September 27, 2008: Super Foggy Day

55 Days to Baby Day! (32 Weeks and One Day Pregnant)

Got up at eight this morning to work.  Saturday morning work really is not so bad, especially this week when we need the money so badly.

There was a crazy amount of fog here in Newark this morning.  As I came out to the living room to get to work I was greeted to a completely white world outside.  I had to walk very close to the window before I could see a building close enough to us to be visible at all.  Only those buildings directly adjacent to us are poking out of the mist.  Everything else is completely obscured.  Very strange living in a place with a view that regularly varies from hundreds of feet to around twenty miles are so!  The variance is quite amazing on a day to day basis.  This is pretty extreme though.

It is strange that I am amazed by this because growing up on the farm we had a far farther view close to thirty or forty miles to both the north and the south and a good ten miles east.  I think being in a high rise eliminated the gradual drop off of visibility and makes it occur in steps that cause it to seem to be more pronounced.  Manhattan, for example, can disappear all on its own while leaving Newark visible.  Buildings disappear one block at a time not gradually inch by inch.

My morning work lasted until around eleven.  Then it was time for my homework.  I did my class reading assignment and put some thought into my homework but never really had a chance to work on it directly.  That will have to wait until tomorrow.

I ended up working almost a full day today for the office.  As one thing would end another would begin.  It was a really long day.  At least the weather was really nice.

I lost some ground on my back today.  It was doing pretty well yesterday but today it is hurting a bit again.  So I am continuing on my regimen of ibuprofen.

Dominica did lots of laundry today.  We tend to get pretty backed up on laundry if we travel at all.  She also gave Oreo an herbal ear cleaning with a new dog ear cleaning solution that she found from Halo recently.  He didn’t really like it but it did seem to reduce the amount of ear itching that he has been doing.

Dominica spent a lot of the day watching Magnum P.I. She is starting to catch up with me a little bit.  I think that I watched four seasons without her.  If I remember correctly, I watched most of those when I was living in North Brunswick, New Jersey by myself in early 2006.

I put in a bunch of time this afternoon working on the server at the school in Castile.  I installed Squid and got it set up to run as the school’s proxy server so that the students can get online again.  We use a whitelisting system where we approve web sites ahead of time and block all others which is the opposite of most people’s approach of block sites that they don’t want and allowing everything by default.

For the past few years we have been using DansGuardian for this type of web filtering but we are going with just plain, simple Squid which is a bit easier to manage.  I prefer not having the extra piece of software to deal with if at all possible and since we only do whitelisting it really is easier just to use Squid for that.

I also did a bit of work creating a build script for the school this afternoon.  We have a single script which will run, applying all needed packages and setting up each of the computers which helps us keep the entire environment completely identical and gives us a means for rebuilding and/or repairing machines very quickly.  It is going to be very, very handy once it is all done.  I am hoping that I will be able to run it by Monday or so.

For dinner we decided to be lazy and to just get tuna salad sandwiches from the deli in our apartment building.  Getting food from their is cheaper than most places that we might try to go to (or order from) and only takes a few minutes.  The food is pretty good but the selection is nothing exciting except for the fact that they do do breakfast all day long.  So eggs, pancakes, french toast, etc. along with grilled cheese, tuna salad products, egg salad and tossed salads, but that is about all that they have for us vegetarians.

I went down and got food and then we spend a while watching some of Magnum P.I. and The Fresh Prince of Bel Air Season Two on our AppleTV.  My back was really bad this evening.  I was barely able to walk and seeing as we have no chairs in our bedroom, which is the only room in which we can watch AppleTV or DVDs, I had to sit on the bed propped up against the wall which didn’t do much to help my back situation.

I worked on the CCA script on my OLPC while we watched AppleTV.  I was not very productive but it makes me feel a little bit better to at least be doing something.  I did get some work done just not nearly as much as if I had been not watching AppleTV.

Tonight is Katie’s 30th birthday party up in Haverstraw.  We had wanted to go but Dominica really is not up to doing anything extra in the evenings and it is not like she could drink either, and neither could I unless I was going to make Dominica drive which we try to do as little as possible.  It definitely turned out to be the right decision not to go to the party tonight as originally we had though that both my back was going to be a bit better, rather than quite a bit worse, and we thought that I was just working for two hours or so this morning and not almost eight hours!

Tomorrow I need to finish up my week’s homework and do more CCA preperation work for Monday.  We are hoping that most of the computers will be usable on Monday for the students.

September 26, 2008: Debate Day

56 Days to Baby Day! (32 Weeks Pregnant)

It is a cold and rainy morning here in the New York Metro area.  I am very excited that summer seems finally to have broken and the nice weather has begun.  It is amazing how happy a nice, cool day can make me.  We have the windows open and I am wearing a fleece in the apartment – just as it should be.

We decided that because of Dominica and my schedules today that Oreo could skip daycare and stay at home.  He loves his lazy mornings when he does not have to leave his cocoon of fleece blankets on our bed.  He is like a babe in swaddling in there with just his nose protruding to get him fresh air.

My back seems to have improved a bit this morning.  Impossible to tell for sure.  It seems to get better throughout the day and then be worst in the mornings.  Perhaps that is because of the stress of getting out of bed after it has sat mostly motionless for so long.  I am still taking ibuprofen today.  Maybe I can cut that out tomorrow.

My morning at work, which started at six thirty, started off nice and slow.  Friday morning are usually slow but you never know what can happen.

Dominica left work around noon  to go up to her new doctor’s office in Peekskill where she was supposed to meet with their insurance specialist.  But that person didn’t come to work today so she has to drive all of the way up there just to fill out some paperwork.  Clearly this clinic doesn’t think that women should have jobs and should spend their time spinning their wheels at the doctor’s office for no reason.

In a cruel twist of ironic fate, after years of living in Newark and having one fender issue after another with the BMW, we are just days away from moving to Peekskill and Dominica has a small parking accident with the BMW and does some fender damager – in Peekskill, of all places!  At least we didn’t get the car fixed yet from all of the other issues before this happened.  That would have been really depressing.

Today was another long day but that is not surprising.  There is no way to shorten a Friday and when I work the early shift it is just that much longer.  Today was a good thirteen hours after two twelve hour days, and tomorrow I start again at eight in the morning.

I spent a couple of hours working on my homework.  We had a major assignment due today (Friday) and have our regular assignment due in two days (Sunday) so it is a busy homework week for me.  I got my homework done and submitted around nine thirty which was much earlier than I had thought that I would be able to complete it so I was pretty happy.

Dominica spent the evening watching “television”.  First she watched some Kitchen Nightmares on Hulu and then watched the fist disc of the second season of Bones which had just arrived today from NetFlix.  After that she watched the final few episodes of the final season of Frasier which I had watched without her last week.

Kevin and Ryan were over at the new sports bar that has recently opened in the space where the Savoy used to be.  The Savoy was a nice restaurant, a bit overpriced, but a good addition to downtown Newark.  Adding yet another competing bar doesn’t seem like a good idea.  There are so many bars here and so few restaurants that they are just taking each other’s business rather than adding anything to downtown.

By the time that I realized that Kevin and Ryan were trying to reach me they had already left the bar and were down in the lounge watching the presidential debate between McCain and Obama.  So I changed my clothes and went down to the lounge to watch the debate.  Believe it or not, tonight was the first time that I have ever seen Barrack Obama on television and the first time that I have seen McCain on television related to this year’s election!

After the election we tried to go over to Sculley’s which had said that it would be open until midnight but, as always, it was closed when we got there even though it was just ten thirty.  I imagine that they will be out of business soon.  They aren’t open weekends ever and now we have problems going there on weeknights too.  It takes some serious effort to be able to get into Sculley’s, I have no idea when they are open or why.  So we went over to the Key Club instead.

We had a few drinks and appetizers and stayed until around midnight.  I couldn’t stay out any later than that as I have to be up to work at eight in the morning.  Tomorrow evening is Katie’s birthday party up in Rockland County, New York.  We are not sure whether or not we will be able to make it.  We are trying to go but will have to play it by ear.  It will depend heavily on my work and homework situations.

September 25, 2008: Still Some Bad Back Pain

57 Days to Baby Day! (31 Weeks and Six Days Pregnant)

Happy birthday to semi-regular reader Jeremy Richardson!

Even going to bed around ten the morning alarm came way earlier than expected.  Getting up this morning my back feels as though it has improved some but overall it still feels pretty bad.

The weather has turned much cooler today and the apartment is actually a little chilly for a change.  I am happy about that.  I am tired of the heat here in the city.  Because of the child safety windows in our building (we have no screens and they are important as Oreo could, in theory, call out an open window) we get very little airflow even high up here looking over the city.

Dominica convinced me to start taking ibuprofen to reduce swelling in my back just in case this is spinal related and not muscle related.  It has probably been seventeen years since I have had ibuprofen in my system.  Seems strange to be taking it.

We got a little news about the new house today.  We are still attempting to get an official and final closing date but we know that everyone is shooting for sometime between October 7th and October 15th.  That is the week window and I guess that everything looks good for us to be able to hit that.  Getting the house a few days early would not be a bad thing.  It would give us time to strategize and some opportunity to haul some items from Newark to the house in the Mazda PR5 before the real move happens.  A few car loads ahead of time can really make things a lot easier, especially considering how little we actually have in the apartment.

We had a production issue today that kept me on the phone for most of the day.  In some ways that makes the day seem to pass more quickly but mostly it just makes it hard to get all of the things done that need to be completed in the day as it is pretty much impossible to do anything useful while on a conference call.

Today was another long one.  I didn’t even get to leave the apartment for lunch today or anything.  I ended up working for the office until seven in the evening!  What a long day.

Dominica brought home dinner from On the Border.  I watched some of one episode of Magnum P.I. with her while we ate but had to get back out to the office in the living room before the episode was much more than halfway through.  She watched more after I left.  I have watched the first several seasons of Magnum P.I. without Dominica and she has never seen the show so she is now catching up with me so that we can watch the rest of the show together.

I got paged out twice this evening.  It is so hard to really get into anything, like my homework, and manage to really wrap my brain around it as I am constantly being interrupted.  While trying to settle in to my homework this evening I had the pages, had to feed Oreo his two late meals, had to walk Oreo in the rain, etc.  Each interruption is tiny but each one breaks my chain of thought and it takes fifteen minutes for me to figure out what I was thinking about and upon what I was last working.

I worked on my homework until eleven twenty.  That was about all that I could handle for the night.  I am very hopeful that I will have a chance to work on it tomorrow morning.  It has to be turned in tomorrow so I only have so many choices.  I am somewhat thankful that I am on the early shift this week as that is actually likely to create more time for me to work on the homework than I would normally have.  It is also getting me some desperately needed overtime this week.

I went back to Monday’s post and added in a picture of dad’s Mercury with the server cabinet mounted onto the trunk lid just before we drove on down to Castile with it.  If you did not see the picture, it is well worth checking out.  Imagine us driving from Peoria to Castile, New York with that huge chunk of steel mounted to the trunk of the car with Dominica and I following in the BMW!  People had to think that we were completely insane.  People at the office thought that we were crazy when I showed them the picture.  Most people’s reaction was “that must have scratched up that car horribly” but, in the end, there was not a single scratch on the car from the cabinet.  Although my back continues to feel it.

I am continuing to take ibuprofen to bring down any potential swelling in my back.  As far as I can tell, it is helping.  I think that I will be in pretty good shape by this weekend.  I sure hope so at least.

Tomorrow, Dominica has to take a half day from work and drive up to Peekskill in the afternoon to meet with our insurance agent about her transferring from a doctor in Newark up to a doctore at Hudson Valley Medical Center.  So she will likely be home rather early.  That means that Oreo will be able to stay at home tomorrow instead of going to daycare.  That will help offset the loss of hours and the gas up to Westchester just a tiny bit.

September 24, 2008: We Found Davey and Goliath

58 Days to Baby Day! (31 Weeks and Five Days Pregnant)

My back was still awful this morning when I got out of bed.  It was hard to sleep last night because it hurt so much.  But by two thirty in the morning I was able to feel it improving so at least I knew that it would be getting better even if it still hurt a lot.

My work day started at six thirty this morning.  Quite an early start after a couple of really busy days.  The upside is that any overtime that I can rack up this week will be very, very appreciated as I believe that this is the last week of work that I will do that will count toward money that we will have in hand for our house closing.

Speaking of our house closing, we are three weeks away today from the original proposed closing date and we have yet to hear anything different.  So we are assuming that we are still on target to close in three weeks.  Hopefully I will have a chance to get more information about that tomorrow.

Oreo was very excited to get to go back to daycare today.  He was up and ready to go this morning without even trying to get back into bed like he usually would try to do.  Dominica said that when Oreo got to Doggie Paradise that the other dogs inside were barking at him because they knew that he had arrived.  He started barking back to them like a conversation.  It seems that they have missed each other and that he has been away for too long.  He is a very social dog.

Work was not too busy today even with the catch up work that I had to do from being away from the office for the past few days.  It really just felt like a Monday morning to me.  I am going to be very happy in two days when my body realizes that it is the weekend again already.  Only three days of work this week!

I found out today that I was overpaid back in March and that I have to pay back out of my next paycheck just over one day’s pay.  I can’t really complain as we have had access to the money all this time but after six months you sure do not expect to suddenly lose pay that you have had all of this time.  Just over one day of pay is no big deal but when it is in the home stretch to closing on the house it is just another big monetary surprise.

These final few weeks leading up to the house closing have just been one financial surprise after another.  The tires and miscellaneous car stuff was one big one – right after we had had the car inspected so that we were sure that they were not going to hit us until the spring when the BMW would come out of storage.

My college, RIT, did the “no scholarship” thing this semester which is always painful.  It isn’t that I lose my scholarship but that I have to pay for this semester completely up front and I will get reimbursed sometime around January.  Long after I need the money for the house.

The big, final surprise is that the closing on the house is more than double our original estimated cost and several thousand dollars more than what we had thought that it was going to be just a week ago.  We’ve been “surprised” with more financial mishaps in total than we thought that the closing was originally going to cost – and that is before the closing doubled in total cost.  So all in all we are stuck raising more than three times the total amount of money that we had thought that we were going to need.  This is not fun.

Working the early shift often results in me working an extra long day.  Today was no exception.  I worked an even twelve hour day today from six thirty to six thirty whilst eating lunch at my desk and working while I ate.

Dominica had a doctor’s appointment today.  Just a regular checkup.  Everything went well.  She is gaining weight finally so no more worries there.  For quite some time she was actually losing weight or holding steady, but now she is gaining normally.

The baby has been super active for the past two weeks.  Constantly dancing in there.  It is really weird.  It doesn’t take any work to “feel the baby kicking”, you can see the baby kicking!  That baby gets more exercise than I do.

Once Dominica got home we ordered in dinner from Eli – eggplant parm subs and large tossed salads – and settled in for the evening watching the pilot episode of Magnum P.I. Dominica has only ever seen a single episode of Magnum so we are starting from the beginning and she is getting to know the show.

After Magnum we were surfing through the AppleTV Podcast directory and what a surprise – the 1960 stop-motion television show Davey and Goliath was at the top of the list as one of the most popular podcasts on the AppleTV!  When I was young D&G was one of the shows that I would often watch on network television on the weekends.  The show was made from 1960 until 1975 so did not feel as old as it might have even given the stop-motion animation.  Many shows of that style, mostly Christmas specials, were still very popular when I was little.

You can check out the new Davey and Goliath Podcast on the Miro Directory.  From this, it would appear that the podcast is a brand new effort.  The D&G website has not yet been updated with information pertaining to the podcast.

Tonight is an early to bed night for us.  I have been pretty tired all day.  Dominica is always tired as you can imagine being this far into the third trimester, and I am exhausted as my back just needs time to heal and it has not been getting it thus far.  A couple long nights of sleep will probably do the trick.  Too bad I have homework due on Friday so I have to do it tomorrow whether or not I have any extra time to spare.