October 14, 2008: Day Two of Swimming

38 Days to Baby Day! (34 Weeks and Four Days Pregnant)

13 Work Days Left for Dominica; House closing scheduled in 7 days.

Joel Spolsky had a great article in Inc. recently on the dangers of paying commissions.  This is an extension of the greater concepts that surround the flowed ideas of organizational measurability.  Often the MBA kids in the offices are so disconnected with the real world that they assume that they can simple apply metrics that determine desired outcome and apply incentives to tweak the output to those metrics.  According to Harvard professor Robert Austin in his book “Measuring and Managing Performance in Organizations“, this type of behaviour always fails and I agree.  I have been arguing for some time for this point and have written a few articles already about it myself.  Joel Spolsky: How Hard Could It Be?: Sins of Commissions.

I am happy to announce that the Pandora, the hot, open, handheld Linux video game console has sold outs its initial run!  Cross your fingers, this could bode extremely well for the handheld and Linux based gaming circles.  One of the really neat things is that games built for the Pandora are likely to run on standard Linux as well making it a very attractive target platform.

My body was not ready to get up this morning extra early after having swum yesterday.  I am pretty soar and tired.  My brain was ready to get up but my body was not.

Oreo, who visited the doggy hospital yesterday, seems to be feeling much better this morning.  He is exhausted still, but that is to be expected considering that he is on some medicine for his itching that might be making him extra tired and the allergies themselves might be wearing on him as well.  The important thing is that he is not really scratching himself this morning and they said that he did not seem to be scratching while at daycare yesterday either.

Steve, from the moving company, arrived at ten till seven and the inspection was done by around a quarter after.  Dominica was able to hang around to be here and ask questions during the inspection which was helpful.

Today was a good day to get an early start on my walk in because it was warmer than it has been and rather humid.  Surprisingly humid for mid-October.  I stopped by Airlie Cafe to pick up a bagel for my walk and was just finishing it at the corner of Raymond and the McCarter Highway when I ran into Linnea who was also walking to the train station so we had a chance to talk although she was not taking the PATH so we did not get to talk for very long.

I stopped by Modell’s Sporting Goods on Broadway on my way to the office to pick up a pair of swim goggles.  I had managed to make do swimming without them yesterday but it was not nearly as pleasant as it would be if I were to have them so I made a point of looking for a pair on my walk.  Speedo apparently no longer sells the hard plastic goggles that I used to prefer so I am stuck trying some softer, wimpier goggles that I have serious doubts about.  Hopefully plastics engineering has outpaced my cynicism.

I actually forgot to turn onto Wall Street today and ended up walking an extra three-quarters of a mile down past Bowling Green.  At least it was a nice walk and I got some extra exercise.  Not that I need it today after having swum yesterday.  I am really feeling it today, but that is a good sign.  Exercise that doesn’t hurt is a waste of time.

My morning was pretty busy.  Everyone is getting back into the swing of work and there is plenty that needs to be done.  For food, Dan and I grabbed quick sandwiches from the shop just outside and ate quickly while sitting out on the East River enjoying the weather and looking at Brooklyn’s skyline.

Today, while reading about Scheme, I found that MIT makes available the complete text of their classic “Structure and Interpretation of Computer Programs” online for free.  This book varies from many computer science texts in that it uses Lisp, and not C, as the basis for its teaching.  Specifically, SICP uses the Scheme variant of Lisp which I have installed on my desktop and with which I have been playing.  Scheme is fun.  I like the way that makes me think differently about programming.  Working with it today I came to realize that my old HP Calculator was actually a simple Lisp programming environment.

On her lunch break today Dominica ran out to do shopping for the boxes and other packing materials that we need to get the apartment ready for the movers.  The movers estimated that we will be needing approximately forty-five boxes to move our tiny, little apartment!  It is a good thing that we have the Mazda already.  Those boxes would not even fit into the BMW.

My afternoon was pretty hectic.  We had some major system hardware problems today that kept me busy all day.  I really never got any sort of a break.  I did not get a chance to go to the gym with Dan until after four.  It was a shorter day today than yesterday, but I am very glad that I went and am getting some momentum going.  I really enjoy going to the gym in the middle of the day.  It makes me feel good.

It was five when we got back to the office.  I had tons left to do and ended up working until long after seven in the evening.  What a long day.

I found out yesterday that SquareEnix’s Final Fantasy XIII has been announced fairly recently for the XBOX 360 in addition to the PS3.  As Dominica and I both really detest Sony and as the XBOX is far less expensive than the PS3 and since this title was the one game making us really feel confident that the PS3 was for us – it really seems as though an inexpensive 360 will be a much better choice.  FF13 and Assassin’s Creed and I will be good to go.  Not many titles in which I have much interest but it only takes a few to make a console really worth while.  I have one or two older XBOX games like Shenmue II that I will happily spend some time playing on the 360 as well that I already own.  So it will get some use right away.  I hope that we have an opportunity to have one before Christmas, but that might be just a little bit ambitious.  I am going to be awfully busy between now and then.

I am really looking forward to being able to play video games with my child.  That is one of the coolest things about being the parent of a child of this generation.  Unlike my generation whose parents, by and large, were unable to really grasp the overarching concepts behind video games which created a bit of a chasm between the generations, my generation gets to use video games as a bonding experience with our kids.  Just look at the Ralstons who love to play games like Age of Empires II together – that is a vastly more “family oriented” activity than, say, watching television.

It is strange for me to think that the XBOX 360 and Nintendo Wii (we already have the Wii and the 360 will definitely join it before the end of 2009) will be to my child very similar to the Atari 2600 to me.  The Atari 2600 (a.k.a. the Atari VCS up until I was about six years old when the 2600 moniker arrived) was introduced when I was just one years old and was the video game system of my early memories.  Even though the Wii and 360 are years older in comparison to my child’s pending age they will be in a similar memory slot and will be practically identical to Dominica’s recollection of the 2600 since it game out about a year before she was born.

Video games are very different now, though, and now they represent more of an interactive literary experience rather than simple, mind-numbing time wasting.  The Atari 2600 left much to be desired in the interaction department.  Those were simple days that I do not regret having been a bit too young to have truly been mired.  Now video games have depth and excitement.  My child will likely have quite an amazing experience getting to play a huge available backlog of gaming classics (more than they could ever hope to play through) along with an amazing array of games that we cannot even yet imagine.  Getting to see the world of video gaming through a child’s eyes, again, is going to be a lot of fun.

It was almost nine when I got home to Eleven80.  I keep timing the trip casually and I am not sure if the commute to and from Peekskill is really going to be that much longer than the trip to and from Newark.  Having a published train schedule and not walking the bit at the end (the half mile each direction from Eleven80 to Penn Station) might make more of a difference than I realize.  Or, possible, the door to door time will be much longer than I am anticipating and that will be awful.  I think that realistically it takes me quite a bit more than an hour to get from Eleven80 to the end of Wall Street.  The walk is so far that it really adds a ton of extra time to the trip, but the exercise is obviously very good for me.

Dominica couldn’t decide on dinner so just had me pick up McDonald’s from Penn Station in Newark on my way home.  That is so convenient that it is tempting to do it all of the time but we try to avoid that whenever possible.  Tonight it was just meatless Big Macs and French Fries for us and a fruit and yogurt parfait for Dominica as well.  Oreo was very happy.  McD’s fries are his all time favourite food.

While eating dinner we watched a little of The Fresh Prince of Bel Air.  Only two episodes which is approximately forty-five minutes.  One of the advantages of using AppleTV to watch television (or Tivo or other means of non-traditional time shifting) is that we get fifty percent better content density without any marketing affecting the way that we think.  So we get to shave fifteen minutes off of every hour of television shows compared to regular television while getting the same amount of content.  It makes watching a few shows a lot less of an impact on our evening.

Dominica went to bed around ten.  I stayed up a little longer just watching some podcasts from the AppleTV.  I watched some video game trailers to see what is coming out as I am pretty out of touch with the video game world these days.

Podcasting is really the format for video game news, I think.  The topic is so accessible to everyone and all that anyone cares about in video game journalism is either previews or reviews.  To provide previews you pretty much just need to republish trailers from the vendors or get your hands on an early copy and make some previews.  To do reviews you just need one or more people to play the game for a while and tell people what they think.  A reviewer in a major gaming rag or just a serious amateur player have the same potential to provide reviews that are useful to you.  With lots of amateurs you are more likely to find someone with similar tastes to your own which is more useful than a handful of staff gamers.

The video format is far better for video games too.  Looking at static images in a paper-based magazine does little to convey the emotion of the game.  Just watching a video of the game only does so much as well but at least you can see the animation, the effects and hear the score.  It is far more engaging.

So it was around eleven, most likely, when I finally got to sleep.  I could barely stay in the bed as Oreo was snuggling as close as he could and was pushing me right off of the side of the bed.  Tomorrow I am in Warren so I will be up nice and early.

October 13, 2008: Swimming Again

39 Days to Baby Day! (34 Weeks and Three Days Pregnant)

14 Work Days Left for Dominica; House closing scheduled in 8 days.

First thing this morning we looked at Oreo and determined that he needed to go to the doggy hospital right away this morning.  His allergies are out of control and they need to be dealt with in some serious manner as soon as possible.  So Dominica called in to work and let them know that she would be running late and she took Oreo to the animal hospital at nine, just as soon as they opened.  She picked up breakfast and ate there waiting for them to have an opening or a cancellation as she was not able to get scheduled to see anyone until almost noon!  (And after that Oreo can’t go to daycare because they don’t accept the dogs that late in the day.)

It turns out that Oreo is having severe environmental allergies and needs some serious treatment.  Right away he is on a steroid series and will be getting a topical steroidal shampoo starting tonight and every few days.

This morning I finished reading the “No Fluff, Just Stuff Anthology 2007” edited by Neal Ford.

Dominica and I have been discussing the “14 more days of work” situation and it looks like she is actually going to extend that date a little bit.  We have not figured out the details of how this would work yet so we are not committing to any particular plan of action quite yet.  But after we move up to Peekskill she might put in another few days of work down in Totowa, New Jersey even though the commute is really long.  Figuring out what to do with Oreo those days will be the toughest part but I might just stay home with him on the off chance that we will be able to have Internet access hooked up un the house by that point.  (We are really worried about that because of the tiny window in which we have to get that hooked up before moving.)  So it is possible that Dominica will not actually be done at the end of the month but we do know that she can only do so much after the first.  Maybe four or five days tops.  The extra money is really important with the house, baby and everything else going on.

I worked from home for a little bit this morning just making sure that no one was waiting on anything.  Then I walked into the office on Wall Street.  It was a very quiet day.  Even the groups that do not have today off were all running at partial staff and lots of people were leaving after lunch so the day just got slower and slower.

For a late lunch, Dan and I walked down to the bottom of Whitehall and went to the New York Health and Racquet Club.  Dan did weights and I went swimming for forty-five or fifty minutes.  Just laps.  This is my first time swimming laps since 2002, I think.  By the time that I was done I was quite sore.

The afternoon flew by in no time.  Since today is a holiday and the office is mostly empty there was no reason to need to stay late this evening.  I left the office at around a quarter until six and headed for the train at the World Trade Center.

I had to give Oreo a special steroidal bath this evening.  He is such a good boy.  I told him that he needed to have a bath and he came into the bathroom all by himself without me calling him.  It was a long bath too.  Actually a shower.  He likes getting a shower but not so much a bath.  A shower is much warmer and probably feels really good on his back.  He loves to just stand in the shower.

The steroidal shampoo required me to put in on him and then to leave him standing in the bath for five to ten minutes to let the topical steroid treatment set in.  Oreo did not like this part very much.  Cold, wet dog standing in the bathtub was not his idea of an evening treat.  He was a very good little boy and put up with the cold and hopefully will not be itchy tonight.

Our evening was so busy that we just ordered in from Nino’s and ate while watching a single episode of The Fresh Prince of Bel Air.  It was a quick evening even though I made it home a little bit early.

Dominica and I have to be awake early tomorrow as our apartment inspection by the movers is at seven in the morning.  That means that I need to be awake at five thirty so that I can get ready before they arrive.

October 12, 2008: Final Drive from Peoria to Newark

40 Days to Baby Day! (34 Weeks and Two Days Pregnant)

15 Work Days Left for Dominica; House closing scheduled in 9 days.

As you can imagine I was pretty tired this morning when I got paged from the office!  I was not expecting there to be any work going on this morning and so I only had about four hours of sleep at best when dad woke me up to let me know that people were calling looking for me from the office.  So much for sleeping in.

Autumn and Dad's Big Maple

I didn’t have to actually work for very long this morning.  Only about an hour.

After my work was done, we got ready and then drove over to Geneseo to go to the Omega for our last meal in Upstate New York for a while.  This weekend was our last real trip until… well who knows when.  If it wasn’t for the wedding on Friday we wouldn’t have considered traveling this weekend either.

There was much to be done at dad’s after we returned from lunch.  I spent some time working on my class work for my graduate class at RIT and did the base operating system install on the HP Proliant DL385 G5 that has been sitting in dad’s basement.  CentOS 5.2 with Xen.

Dad and Dominica worked on some serious packing projects as we are taking a number of items back with us to Newark that will be moved by the movers in a few weeks to the new house in Peekskill.  Today is also the day in which we winterize the BMW and take the Mazda PR5 out of storage and put it back to good use.  I will never, I think, get over how strange it feels to own a car that you routinely do not sit in for six months and then suddenly drive it out of the barn and drive away with it.  And compared to that, owning the RX7 that hasn’t been driven regularly in five or six years is truly bizarre.  I am used to people owning shells of cars but actual, working, ready-to-go cars in storage is strange.

It ended up being about six in the evening when we finally pulled out of dad’s Peoria estate and hit the long road back to Newark.  We found it strange to think about this round trip home being the first time that we had the opportunity to drive on the newly completed Interstate 99 corridor that we have spent years watching be constructed.  Finished just in time for us to move and have little ongoing need for that route.  After this trip we will be getting very, very used to the entire length of Interstate 86 once again.

The trip south went very well.  We stopped in Mansfield, Pennsylvania and fueled the car (the PR5 has a smaller tank and uses lower grade fuel than the BMW and prices have come down so much!)  A fill up on the BMW has been about $55 and a complete fuel up on the PR5 tonight was just $34!

We stopped at McDonald’s in Mansfield to have a quick bite and were back on the road, after getting confused about how to re-enter the highway, in about an hour.  I listened to my book, “Lost on Planet China”, on my iPod for a bit of the trip while Dominica took a nap.

It was eleven thirty when we arrived in Newark and, hopefully for the last time, loaded up the luggage cart and took a haul of stuff from our car up to the apartment.  After this, all loads should be exiting the building, not entering it.

Oreo has been extremely itchy all week and this weekend it seemed to be getting quite a bit worse.  I took Oreo for a walk after we arrived and we almost couldn’t continue walking because he constantly had to stop to scratch his face.  It is very sad and he is definitely note feeling very well.  We looked at his muzzle closely after we got back to the apartment and he has scratched himself raw and is starting to bleed!  We are going to evaluate him in the morning and see what his condition is then and figure out what needs to be done.

I checked my computer that was loaded up with Handbrake jobs to run while we were gone.  I did such a good job of keeping it busy that the load that I started on Thursday afternoon was still running and was not likely to complete until almost morning!  That was a lot of work out of the way that I would have just been sitting around waiting for otherwise.  I am very glad that I made the decision to run it for the three plus days that we were gone.

Tomorrow I have to go into the office even though it is Columbus Day.  Normally I would have Columbus Day off but I am covering for people tomorrow and will be off on the twenty-second instead so that I can go to the closing for the house without having to take a day off from work.  It really could not have worked out any better timing-wise.

Tomorrow is also the day that Dan and I will be heading down to the tip of Whitehall to try out our local New York Health and Racquet Club which has a pool.  My intention is to go swimming during my lunch break and to see how I like it.  I would really like to get into a serious exercise regimen and it is such a hard thing to do.  Being able to go over lunch in the middle of the day is the perfect solution.  It should, in theory, actually save me money by keeping me from being able to go out to eat anywhere expensive on the days that I go to the gym.  That, in addition to the discount that I get from the office making the membership just $75 per month with a six month commitment, seems like a pretty good deal.

October 11, 2008: Baby Shower

41 Days to Baby Day! (34 Weeks and One Day Pregnant)

15 Work Days Left for Dominica; House closing scheduled in 10 days.

I was awoken this morning by my father yelling that there was someone on the phone who needed me whom he was unable to comprehend.  I had thought that my work this morning was scheduled to commence at eleven but it was actually at ten and I needed to get up and get to work.  You can see how I confused the time as the correct time was 10 on 10/11 but I thought that it was 11 on 10/11 which is exacerbated by the fact that one of the scheduled had it as 10 on 11/11.

Baby Shower - Dominica Opening Giraffe

I ended up only needing to work for about an hour right at that point.  That meant that dad and Dominica hadn’t quite left for Geneseo to get lunch yet and I was able to go along with them to the Omega Grill.  So we went to Geneseo at lunch time and after we ate went to Lakeville to the Benjamin Moore paint store so that Dominica could get paint chips so that she can do some decision making for the new house.

The plan is that dad and my aunt Sharon are going to be painting the upper floor of the new house in Peekskill over the first week that we own the house while Dominica and I are still living in Newark.  Dominica’s plan is to have aunt Sharon go over the colours with her to help her make a decision on the scheme.

We spent the afternoon just relaxing at dad’s house.  It was around two when we got back from our trip to Geneseo and we went down to the Richardson’s at five for the family baby shower.

The Ralstons went to the baby shower along with my Upstate New York family: dad, Sharon & Leo, Sara, Jeremy & Rachael and Jim & Shirley.  We had snacks and then Dominica opened presents while I took pictures.  I will be doing that a lot from now on, I expect.  Looking on and taking pictures.  It’s part of being the dad.  (With this round of pictures, we now have over 3,000 posted on Flickr – and I have hundreds of old pics yet to post from my archives and the bulk of our wedding pictures have not yet been digitized!)

We got a lot of really great stuff that we really need quite soon.  Now it really feels like there is a pending baby coming any day!  We have really shifted into “baby coming soon!” mode at this point.

We had dinner and hung out with the family and the Ralstons until pretty late – a little after ten.  We have been staying up way later than we should all weekend.  We drove back to dad’s house and dad and Dominica went to bed.

I drove up to Tim Horton’s on Jefferson Road near Marketplace and met Andy for coffee at eleven thirty.  We ended up hanging out there until about four in the morning.  It was about five when I finally got to bed!

On my drive this evening I finished reading “Getting Stoned with Savages” and started reading “Lost on Planet China” both by J. Maarten Troost.

October 10, 2008: Joe and Nikki’s Wedding

42 Days to Baby Day! (34 Weeks Pregnant)

15 Work Days Left for Dominica; House closing scheduled in 11 days.

I was very, very exhausted this morning when the alarm on my BlackBerry went off alerting me that it was time to log into the office and get started on the day.  I am covering the early shift this morning so that I can go to Joe and Nicole’s wedding this afternoon in Rochester.

Howlett Wedding - About to Exchange Rings

The drive from Newark to Peoria went pretty well last night.  About as good as we could hope for.  The weather was nice and there was almost no traffic once we were out of Newark itself.  We stopped at Dunkin Donuts at Exit 27 on i80 and got flatbread sandwiches for dinner.

Tonight was the first time that Dominica and I got to drive the new northern extension of Interstate 99 (running alongside US 15) connecting the rest of 99 up into New York.  What a difference the new road makes.  We have been watching them build this stretch for years; it has been a really ambitious project.  The new addition to the highway is really spectacular.  It saves us quite a bit of time and makes the drive quite a bit easier.  It shaves five minutes off at a minimum and easily ten to fifteen.  It is enough of a difference that if the GPS unit knew that the road was there it would switch the recommended route from the i81 corridor to the i99 corridor.  They are so close in time that this swings it over the edge.  As it is the GPS thinks that we are driving on an empty hillside and freaks out for quite a while.

It was six minutes past one in the morning when we pulled into dad’s driveway.  We sat up talking until two thirty or a little later.  It is so hard to get to bed right after having driven for so long.

I didn’t get to sleep in at all.  Three hours of sleep is about all that I was able to get.  I was up at six thirty and logged into the office to start my day.  Wow was I tired.  Today is going to be quite long.

Dad and Dominica went over to the Omega Grill in Geneseo for a really late breakfast and brought me back lunch.  I was so busy that there was no way that I could leave the office for any amount of time.  Also, since I am working an early shift today and knocking off on the early side I didn’t want to also disappear for lunch even if it wasn’t busy so I worked through my lunch.

My day ended up being insanely busy.  I was on the phone for much of the day.  At one point I was trapped for almost three hours trying to just get in to use the restroom!  It was a crazy day.

I worked right up until three in the afternoon.  We had to literally run out the door to get up to Greece for the wedding.  I was on the phone right up until the last second and on instant messenger telling people that I could no longer keep working.  It was just a really busy day.

We ended up arrived at Hope Lutheran Church on Vintage Lane in Greece, New York at three forty – twenty minutes early for the wedding which was far more leeway than we guessed that we would have.  We are never early to weddings so this was pretty amazing (Dominica was very late to Phil and Kate’s wedding when we met so it kind of set a precedent I guess.)

We sat with Nate, Tammy, Eric and Peggy Parker.  Jeff Simpson made it to the wedding but sat in the back on the other side so we did not know that he was there until after the service.

The wedding was very nice.  Hope Lutheran is am amazing venue for a wedding.  What a great facility.  We were surprised when Jeff found us after the service.  The five of us (Jeff, Nate, Dominica, Tammy and I) hung out at the church for about half an hour.  We had a little time to kill before the reception at six thirty (it was about four thirty at this point but there was some driving to do) and Jeff needed to drive home to pick up his wife, Danielle, before the reception.  So Nate, Tammy, Dominica and I drove to Tim Horton’s on Lake Avenue next to Kodak Park and got some coffee and visited.

The reception was at the Burgundy Basin in Pittford, New York on the east side of Rochester.  The church was in Greece just a few blocks from where Joe’s old house used to be but he and Nikki have just recently completed building a new house in Farmington much closer to where Joe works.  The Burgundy Basic is a rather famous wedding reception location in Rochester although I have never been there before.

We had a really good time at the reception.  It was really nice to get a chance to hang out with Nate and Tammy and Jeff and Danielle as we almost never get to see any of them.  Dominica and I didn’t do any dancing.  Between my back and her being so far along there was no way that we were getting up to dance.

We stayed at the wedding until around elevenish which was much later than we had anticipated on being out.  We were having a really good time and didn’t want to leave.  Instead of a DJ, they had a live band, Unlimited, who happened to be the same live band that Jeff and Danielle Simpson had at their wedding.  They were excellent – quite impressive.