well but it appears to be fixing her constipation too. She had an extremely “successful” day while I was at work.

I got to leave at a good time today and was home not long after seven. Luciana was still trying to use the potty when I got home but gave up for the night. She was the happiest little girl that I can remember in a very long time tonight. The potty training is really helping her. This was the first night that I can remember in four months or more that wasn’t continuously interrupted every ten to twenty minutes by her running away and standing in a corner and with a pained voice saying “I’m pooping” and then “No, go away!” She was nothing but bubbly and energetic and as sweet and happy as could be the entire evening. Her old self again.

Dominica went out shopping around eight. She had to hit Kohl’s and get a carpet spot cleaner because, well, we are potty training and there is much to clean. And the girls have just made a mess of the carpets in general, yoghurt especially has been a huge problem. Our plan is to buy another Roomba, because we have been so happy with our current one, and forego a normal vacuum cleaner. Running a Roomba all of the time just works so well. We want to have one upstairs and one downstairs and split between them doing the main floor until we take out all of the carpeting and make it into laminate. Then we won’t need a Roomba there, normally.

Then Dominica went grocery shopping. She was gone all evening. Luciana requested that we watch Doctor Who together. Liesl decided that she just wanted to play her new Princess game on her Nintendo 2DS but she conceded to do so in the basement with her sister and me. So she sat on one side of the couch and I on the other with Luciana in my lap all evening. We watched two episodes of the fourth season of Doctor Who with Dominica returning home from her shopping with only about ten minutes left in the second episode.

We got the girls to bed right away, Dominica put them to bed tonight and read their bedtime stories while I did some emergency floor cleaning with the new spot cleaner. Luciana’s favourite story is still “Pete’s a Pizza” but a close second has become “Head to Toe.” When we read “Head to Toe”, both girls jump out of bed and go through all of the actions as we read the story. They are so adorable.

I then went straight to bed. The rumor is is that there is going to be a snow storm early in the morning, starting around five and going all day, so I want to get up very early and get on the road to attempt to avoid it. So I was in bed around ten thirty. Dominica stayed up for another two hours and made sure that the fire in the fireplace was out before coming to bed. She was not tired at all, having been out shopping.

December 15, 2013: Tire Shopping

Had bagels for breakfast and saw the Toccos off on their drive home shortly after the girls woke up to see them. The snow has stopped falling so they will probably have a decent drive back up to Frankfort. Once they had left it was time to take Liesl and Luciana out back to work on making a snowman that I had promised Liesl yesterday that we would make today. She loves playing in the snow, it is one of her favourite things. I remember when I was her age loving the snow. The cold doesn’t affect the young like it does the adults. Snow was fun when I was little. Liesl cannot wait to go sledding at grandpa’s house, that is her next challenge.

We got outside and discovered that the snow had melted just enough, and refrozen as it was barely over twenty degrees this morning, so there was that hard ice crust over the snow making it very hard to work with and so hard and Luciana could not get her hands into it at all without working up a good karate chop to break the ice first. The snow beneath was the dry, super cold stuff that does not stick together at all.

I talked to Liesl about the snow and she understood that we could not make a traditional snow man today because of the ice and the non-sticky snow. Being the smart kid that she is, she asked if she could make a snow angel instead, to which I said yes. Then she said that maybe she could use the plastic carrot and other snowman accoutrements from the snowman kit that Dominica had bought for her, to make a “snow angel man” instead. I was pretty impressed with that idea. Liesl said, “I know, I’m a smart little kid.” The snow angel man idea worked out great, Luciana even helped her a little. It turned out pretty well.

The girls played outside for quite a while, at least half an hour. I was out there with them regretting my lack of coat – having nothing but the fleece that I wear around the house anyway. I was just a bit cold. But the girls were very happy.

As soon as the girls were in from the cold we had to get them dressed so that we could get to the Jefferson Mall to go to Sears where we have an appointment to get new tires put onto the Acadia. Liesl wore a new sweater dress and high boots today. She looks so grown up. A very New York / New England stylish outfit.

We got the mall and dropped off the Acadia. They said that it would take about two hours so we had some time to kill in the mall while they got the tires put on. So we went and got ourselves lunch first at the food court. And then planned to just walk around for a bit. We found a GameStop so went in there. We ended up finding a moderately good deal on Nintendo DS games for Liesl, used of course, so we got her three (on the buy two, get one free sale) including a Dora the Explorer Puppy game, a Disney Princess game and a Team Umi-Zumie game. She was very excited. I found, used as well, the only two Playstation 3 games that I still wanted – Uncharted 2 and Uncharted 3 – for less than ten dollars each. They were easily forty or fifty the last time that I looked. So I grabbed those. My PS3 collection is now complete, I think. And my XBOX 360 collection as well. I cannot think of a single game that I still want for either system and as both systems have now been replaced, my guess is that that is all that there will be that I will be interested in. It will probably be a year or more before anything comes out for the newer consoles that I am really interested in, so maybe by next Christmas. Until then, I have all I could want for this year.

While we were shopping Luciana had a bit of a breakdown and I had to take her out of the store. She seems to be pretty tired and, as always, that is combined with her constipation which continues to be a major issue. She has improved some but only a little. It has been a few months of severe problems. She goes in spurts from super happy little girl to nearly crying and very unhappy and anti-social, often over the course of just a few minutes. It has been really rough. I can’t wait until we get this figured out and get her happy all of the time again. We have lost so much happy time with her because of months of constipation issues.

The time at the mall ended up being a total of four hours. A long bit of a Sunday afternoon. That wasn’t fun. Dominica and Liesl got a lot of Christmas shopping done, which was nice, while Luciana and I hung out a bit and tried to relax. Taking Ciana into stores really was not an option. On the way home we had to stop at Walmart too for Dominica to run in and get “chocolate milk” for the girls as our supplies have run dangerously low. It is hard to believe that Liesl still drinks one every morning when she wakes up and one every night before she goes to bed. It has been three or four years of this pattern now. She has had that as a major part of her diet for so long that it is easy for forget that that is what she eats. I’m sure she doesn’t think about it much either. It just is how life is to her. She can’t remember a time that she didn’t have that. My guess is that it will always be a comfort food for her, even when she is an adult.

Once we came home we got Liesl playing her new games on the Nintendo 2DS. She was very happy about that. She is really into video games and is so good at them. She is playing games meant for kids much older than she is.

We ordered in dinner from Nona’s which we used to eat at all of the time down in the Beach shopping center. Time to get back into old habits! Once the food arrived we took the girls down to the basement and we watched White Christmas as a family. Mostly Dominica and I watched it, Luciana used her iPad and Liesl played on her 2DS but we all snuggled on the black couch together and had family time. The girls are a bit young for the movie but we wanted to get them used to it as it has been Dominica and my holiday tradition for over a decade now. We knew that this weekend was our last window of time in which to watch it easily before Christmas actually comes with the travel next weekend. White Christmas is on Netflix this year so we just watched it there.

I managed to get Luciana to eat some prunes while we were watching the movies. She is very good, much better than Liesl, about understanding when a food or medicine is supposed to make her feel better and happily eating it. She’ll even ask for medicine or whatever to make her feel better. After she ate three prunes in quick succession she told me that prunes were her favourite food. Here is to hoping that she feels that way tomorrow too and we can keep her eating them.

After White Christmas, Dominica wanted to watch National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation. Not as classic as White Christmas (but it makes an awesome reference to it late in the film) it is a good film. And after that, off to bed for everyone. An early night for us.

While getting Luciana ready for bed Dominica was able to coax her into relaxing and she was able to poop an epic poop. After that Luciana was so happy and bubbly and ready to run around the house dancing. That is what she needed. Smiles and giggles were all we got until she was falling asleep in bed.

The girls were in bed by nine thirty and I went to bed at ten. Dominica stayed up for a while wrapping presents, this being one of the last chances that she will have until needing to travel. Some of the Christmas presents headed up to Frankfort with her parents this morning.